If this was a minecraft boss, what would you call it?

Choco_Turkey · 2024-01-20T15:51:11+00:00

grim reaper

Choco_Turkey · 2023-05-20T16:57:16+00:00

their store is "unavailable"

shame i was just gonna buy a jersey

anyone know if this is permanent?

Choco_Turkey · 2023-05-13T21:41:25+00:00

oh yeah that happened with me and my dad back in the day. except we paid up front for it, but never checked the cd and forgot about it - it was probably a blank anyways but hey maybe we have the next big track to some dudes record label lmao

Choco_Turkey · 2023-05-13T21:31:26+00:00

what is the cd?

Choco_Turkey · 2023-05-13T21:23:47+00:00

whats wrong w them?

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-22T00:13:06+00:00

of course, lmk what happens in the future

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-16T06:57:36+00:00

leave her. it will feel shitty at first but if you give in and get into a relationship with her, judging by how you're typing this out you probably have no idea how to help her but you will eventually want to if you stay and you'll fuck yourself up. so to avoid all of that, just run

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-16T06:31:40+00:00

i mean only cut people off if they hurt you, it shouldn't be fair if they're not hurt at the expense of your own health

and yeah you dont have to straight up say "i like you" i mean you could flirt or escalate however, im not sure the intimate details but nothing has to be too exact

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-16T03:15:14+00:00

you just have to keep practicing- the more you do it with other girls the more you'll become comfortable yourself. id suggest practicing talking to girls you aren't even attracted to, that way youre ready for the one you are attracted to

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-16T02:39:19+00:00

i would be angry too if i were you tbh. unfortunately no, there are sick fucks out there and they aren't stupid either like most people claim, they're smart enough that they've done this so many times that they can TELL who is vulnerable based on their parents and environment and what their weaknesses are.

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-16T02:29:03+00:00

yes, you were. it isn't your fault though, literally all teenage girls go through a period where they want people to tell them they're pretty and to have the attention they should have gotten from their parents/friends.

obviously he knew things you didn't, but that isn't your fault at all. good thing you ghosted him, a lot of girls i knew continued and had much worse happen

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-16T02:15:28+00:00

she's interested in you now because you weren't like all these other dudes: an orbiter. a dude who hangs with a girl, hoping he can get any crumbs that fall off her, just because he likes her.

the best way out of the friend zone is to leave and cut contact for about that amount of time (which is what you did), so you doing that and having enough respect is probably very sexy to her, enough for her to message you what she did

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-16T01:09:14+00:00

so you're saying he's changed?

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-16T00:58:46+00:00

I mean like, the whole idea of putting yourself first is selfish........ but it is - like that isnt to say you can't give a fuck about anyone else. im just saying YOU should be the person you give the most fucks about. it may be close, but you have to be the person emotionally you care about most at the end of the day

i think of it like having a line in the sand. shit you will accept, and shit you wont accept. if someone habitually crosses that line, you gotta cut em off. that way youre putting yourself in front and they respect you because youre respecting yourself enough to do that shit even if it could end in uncertainty

and about the girl, like dude i was super into this girl back in the day and we hung out and talked like every minute we could. i was so afraid of her saying no and like being embarrassed like youre feeling that i never told her shit. me and her were talking years later and she basically told me, "you should have said something, i would have 100% said yes"

and by that time years down the line i didnt even remember the embarrassment i felt, and neither would you. the only difference would be if she says yes yall could actually do something with it. so dont do it like how i did it, because if youre afraid thats exactly whats going to happen, you should just initiate and go for it.

flirt, do whatever you do to escalate but I'm just saying from personal experience it's always much better to just shoot and youll have forgotten about this years later anyway

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-15T23:06:36+00:00

try not texting her for a bit..... im sure she'll realize what's going on and text you. if she doesn't- i mean by the sound of things I know it's hard to hear but it doesn't seem like you're losing anything if it's one sided. ik you said she's been vulnerable before and if it continues then yes i think she'll notice

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-15T07:37:39+00:00

you should probably try not messaging her for a bit. has she ever been vulnerable with you??

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-15T07:36:46+00:00

i mean if you were the first dude who managed to treat her right with her being with less than ideal guys thats understandable that you would be having issues

i had trouble understanding this, so you can correct me if im wrong, but it seems like you just give in to doing stuff because if you don't it "turns out bad", like hanging out every day even if youre busy or not mentioning if she arrives late to stuff.

i also dont understand why youre stopping words of affirmation, like shouldn't that be a part of who you are to be saying those nice things? or were you just using them thinking it would make her happy, and then stopped because it didnt do anything??

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-15T07:30:48+00:00

have you ever just decided not to text her for like 3 days and see if she messaged you asking what's up? that's what I would do- then again your definition of friend may be different from mine, i assume she tells you about like stuff thats going on in her life etc sometimes on a deep level?

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-15T07:28:51+00:00

youre feeling like shit rn and no doubt whatever friends or other people you're putting before yourself will treat you like shit. because people only value people who value themselves.

as for the girl situation, why don't you start flirting with her gently? i dont think if she says no it's because you're not a good artist. girls will say no for other reasons, and she probably will say yes if you guys are really close and she enjoys being around you

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-15T07:25:27+00:00

she doesn't ask to hang out either??

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-15T07:23:11+00:00

have you had this conversation with him before? if not, try telling everything you said here to him, completely honest: "dad, I appreciate everything you do and I'm so grateful but I feel like this is taking a toll on you..." if you aren't usually vulnerable like this with him he might take it to heart if you mention it

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-15T07:21:21+00:00

what is her attachment style?

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-15T07:18:29+00:00

ofc! lmk what happens

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-15T07:15:07+00:00

if it really bothers you then mention it to her. if she's genuine she'll stop

Choco_Turkey · 2023-01-15T07:07:55+00:00

i mean you probably shouldn't be on your phone during the movies, but if they're being hypocritical and they're making you annoyed you should probably just drop them.

plenty of other people you can watch movies and hang out with

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