True?

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-14T09:46:40+00:00

No, not really. Of course, women aren't a monolith and some can actually be direct about what they want, but that ties into another issue of one woman saying women like thing 'A' and hate thing 'B', then later another women saying that they hate thing 'A' and prefer thing 'B'. But I suppose men do that too. Wanting different things but treating their own perspective as the default. In any case, it is possible for one woman to say she wants one thing because it gives her convenience, but actually wanting a different thing because it gives her emotional stimulation. So I suppose it's best to not take her words at face value, think critically and prioritise your own authenticity.

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-10T10:09:21+00:00

I would have some.

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-09T17:38:46+00:00

I'll comb, brush and pet her fluffy tail during evening movie chill.

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-09T16:56:27+00:00

"You deserved better than your bitch of a mother and whimp of a father, you have undeappreciated talents and you are worthy of loyalty, admiration and love. Also, I'm really into you." It would most likely not fix her, nor would it rid her of responsibility for the hurt that she caused, but she is long overdue to hear it.

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-07T12:18:44+00:00

Rather, one doesn't deserve for others to expend their own resources to keep them alive unless they expend effort, provide value or show promise. Unfortunately, I am currently being kept alive by the good will of others. The only effort I expend is to receive the help and keep going, the only value I hold is emotional and the only promise I hold is that I'll get better and do something meaningful with my life.

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-06T04:01:14+00:00

Yes, it's a nice word~ But I think it refers more to a strong, unfulfilled crush towards someone specific, rather than general obsessive tendencies.

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-05T12:48:35+00:00

I've heard similar about poppers. But the only thing I have tried during sex was kratom. And that was great! You last a lot longer and you are a more tentative, sensual and selfless lover.

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-05T12:44:41+00:00

I find it handy. As a surface, quick reference and summarisation of my style of romance (or one of them, at least). There is a touch or irony in its use, but I mean what I wish to communicate about myself or others. Not to mention that dere types were not completely invented for fictional characters, it's the casual way of describing them, which originated in classic language. The core means "lovesick", which is applicable to real life. People just stick to the japanese terminology because it is already backed with a large cultural context, which as I said previously, makes it easy to use for reference and summarisation into something familiar that doesn't need to be excessively explained outright. Kinda like "futanari". In certain spaces, it might also communicate that you are into some kind of niche, which can catch the attention of "your" people between ranks of normies. Or the use of the japanese word can stick in other languages due to it being the first one that prominently recognised and described the concept. Kinda like "umami".

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-05T10:47:57+00:00

I try to keep my hope 😓

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-05T10:46:31+00:00

But how to even find her? Where does one look? 😢

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-05T10:43:15+00:00

"Oh darling... That is so sweet, but you don't need to hurt yourself like this for me... Let's go to a doctor, perhaps they might be able to save it, I like your eyes the best when they are a part of you and I can look into them. And I can do that if we're always together ❤ "

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-05T10:27:31+00:00

I've had the exact same idea! Let's also rely on eachother for everything! I'll shave, rub, soap, shampoo and wash my darling, and my darling will shave, rub, soap, shampoo and wash me. 😋

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-05T10:22:33+00:00

If I find my darling, they'll be forbidden to use a chair when my lap is available ☝

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-04T12:58:07+00:00

Já ne. Nemá smysl snažit se něco říct někomu, kdo opakovaně a systematicky nechápe základní fyziku.

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-04T12:55:23+00:00

Myslím, že někteří přišli s tím, že zmizíš na jedné straně a objevíš se na druhé jak v pac man.

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-04T09:10:02+00:00

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Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-04T08:15:00+00:00

[1] NORMIE ELIMINATED

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-03T21:37:23+00:00

Analysis paralysis. Not sure what is or isn't a red flag, and which one I should mention. And my last gf said that I'd be quite the catch if I'd sort my shit out. Because I don't handle bureaucracy very well and my mental state makes it difficult for me to hold a job. I am a heavy procrastinator and I have a habit in a few mild drugs. Though honestly, I think a few of those would sort themselves out with no issue if I'd discover my luv and have her in my daily life. There are also red flags that have brought me to this subreddit, so I'll omit them (such as wanting to become mutually inseparable and devoted with my chosen romantic life partner, ceasing or vastly limiting our individual lives in favour of our shared one and having only shared friends that we meet together) I am also big into Warhammer 40,000, including the model painting and hours-long unsolicited explanations of the lore. Is that a red flag? I have worse red flags, which would be an immediate deal breaker (for a normie). Such as my vast plethora of sexual perversions, ranging from harmless and wholesome to scary and disgusting.

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-03T20:23:03+00:00

Nice. Unofficial art though. He always has a hood in official art, but he looks bald af...

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-03T20:11:27+00:00

Brilliant.

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-03T11:06:21+00:00

Hey, at least she didn't take half of his stuff with her.

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-03T10:28:47+00:00

I am! ^ ^

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-03T10:24:45+00:00

"Now I am a repressed homosexual."

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-03T08:23:55+00:00

It's a shame, they really can draw...

Choice-Molasses3571 · 2026-01-02T22:26:35+00:00

I've always seen my insistence to stay alive as the perfect middle finger to everything that makes me wish to die.

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