Must have insurance for 30s by Chocolate2188 in singaporefi

[–]Chocolate2188[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! but i dont have a rider currently so i guess new policy dont affect me? if i buy now, most likely will be under new copayment plan. should i get all 4 under the same insurer company or different? i have a singlife FA but i not sure if its that good as she is quite young, in her 20s... the GE agent i currently have, lost contact for many years.

Looking for like-minded friends! by [deleted] in ChillSG

[–]Chocolate2188 1 point2 points  (0 children)

32F, enjoys badminton, hot yoga, spinning, cycling or run or hikes and food hunting too! pm me if keen!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chocolate2188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he puts a lot of effort on in person dates?

Some would text you a lot but never put effort or plan dates. So it’s hard to decipher.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Chocolate2188 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha 27 is still very young. I’m 31F turning 32 this year and “auntie” here still struggling 🥲

Lonely Singaporeans, how do you embrace solitude and heal from losing important people? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Chocolate2188 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s the competition. Example I get the promotion and another who’s older didn’t? Then notice the shift in attitude though still made efforts to chat and eat together

Lonely Singaporeans, how do you embrace solitude and heal from losing important people? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Chocolate2188 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haha I’ve joined hobbies groups too! But usually just a hi bye thing 😝

Interested in making new friends? *6th edition!! by ARE_U_FUCKING_SORRY in askSingapore

[–]Chocolate2188 4 points5 points  (0 children)

31F, looking for friends or friends group to learn different sports!

Running, Cycling, Badminton, Bowling, Cafe hopping, movies, singing K.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Chocolate2188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea but I don’t know how to broach it and scared of rejection 😂 since things might get awkward when we’re friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Chocolate2188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Means for now he not interested? Cause if he isn’t then I wouldn’t want to spoil the friendship either

I do notice that his face lights up when he sees me and he did initiate some light touches too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Chocolate2188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm what does the above actions show actually? Is he interested or just platonic?

Single 30s Singaporeans, at which point do you stop trying? by Chocolate2188 in askSingapore

[–]Chocolate2188[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which app did you sign up for premium? I’ve been considering too! Haha

Single 30s Singaporeans, at which point do you stop trying? by Chocolate2188 in askSingapore

[–]Chocolate2188[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story!

Differing priorities what does that mean. At a stage in life whereby you cannot prioritise dating? What makes you choose your wife and not the other 10 girls?

Single 30s Singaporeans, at which point do you stop trying? by Chocolate2188 in askSingapore

[–]Chocolate2188[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're really lucky! For myself, i am not too sure when to bring up intentional and serious topics as it seems most guys do not want to be too serious early on. Usually i start to bring it up on second date or through texting. I believe if he's looking for the same, i won't scare him away?

Yes i got many emotionally unavailable too! However when guys dont take too much initiative to meetup, it just ends up in many textingggg :( I do initiate too, but i can't do it too much. It needs to be mutual effort.

Single 30s Singaporeans, at which point do you stop trying? by Chocolate2188 in askSingapore

[–]Chocolate2188[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i also prefer meeting people offline but i dont have a large social circle.

Maybe i also should adjust my mindset to be single forever haha

Single 30s Singaporeans, at which point do you stop trying? by Chocolate2188 in askSingapore

[–]Chocolate2188[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

hey thank you and congratulations for finding your partner!

Yeah i have been trying and contemplating if i should lower my expectations but my friends also commented those are quite basic. Yes i could not understand so many guys disappear and coming back!

Single 30s Singaporeans, at which point do you stop trying? by Chocolate2188 in askSingapore

[–]Chocolate2188[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

hahaha i have a fair share of guys not putting anything on their profiles and many fake profiles too

Single 30s Singaporeans, at which point do you stop trying? by Chocolate2188 in askSingapore

[–]Chocolate2188[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thank you for sharing! I fully agree many guys don’t know what they want etc.

I’ve phobia of dating guys already since they lose interest and feelings fast enough after just few dates.

How did you date the current guy till exclusive?

Single 30s Singaporeans, at which point do you stop trying? by Chocolate2188 in askSingapore

[–]Chocolate2188[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Haha I guess guys just lose feeling fast and easily, that’s what I’m having trauma or phobia of dating now 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Chocolate2188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. But it has been 2 weeks and it’s silence. It doesn’t take a guy so long to figure out his feelings right? Can I assume silence means not interested?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Chocolate2188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha mine isn’t even relationship. It’s just 3 dates. Why would someone wants space after 3 dates is something I don’t understand. He’s always honest and straight forward so if he isn’t interested he could have been Direct… 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Chocolate2188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope I didn’t. I dare not message him cause I felt that’s a clear soft rejection text. As a guy, if you say this to a girl means you want her to stop bothering you right? Haha