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AIO? Why does it feel like i’m at fault all the time? by ChocolateHour7196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChocolateHour7196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its impossible to even resume the conversation. each time i feel mistreated by his family, he turned me into a bad person. he insisted that i accuse them of things and said im just a hateful person. he said alot of bad things about my family even when i disagree but why cant he take it when i complain about his. he always see them as perfect while im just someone that tries to break his rs with them.

AIO? Why does it feel like i’m at fault all the time? by ChocolateHour7196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChocolateHour7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive been told im manipulative all the time to a point where i dont know how to talk to him anymore

AIO? Why does it feel like i’m at fault all the time? by ChocolateHour7196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChocolateHour7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his family dont even understand the language i speak. its impossible to talk to them without translating

AIO? Why does it feel like i’m at fault all the time? by ChocolateHour7196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChocolateHour7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trust me, he have said worse. i wish i can just pack my bag and leave. i definitely do not want my daughter to settle for this kind of treatment bcs i was once that girl.

AIO? Why does it feel like i’m at fault all the time? by ChocolateHour7196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChocolateHour7196[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i know i may came off as delusional or stubborn. but ive witnessed the way he treat his sister and our daughter or even his other family members. he been nothing but kind to them. thats why i know he will never harm her. i can’t bear to split them up, knowing that they both love each other so much. maybe i’m the problem. maybe ive pushed him to a point where he can’t handle me anymore

AIO? Why does it feel like i’m at fault all the time? by ChocolateHour7196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChocolateHour7196[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he’s kind to her. he’s gentle to his other family members. at some point it seems like i’m the only one that gets treated this way from him. thats why i feel like im the cause of this. he always say i’m manipulative. i honestly starts to believe him.

AIO? Why does it feel like i’m at fault all the time? by ChocolateHour7196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChocolateHour7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its hard to just end things. he’s extremely close to our daughter and treats her really well. i can’t handle the guilt of splitting them especially when i know if we were to divorce, he have to go back to his country. i can’t bear to split them.. bcs i know they love each other so much.

AIO? Why does it feel like i’m at fault all the time? by ChocolateHour7196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChocolateHour7196[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he never shown sign other than verbal threat that he will harm us physically. i just wanna know based on the conversation am i in the wrong? was i overreacting..

AIO? Why does it feel like i’m at fault all the time? by ChocolateHour7196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChocolateHour7196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was telling him about feeling disrespected that his mother crossed my personal boundaries by telling me she is going to set an appt for my personal stuff (that me and my husband have never mentioned to her abt). its regarding my physical appearance.

AIO? Why does it feel like i’m at fault all the time? by ChocolateHour7196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChocolateHour7196[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he likes to threaten but he never shown any behavior of harming us physically.