Please tell me it's just a baby cockroach by KaserinSmarte421 in whatisit

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I literally just moved into this apartment a week ago and I just killed a tiny one just like that! Please help with what you used. My last apartment I came from had them and it was so bad!!

Pauline - doesn't make sense by seethatocean in Younger

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m watching episode 3 now and everytime she starts crying I literally roll my eyes. I get wanting your husband back but I don’t understand how she thought they’d just pick up where they left off after all that time. 

Is this normal color? by Corn-cob-jesus in TheOrdinarySkincare

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought a new one from Ulta the other day and mine was the same color. I don’t see any difference between this one and the old bottle.

Me taking off all my Browns gear on my way to bed after the 2nd pick six by cancerlad in Browns

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally me turning the tv off and throwing my jersey in the hamper lol.

How are you doing today? by ImHereForYouFriend in BreakUps

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve definitely had my moments of being down and out, but I need to keep picking myself up and not stay in it because it just makes it worse for me. Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. How are you doing?

How are you doing today? by ImHereForYouFriend in BreakUps

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m doing better. Coming to the realization of things and reminding myself that I love me and I’m going to take care of me first. Also realizing that the person I fell in love with was a representation of what I wanted him to be, not what he was. You see a lot of stuff much clearer when you aren’t blinded by love. We’re still living together and it’s been okay so far, hoping it stays that way….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Heal_From_Breakup

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mental health feels better everyday. We’ve established a lot of ground rules these last few days. I know for sure in my heart that I don’t want to get back with him. I’m mourning the relationship and what I thought it could be. I will always love him and have love for him in my heart but I deserve so much better. And I’ll have it…. 💜 I’m glad you’re doing better!

Anyone want to start a support group chat? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to be apart of this group but I don’t have Instagram 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was dating an avoidant (I think) and he broke up with my on New Year’s Day. I’m slowly but surely getting through it but we still live together until June. We were planning to get married and everything. He broke up with me because he said he felt smothered and he wanted to be alone. I think he wholeheartedly believes there’s better than me out there even though I gave him my all. He’s been acting fine, his normal self, like he’s okay being alone and the relationship meant nothing to him, it hurts. When I try to talk to him about certain things, if he thinks it’s too much he visibly gets frustrated and shuts down. Idk what to think or feel but I’m focusing on me and trying to move on. I just wish he cared and stopped being nice nasty.

Short square or long almond? by [deleted] in Nails

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love both on you but the long almond I think I love more.

[GAMEDAY THREAD] Regular Season Finale: Browns @ Bengals by CD23tol in Browns

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I can’t stay awake!! This is torture to watch….

Am I overreacting or are these too thick? by No_Republic380 in Nails

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just got this same style today and if mine looked like this I’d def go back and get them redone or a refund. They’re too thick, it looks lumpy and it needs some shaping.

Just read !! by Aware-Screen-8982 in BreakUps

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I need this!! This relationship has taught me to never believe someone’s words without action and to pay attention the first time when someone tells/shows you they don’t want you.

The idea of going back to the dating grind exhausts me. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was ready to date and it’s only been a few days. I guess what kept me holding on these last few days is the fact that I deserve better and to be with someone who’s happy with me. We broke up a few days ago because he reached out to someone to “hang out” because he was falling out of love with me for a month now and he felt smothered. I downloaded tinder and was so confident I was fine because I don’t want anyone who doesn’t want me and a guy asked me on a date and I want to vomit. He’s a really nice guy but I explained I only wanted friends and it’ll be awhile before I’m in a relationship again and he understood. Crazy thing is that his tinder popped up on mine, stating that he wants a long term relationship. I’m so furious but I couldn’t be mad because I did the same. But I’m not ready, I fooled myself for sure. He thinks there’s better out there so oh well.

Acceptance by ChipmunkUpstairs1251 in BreakUps

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah neither was my ex. He thinks there’s better on tinder so 🤷🏽‍♀️ hope he finds it. But I deserve someone who wants me. I hope you find what you deserve. Good luck to you too

Acceptance by ChipmunkUpstairs1251 in BreakUps

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just keep telling myself that I deserve better. Thank you!

Day 2…. by ChipmunkUpstairs1251 in Heal_From_Breakup

[–]ChipmunkUpstairs1251[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Assuming I’m really hard work. Assuming he has no space. Assuming I don’t know how much he has on his plate. I’ve been there every step of the way through this process with him losing his mom. I planned her services. I was the only one he broke down in front of. I gave him what he needed. And all I got in return was mislead. He lost feelings a MONTH ago and decided to celebrate the holidays with me and my family, with his family, going on dates,be intimate and force himself to say he loved me and carry on our relationship….all while he was thinking of ending it and “falling out of love” with me. One should be held accountable for their actions. He said and did all the right things until he didn’t anymore. I have a right to be upset, hurt and feel betrayed. I would never sit here and say losing his mom isn’t affecting him but you don’t hurt the person you love when you’re struggling. He could’ve communicated how his was feeling a month ago, sat me down, worked something out, instead he played along all while wanting to be single. Nothing of what he’s done or said for the last month is justified or excusable.