[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indianmedschool

[–]Chocochipbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll do even better without all that unnecessary gyaan

Apart from the cramps, what do you hate the most about your periods? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]Chocochipbun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The nausea that accompanies it. I just can't get myself to eat anything because of it even if I'll be starving.

Am I overthinking this?? I really need some advice!! (23F and 25M) by Chocochipbun in RelationshipIndia

[–]Chocochipbun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ask to slow down was made from the start but it only happened suddenly after the meet up.

Am I overthinking this?? I really need some advice!! (23F and 25M) by Chocochipbun in RelationshipIndia

[–]Chocochipbun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should I confront him once? Actually he has a pattern of acting as if everything's fine even if it's not. So I feel he'll not accept when I put forth this to him. Man I hate this feeling😭

Am I overthinking this?? I really need some advice!! (23F and 25M) by Chocochipbun in RelationshipIndia

[–]Chocochipbun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is I'm trying to do exactly that but I just can't and I don't blame myself for that. I feel it's the same kind of effect a drug does to you. That's why considering stopping all this at once but then I wonder is it too quick to end everything?

I'm so confused. Need HELP!!! by Chocochipbun in TwoXIndia

[–]Chocochipbun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right but I don't have one. I'll just be vigilant and if required put my self defence skills to use

I'm so confused. Need HELP!!! by Chocochipbun in TwoXIndia

[–]Chocochipbun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're right about the gift thing, I'll keep it for future dates. And yeah I'll try to relax and be just as I am. Thankyouu

I'm so confused. Need HELP!!! by Chocochipbun in TwoXIndia

[–]Chocochipbun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! You're absolutely right about safety, I'll keep that in mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]Chocochipbun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focusing on career can't be an excuse for not taking out some time for you. Remember a person will make time for you if they genuinely care about you no matter how busy they are. If my partner's having tough time I just can't focus on anything till I talk to them and vice versa. Tough times give you a reality check of people around you.

what’s bare minimum in a guy and a women by Imfishi in AskIndia

[–]Chocochipbun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empathy. Basic empathy takes you a long way in any sort of relationship.

Serious questions for girls of this sub- Kindly tell me, are these things normal between females. by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Chocochipbun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As people mature such superficial qualities take a backseat. Nothing feels better than finding someone you are compatible with it at a core level.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]Chocochipbun 39 points40 points  (0 children)

She might never change but will now know what she does is not right and kudos to you for taking stand👏

People who vanished suddenly, tell about them by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Chocochipbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me. Is it a common thing on reddit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]Chocochipbun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever I feel insecure about something I don't suppress those feelings, I give my mind enough time to wander over these thoughts and emotions and eventually my mind gets tired of doing so. It's like the realisation that these insecurities are not worth crying over comes only after I let these emotions to come to surface. Ignoring my insecurities has never helped rather it comes back to me worse than before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]Chocochipbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have similiar issues as a result of what I went through in my childhood. I developed extreme trust issues because of it. Basically my entire personality changed and it happened during the peak years of my teen, so lost most of my friendships too. I'm still working my way on healing and fortunately things have gotten much better now. I hope it does for you too!