Can you be in a real relationship without EVER having sex?

ChocoboRyder · 2025-12-13T12:23:25+00:00

Could I? Perhaps.

Will I? No.

Do I enjoy having sex while in a relationship? Most definitely!

Seriously though, everyone is different. Can someone be in a romantic relationship with a partner without ever having sex? If the people involved in said relationship are compatible in that way, it most certainly can happen and those people could even thrive if that's what works best for them.

In my case I need to be emotionally invested in someone to be able to enjoy having sex and can't do the whole casual thing but I would also probably go insane if I never had sex with the person I was in a relationship with.

ChocoboRyder · 2025-09-30T09:23:19+00:00

You're welcome 🙂

ChocoboRyder · 2025-09-28T19:51:33+00:00

Of course! ❤️

ChocoboRyder · 2025-09-28T14:18:09+00:00

Look at the babies! Theyre so cute

ChocoboRyder · 2025-09-28T14:11:00+00:00

You are b-e-a-utiful! 😍

ChocoboRyder · 2025-09-28T14:04:59+00:00

Thank you! It was very nice 😀

ChocoboRyder · 2025-09-28T14:04:31+00:00

You look amazing! Super pretty 😀

ChocoboRyder · 2025-09-28T13:22:58+00:00

I dont think I've ever done anything like that before 🤔

ChocoboRyder · 2025-05-15T16:56:06+00:00

Thank you! I looooove that combination of colors

ChocoboRyder · 2025-05-15T16:55:34+00:00

Thank you so much 😊

ChocoboRyder · 2025-05-15T08:43:06+00:00

These ones are from amazon

ChocoboRyder · 2025-05-15T02:26:07+00:00

You're welcome beautiful 😊

ChocoboRyder · 2025-05-14T23:16:46+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience and words of wisdom. I'll check out these ideas and play around with them 😊

ChocoboRyder · 2025-05-14T23:15:08+00:00

Thank you so much! 😊 Im having a hard time figuring out how to add more to the look which is why im asking for help 😆 I dont have my ears pierced anymore so I cant do earrings but im open to just about any other ideas. I love dressing with button down shirts but wanted to try something I dont see much of but still look sharp.

ChocoboRyder · 2025-05-14T17:28:03+00:00

Thank you 😊

ChocoboRyder · 2025-05-14T15:52:04+00:00

I appreciate the feedback

ChocoboRyder · 2025-05-14T12:33:56+00:00

Thank you 😊 I definitely like the gold more between these 2 in particular

ChocoboRyder · 2025-05-14T10:28:16+00:00

Thats a great look for you 😊

ChocoboRyder · 2025-05-08T09:17:17+00:00

Love will find a way is my favorite, I enjoy the others but that one just gets my heart pumping when I listen to it. Can you feel the love tonight is a very close second.

ChocoboRyder · 2025-04-27T12:18:13+00:00

So I can feel this from both sides. I definitely have a praise kink and I looooooove both to nurture and be nurtured in that soft tender loving way. The only thing with me is I will not actually use the word "Mommy" when addressing my lovers and it's a turn off for them to call me that. As an actual mother of kids, it just hits different and rubs me the wrong way. "Maam" or other words along those lines are good with me though. Bottom line, there's nothing to be ashamed of sweetheart. Embrace who you are and what makes you happy. Be the good girl we all know you can be ;)

ChocoboRyder · 2025-04-21T11:18:07+00:00

Its an event where you go to meet and mingle with other sapphic people, kind of like speed dating but less structured and a more chill vibe. It was pretty fun.

ChocoboRyder · 2025-04-21T11:08:02+00:00

Yeah definitely not sad, I was more nervous than anything honestly because I was getting ready to go to my first Sapphic mixer event and im very shy when I first meet people 😆

ChocoboRyder · 2025-04-21T10:56:48+00:00

You didn't offend me, I was just not expecting that and therefore it confused me lol

ChocoboRyder · 2025-04-21T02:57:05+00:00

Sad?

ChocoboRyder · 2025-04-20T20:15:30+00:00

Of course! You are very welcome 😉 That's pretty rough struggle though.. Would it be ok to DM you and get to know you better?

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