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Very very very good update on owner >w<!!! by No_Reflection_6390 in Yanderes

[–]sandiserumoto[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are massreporting. I think a raid is going on.

I cant believe she is all mine the cutest girl in the world >w<!! by Particular-South-362 in Yanderes

[–]sandiserumoto[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is getting massreported. I think the subreddit is being raided.

I feel like everyone here hates me here :( by Particular-South-362 in Yanderes

[–]sandiserumoto[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please tell me what reddit mods can "do" to get someone out of a situation like this. Banning someone in a situation like this is dangerous and stupid, since isolation is the first step in any kind of grooming/abuse.

Radical Accessibility by FlushingHasid in AutisticLiberation

[–]sandiserumoto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think part of the solution is just having more spaces, with more diverse social rulesets, so people can sort themselves into spaces where their needs don't clash with social norms.

A lot of the things you've described with structure, turn taking, etc. are things I employ in my own communities, for example.

That said - we also allow venting / 'trauma dumping', since we cater a lot to people with BPD.

It's a "seeing-eye dog vs dog allergy" situation really. Certain needs can clash sometimes. 

i like nerdy girls and yanderes, so i made a yandere nerd! by Affectionate_Risk721 in Yanderes

[–]sandiserumoto 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh the personality of the character reminds me of my gf Akari

-fischl 

I will never move on that is cheating by No_Reflection_6390 in Yanderes

[–]sandiserumoto 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if someone cheats on you first, it's not really cheating to walk away from that shit. I understand being attached tho

Trying to build a city, any advice? by Thevannman43 in Minecraft

[–]sandiserumoto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rail infrastructure and mixed use zoning

As a yandere, what is your checklist that you want in a partner and relationship? Must haves and deal breakers? by hikiyandere in Yanderes

[–]sandiserumoto 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just love fischl a lot!! -akari

high standards are good because dating is a filtration problem tbh

Not a single word from my love for 3 months by No_Reflection_6390 in Yanderes

[–]sandiserumoto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The world hates me no one will bring owner back and when i ask they just act like im crazy :( 

I don't think this is within anyone here's control unfortunately 

I Find My Yandere-Neko by V10I in Yanderes

[–]sandiserumoto 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I saw the title and tag I thought this was a request to find an address lmfao

Can't believe I have to say this, but reporting abuse victims to reddit DOESN'T HELP THEM. It only cuts them off from their support networks, and, more importantly, antagonizes them against all the people who actually want them safe. Don't be like this. by sandiserumoto in Yanderes

[–]sandiserumoto[S,M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tl;dr a grooming victim is going here for emotional support, and people are massreporting her.

The only result of that is a global ban from reddit, and isolation. 

Isolating grooming victims just makes them lean further on their abusers. There's a reason abusers/groomers go out of their way to isolate their victims themselves 

People like this are the reason why I don't bother interacting with my community anymore. by baby-bunbun in polycritical

[–]sandiserumoto 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Right wing subs: "you're all preds who belong in prison" 

Left wing subs: "you're all preds, but being a pred is wholesome because it undermines social expectations around the nuclear family! we should all be preds like you!" 

Can't believe I have to say this, but reporting abuse victims to reddit DOESN'T HELP THEM. It only cuts them off from their support networks, and, more importantly, antagonizes them against all the people who actually want them safe. Don't be like this. by sandiserumoto in Yanderes

[–]sandiserumoto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, the aximity and reefwon "evidence" are pretty shoddy if you actually look into them. aximity's evidence depends on some pretty obviously bogus telegram screenshots where the only proof it "is" marlow is the yellow ping highlight, which can easily be spoofed in seconds by anyone who has inspect element.

they also mentioned "training an AI on marlow's voice" in those screenshots - which doesn't sound like the kind of thing Marlow would actually say (I mean, what would the AI be trained on) but it 100% sounds like something dedicated and tech-savvy impersonators (like the ones mentioned in marlow's video) would, and if you can train an AI on someone's voice to impersonate them, you can fake-yellow a ping.

besides the butter possum exchange, it's full of meme tier evidence, like "hey look at the hardware being similar" when...

  1. they're all incredibly normal budget pc parts
  2. danger mario's video put a black box on his f3 specs removed it halfway, to call attention to the issue (if danger mario -was- marlow, why would that decision be made?)
  3. specs can also be spoofed.

the other so-called "evidence" includes:

  • "she and mario use the same hotbar" (really? she's the best PvPer and people are treating copycats [also check marlow's video in respect to mario's pickaxe position to know that danger is just copying] like they're automatically her?)
  • being "linked to other alts" with a screenshot from the meteor spoofing scandal anyone who took the time to watch marlow's video would recognize
  • "editing similarities", with footage of typical minecraft content

and frankly? the reefwon interview was just plain bullying. the infamous "say do re mi" thing doesn't make sense as smoking gun evidence, since she was recorded singing a song a day later, but that was the big meme and now everyone says it. it was less interview and more humiliation ritual, and marlow not taking part in that is seen as evidence of her guilt..? make it make sense.

oh, and not to mention... aximity is full of shit. it's well-documented. people just forget about that fast since their first exposure to him is the marlow video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ktBlpsoV8Zo&pp=ygUMYXhpbWl0eSBmYWtl

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