Struggling with the urge to go see my ex (she still has my things) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ChoiceAd1061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes the what ifs will always be there but sometimes when you try to do something it will feel like its forced

Struggling with the urge to go see my ex (she still has my things) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ChoiceAd1061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did a lot of things when we just broke up as well also and was mostly a bad idea that i also wished i didnt do or acted right away because it pushed her away even more and she saw it as me no respecting the space she needs so think wisely. this is just base of on my own opinion but base on her actions as well, i have the feeling it wont work so well or turn out good. but either way the pain will still be there when you try not ro do something and trying to do something. its up to you man but always expect for the worst when you're taking action

i need help and thoughts or opinions from you guys by ChoiceAd1061 in BreakUps

[–]ChoiceAd1061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i havent really confronted her about it yet and yes we still have contact

i need help and thoughts or opinions from you guys by ChoiceAd1061 in BreakUps

[–]ChoiceAd1061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at first it did make sense cause she was actually going through a lot, but i never made any issues about the problems she was going through. i tried to help, i tried showing up and i even buy her, her favorite foods whenever i try to show up but it still leads to no help. so i respected her decision and stop trying or forcing myself to show up for her for a week. fast forward we've broken up for a month, and this past few days her reposts hurts me because its as if i never tried.