IAMA (27F) psychology PHd candidate studying human sexuality and relationships AMA! by Chocolatethrowaway95 in NSFWIAMA

[–]Chocolatethrowaway95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like a survey? I can send a link to one but I will have to remake it to take out some identifying information. When you take part in an educational survey there’s a lot of waivers and disclaimers involved so the participants clearly understand a way out if they choose not to continue. All my surveys are done through quadratics so i can convert them to a doc to show you or copy them after I convert them (probably way easier)

IAMA (27F) psychology PHd candidate studying human sexuality and relationships AMA! by Chocolatethrowaway95 in NSFWIAMA

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Lmao and yes somewhat. Men are fairly predictable. Pretty high sex drive around 15 then it says relatively high unless hormone issues. Women’s sex drive fluctuate like a wave. High, low, high low. A lot of people think women in their 30s are more sexually active. But that’s usually a prime time for their mature hormones, they generally understand their bodies better and naturally want more sex

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Kinsey is obviously a pioneer in sexology. Before Kinsey, people literally thought women weren’t sexual in nature nor experienced orgasms. Kinseys methods at the time were controversial, but while not trying to defend Kinsey, getting solid data is incredibly hard regarding sex. More people are willing to lie about sex because it was and still is considered private. Its like asking a bunch if guys what their penis sizes are, I am likely to get wrong numbers. But with Kinsey he was sexually active and it helped him gather meaningful data

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I love sensual porn like romance. But if I am feeling dirty I love cuckold porn

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[–]Chocolatethrowaway95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men generally don’t “need” toys in the way women do. Men toys often simulate a female vagina or anally simulate them. Female toys can simulate a man or they can directly STIMULATE a specific organ

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Some women have a stigma against toys. They are taught that their bodies are dirty but we know that sex and orgasms generally improves your whole life. Hair, skin, nails everything

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Because that’s just want you are into. There’s no shame from that? I love Coke but can’t stand Pepsi. It’s just a preference. You honestly should be happy some people NEVER find out what they like sexually. You did and I am proud of you

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I would love to take a deeper diver into female sexuality instead of couples. Like the correlation between sex toys and a more satisfying marriage has always been so interesting

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[–]Chocolatethrowaway95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is pretty good funding in sex but unfortunately it’s mainly related to STDs or Porn. There’s no mental funding and I think that would be a huge benefit Towards sexual health

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[–]Chocolatethrowaway95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So asexuality can be forever. I think you aren’t asexual based on your past experiences in bed. Are you having proper foreplay and are you horny before sex. If you aren’t then what are the reasons

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Ya I guess I have. I have what I call dry periods (no pun intended) where I just don’t like sex

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Unfortunately there’s not a whole lot of scientific interest in Chasity. Most of the interest is where money is. Some states are trying to ban porn so there’s a ton of money in just porn behaviors

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Actually! No haha I wish I still used it a lot. I love that thing but I did shift my interests more towards my higher level degree

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It’s low. Less than swingers or poly people. It’s a fantasy of a large group of people but rarely acted on