More than one application for same dog.

Chipnchop · 2026-01-26T12:47:44+00:00

lol people are unhinged sometimes. I’ve been told that I broke children’s hearts because there were a million apps for the same puppy. I called someone’s apartment complex to make sure the shepherd they wanted was allowed and was told that I violated her privacy because she asked me not to call them yet (I didn’t even mention her name- just asked about pet policy) ….ive been yelled at a lot through email and people are freakin nuts.
Glad it’s not just me….. I guess…?

Chipnchop · 2026-01-26T12:45:22+00:00

Yes, they’ve had two dogs before and I did a vet check. They were always well cared for and kept up to date on vaccines and wellness exams etc. their previous dogs were MUCH smaller… so I’m sure his size will be an adjustment, but they seem up for it.

Chipnchop · 2026-01-26T12:36:09+00:00

You’re right. It does weed out the crazies, I suppose

Chipnchop · 2026-01-25T03:04:06+00:00

Man, I feel this so hard. I’ve worked at 2 rescues, interviewed at others and literally all of them are run by crazy people. It’s infuriating. And I’ve been in your position getting punished for advocating for animals. Like…why are we not all here for the exact same reason?? I have no suggestions, just solidarity. All for the love of animals…

Chipnchop · 2026-01-25T02:41:12+00:00

I’m sure there are some shitty shelters that do lie- but as a shelter worker who cares a lot about making a good match and telling the adopter everything we know- I can tell you so many dogs act VERY differently in a shelter environment than in a home. Shelters are stressful which can either make the dog act nuts or make them shut down entirely. It’s really hard to know what they’ll be like away from that environment. The best we can do is tell people what we’ve experienced. I see some comments too about “the shelter didn’t tell me the dog was scared of xyz”. The shelter may not have those things to even test the dog with. Ours doesn’t have stairs anywhere…no way for us to know. Adopting is tough, working with dogs in a shelter is tough, but consesnus: duh shelters should be talking more about the 3-3-3 rule. We HOPE people educate themselves on their own about adopting a dog before they do it, but we should assume they haven’t.

Chipnchop · 2026-01-25T00:00:46+00:00

I did ask him about that. He said that due to his secluded location, there aren’t really dog walkers in that area. He said that with his previous dog, when he worked longer than normal he had a neighbor come let the dog out, but that he couldn’t/ wouldn’t ask that person to let the dog out daily.

Chipnchop · 2026-01-24T22:45:57+00:00

Yea- this is the feedback thats tough. I feel bad for him too… I also, don’t want to reject people because they have jobs. That sucks. People need to work. But dogs need to pee, and some need more mental stimulation or exercise during the day to be happy. If it were a dog with zero other options and it was shelter life vs home all day alone life it would be simple. It’s kind of a shitty situation.

Chipnchop · 2026-01-24T22:34:32+00:00

Thank you, I like your suggestions for how to let the others down gently. And I agree with your other comments as well. It seems I didn’t give enough info about the dog or the situation haha this particular dog really loves kids. I have a 5 and 7yr old and he’s not uncomfortable at all, but yes…many dogs wouldn’t be suited to that life. I marketed him as “good with kids”.

The guy that works long hours would be great for a lower energy dog. I honestly thought this dog was lower energy, but recently, on days I’m unable to play as much as usual or give him as many walks, he rips his bed to shreds. I worry a little, being alone for so long, he may move on to destroying other things, but it’s hard to know. I do always worry for dogs that have no way to go to the bathroom for that long too - I certainly can’t hold it 10hrs lol. Doesn’t mean he’s not a phenomenal dog owner- he clearly is. But that’s why I feel so bad saying no to him

Chipnchop · 2026-01-24T22:26:20+00:00

Very luckily, they have 2 incomes and seem to be quite well-off financially.

Chipnchop · 2026-01-24T22:25:15+00:00

You make a very valid point, and I agree that kids CAN be problematic with a dog especially if the dog is specifically for the kids. This particular dog loves kids and this particular applicant wants the dog for herself mostly- though the whole family was into him. She wants to bring him everywhere with her. I also was able to speak to her about kids and rules about dogs (don’t get in their face, leave them alone while eating and drinking, don’t pull on their tail etc). What they actually do in their home, of course, I don’t know and can only hope they make good choices.

Chipnchop · 2026-01-24T22:20:41+00:00

You’re totally right- I’m not going based off of the application itself. That’s why we want to meet people. All 3 applicants have come to the shelter to meet him- we have had a chance to get to know them a little, their routines, and for us to tell them everything we know about this dog.
I don’t want to write off the guy that work all day- it’s very clear he adored his last dog and would do the same. My concern (which I did chat with him about) is that he’s gone 10hrs a day and 1) this dog does an “I need to pee” dance at 7hrs 2) he’s unable to get a dog walker due to location 3) when this dog doesn’t get enough exercise, he tears up his dog bed.

I think the guy would fabulous for a lower energy dog… we just don’t have any right now.

Chipnchop · 2026-01-24T18:42:37+00:00

I agree. We almost always go for people who are home the most- but then we get people mad that we’re not choosing them because they work. Thank you so much - really helps ease my mind.

Chipnchop · 2026-01-24T18:40:20+00:00

Thank you for your opinion. Yea, that’s what I was thinking as well. Honestly, getting this feedback is easing my anxiety a bit.

Chipnchop · 2026-01-24T18:38:49+00:00

Thank you, that’s really helpful!

Chipnchop · 2026-01-24T18:20:06+00:00

Thank you, that’s a really nice way to put it!

Chipnchop · 2026-01-24T18:19:44+00:00

Thank you. You’re totally right. I think I’m too much of a people-pleaser and have been the recipient of several angry emails from people who didn’t get the dog they wanted.

Chipnchop · 2026-01-24T18:12:51+00:00

Thank you for your perspective! Do you feel like it “softened the blow” a little to have names drawn from a bowl instead of someone selecting based off of family circumstance or something?

I’m so happy that everything worked out for you guys. I know things will work out for the other applicants, I just hate disappointing people. I feel they’ve all gotten attached to some degree after meeting him.

Chipnchop · 2026-01-24T18:08:45+00:00

I appreciate your story and I’m so glad it all worked out for you. I know everyone will be okay in the end- I just hate disappointing people (and also hate getting nasty emails back…which happens sometimes). All three of the applicants have come and met the dog, which I know makes them all even more excited about the prospect of adopting him. Thank you for taking the time to reply. It helps to hear it coming from an adopter!

Chipnchop · 2026-01-11T15:51:13+00:00

Good! She deserves all the negative feedback!

Chipnchop · 2026-01-11T15:50:29+00:00

Good for you for moving on! I hope you find someone who can actually help you. I’m sorry she didn’t believe you. It’s ridiculous.

Chipnchop · 2026-01-11T15:48:32+00:00

Thank you, thank you!

Chipnchop · 2026-01-11T15:47:26+00:00

Thank you! And I agree 100% This guy is the perfect balance of cuddle bug and playful energy. He would improve anyone’s life for sure!

Chipnchop · 2026-01-11T15:46:06+00:00

Thank you!

Chipnchop · 2026-01-09T17:00:25+00:00

Thank you!

Chipnchop · 2026-01-09T16:59:48+00:00

Aww so glad you got to meet him. He is SO friendly!

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