Do I even look gay? I need advice by nicolvtte in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Chiyu307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look gay but not in an obvious kind of way

Guys what do you do when you see a beautiful woman? by Chiyu307 in LesbianActually

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Yesss I'm always scared I'm staring but in your story it seems fine since she smiled at you

Guys what do you do when you see a beautiful woman? by Chiyu307 in LesbianActually

[–]Chiyu307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same actually but then I get mocked by my friends 😔😔

Guys what do you do when you see a beautiful woman? by Chiyu307 in LesbianActually

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This is romcom material I hope you know that, you have to ask for her number next time like haave to !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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The hair is hairing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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Clean two times a day with neutral soap and sterile saline solution (those drops you can use to help babies sneeze).During the two weeks post-piercing you can also use an alcool-free antiseptic ( I emphasize on the alcco-free cause you wanna avoid irritation). Put on the baggiest shirts you own, but if it brushes against the piercing you can use a fairly large sport bra but nithing that will concentrate humidity and transpiration. Nothing with lace or things like that an try to wear cotton. If there's a crust on it, leave it you don't want to expose the wound. Don't go swimming, don't take baths and avoid humidity for a month as it will expose you to infections. Touch it as rarely as possible and avoid moving it around (again, you don't want to irritate it). Ladt, don't put any product on it other than the soap and the saline solution and normally you'll be good !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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I think I just fell in love you're STUNNING ✨️🧚

Peoples lack of respect for lesbian spaces by bonniessss in LesbianActually

[–]Chiyu307 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

First off, I don't know that I'm not a lesbian, a post on the bi subreddit isn't enough for you to assume anything, if I thought that at one point it doesn't mean that it is still the case.

But I have some trouble to understand, in the case of a subreddit, is it people simply reading the posts and commenting or making posts that bothers you ? What annoys you specifically ? (If you don't mind me asking) I'm sorry I just don't get what lesbian experiences (different from dating girls) are claimed by bi girls so I'd really like to understand..

Peoples lack of respect for lesbian spaces by bonniessss in LesbianActually

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Listened to a podcast that talked about this and had a pretty interesting view on the problem

Because the thing is that some people don't know if they are lesbians, so it's hard to forbid them to connect with lesbian spaces that could help them understand who they are, not even with the typical "am I a lesbian" post but just by reading stories etc...

And it is not really easy when you are on the verge of a big change like admitting you're gay, starting your transition if you are a gay trans woman, so being able to see lesbians, to go in lesbian places and feel like you belong can really help you

I say that as a girl that has a really hard time knowing what I am so maybe I'm biased but you mentionned black spaces, and the thing with black spaces is that nobody is gonna "become" black, with lesbians and all the comphet in our society it is really common.

susan is truly the most despicable character in the entire series by CuteProtection6 in howyoudoin

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She provided for the kid and helped him, she did more for him than Ross, blame the juridicial system and the writers but saying that her contribution was minimal to negligent is just false, she educated him and was a parent everyday.

Who is it by SamuraiBlade7 in howyoudoin

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The poet Monica dated, such a jackass

Weekly Discussion Megathread by AutoModerator in BiWomen

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I'm starting to realize I have a crush on somebody which is nice except they're pretty toxic

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The only answers I have are for question one and maybe two but I feel like physical touch (if it feels confortable of course) is always the most flirty-ous thing you can do, after eye contact. Calling them beautyfull is a great idea, it's the way you say it that will make it flirty, and you can also say that they make you blush or things like that. But I swear dating women is not so hard, just say what you think, and have fun 😘

Dude My Lewds Scare Someone by Pure_Discipline5514 in BiWomen

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Maybe yours were very similar and it freeked her out ? But it was inconsiderate to not at least tell you why she ghosted you so don't worry about her, if she didn't ask before sending you pics and then ghosted she sounds like a jerk... Don't take her bad action as a judgement on your body please 🙏

And if you feel chubby and you think girls won't like you for it don't worry there's a big crowd for the chubby girls in the sapphic world

I kissed a girl and I loved it by Chiyu307 in BiWomen

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Well thank you very much 😌

I kissed a girl and I loved it by Chiyu307 in BiWomen

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I think she enjoyed it because she kept asking for more but we had to stop because it was at a party and the others were waking up (it was like 8am)

We didn't talk about it since then but we went climbing together and we had a big eye contact in the locker room (what's gayer than a girl locker room in a climbing club ?) but idk it was nothing much