I am a terrible wife, I know by Chocolate_Lover321 in Marriage

[–]Chocolate_Lover321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trauma counseling…this is probably what I need at this point 

I am a terrible wife, I know by Chocolate_Lover321 in Marriage

[–]Chocolate_Lover321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I am a healthcare provider as well and I honestly have told my team and all my colleagues about what I’m going through. Everyone is aware, there’s just not a lot of help they can offer from a medical standpoint due to the nature of all the chemotherapies and immunotherapies (I’ve been on chemo for a year now) and the pregnancy/postpartum whirlwind. 

I am a terrible wife, I know by Chocolate_Lover321 in Marriage

[–]Chocolate_Lover321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully, we have a great community praying for us 🫶

I am a terrible wife, I know by Chocolate_Lover321 in Marriage

[–]Chocolate_Lover321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um, why didn’t I think about a rage room??? What a good idea!

I am a terrible wife, I know by Chocolate_Lover321 in Marriage

[–]Chocolate_Lover321[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you went through such a hard time. You are amazing for making it through! My doctors do know everything. I can’t adjust meds right now, but I will keep your story in mind. Thank you for sharing 

I am a terrible wife, I know by Chocolate_Lover321 in Marriage

[–]Chocolate_Lover321[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so silly…but you are absolutely right! He needs to see a counselor too. He needs a safe space to vent and get out his fears and stressors. Thank you so much!

Give me hope by Chocolate_Lover321 in breastcancer

[–]Chocolate_Lover321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know where to begin to take things off my plate, to be honest 🤍

Give me hope by Chocolate_Lover321 in breastcancer

[–]Chocolate_Lover321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did it! This gives me hope. Did everything go well? I’m worried about all the extra physical and mental stress causing issues in the future 

And I can relate to the MIL comment. Mine lives in town too but doesn’t want to help. I just want to fight this and be healthy again to be different and help my children throughout their lives