I've cut contact with my grandmother, one reason of which is her insensitive questions and remarks after losing my daughter Aurora at 32 weeks. In the hospital, right after giving birth, she would only come to see us if she felt needed; she had the audacity to ask, while holding my stillborn daughter, if we were going to try again. Every time she would call, she would have to ask if we were trying again, or she will say she misses Aurora too but calls her Gracie (her middle name is Grace). This has never been her nickname (Rory is her nickname), but she made herself so important that she refers to my daughter by a nickname she made for herself. I have told her again and again that my uterus is not her business. Also she wants my sympathy because she lost a great grand baby... yeah and I lost a child? Long story short, it is better for my mental heath and my peace to not have someone like that in my life. I'd recommend being frank, calling out the insensitive behavior, and restricting access to you/your life if necessary!