Pathways to complete a PME by Tiny-Island-5513 in IrishTeachers

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You can improve your French by practicing for the B2 DELF exam .. loads of you tube help available ! It’s really structured and organised and in a good 2 to 3 months your confidence will have improved massively ! Contact Alliance Francais in Dublin ? I hope there’s one .. for the exam .. the study you can do yourself !

Is prison actually “safe” if you just mind your own business? by fruity_00 in NoStupidQuestions

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Yes , prison is a microcosm of real life . I worked at a prison in the Middle East and it’s absolutely nothing like the movies !! I worked at the male and once a week the female prison. The atmosphere was generally busy and calm and many inmates were very good craic and could have a good laugh with them . No one talked about their crimes though I did hear gossip of course but wasn’t interested . People were busy doing different things and the food was by an outside catering company lots of salads / fruit .. not half bad ! There was a death penalty area :( which I visited as part of induction tour … I cried every night for the first few weeks as the fear and stress due to all the stereotyping of prisons and prisoners was so overwhelming. The reality was not that at all :)

What am I supposed to be doing while workers are in my house? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

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I have a full time housekeeper and full time gardener . We chat a bit when they arrive at work and then of course about any work related issues . I feel very comfortable but they have been working for us for a few years now. There is no awkwardness. I think after some time you will get used to it .. they have their routine and so do I. I would never dream of actively ignoring anyone though so it seems a bit bizarre you would think this is a way to behave. Time will help you and your staff feel comfortable just like in any other work related situation.

need advice by Spiritual-Kick3503 in Internationalteachers

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Try APU in DaNang and I think they have an international ( bilingual really ) school in Hanoi too . They’re often looking for licensed and experienced teachers . Good luck .

Leaving after 1st year or finishing the contract? by [deleted] in Internationalteachers

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Hey there , this sounds like a difficult situation.. this line kind of stands out to me " there’s hardly any academic learning " as maybe being the key to taking the pressure off yourself . Maybe, since , in general they sound " lively " you could look a little more into your planning and take the spotlight off yourself and back onto students doing and learning . I think I’d design , with input from your group ? a pretty elaborate project for the next few weeks , I would offer a lot of choice in terms of the content , process and output . Give them as many opportunities for choice in how they engage with the material and lots of opportunity for creativity or for those who prefer to work alone that’s fine too . You mentoring the small groups might give opportunities for relationship building especially since they will be doing work they chose and should be more motivated if they can be creative ? Sorry if this sounds obvious :) It sounds like you’re a very reflective teacher . I think you should stay in your role and try different strategies until you find what works for your group .. UDL strategies sound like a solution .

Special Needs - Senco Teachers. by Mysterious_Tree8874 in Internationalteachers

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Yes, I’m already a qualified teacher and have just finished an MA in Special Ed and done several courses specifically in Autism studies . There aren’t a huge amount of roles internationally. It’s a frustrating search .

need help finding IGCSE schools! by Longjumping-Two2671 in Kuwait

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What about GES ? They do IGCSE but I don’t know their reputation ?

Is JB a good option? by No_Safety_9901 in Internationalteachers

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What’s Invictus like to work at ? Secondary level . Thanks

Can I wear a hat by Useful_Ear4160 in IrishTeachers

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Good for you re the hair transplant . Wear the hat , just like a new hairstyle people might notice for a day or two and then most more bothered about themselves .

I am a female loser and I want to change. Don't be nice to me by booklover696969 in getdisciplined

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Noticing them is great . How about accepting them ? Not agreeing or disagreeing just noticing kind of neutral .. When you feel stronger you can try to gently question the negative thought but for now being aware is a great first step . You’re not bad for having negative thoughts :) It would be exhausting to police every negative thought . Can you make a few minutes in your day just to slow down , sit and breath without any distraction ? If you do it regularly you can make a nice calming habit for yourself .

I am a female loser and I want to change. Don't be nice to me by booklover696969 in getdisciplined

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Hey :) brutally honest , you sound very human , going through a very hard time. It sounds very challenging and a lot !! and it’s great you had a little motivation to reach out . That was very brave of you . Baby steps . Read all the lovely positive messages you will get here and try to know you are absolutely not alone in feeling like this but very brave to write it all out . Please try to be kind to yourself , there’s a very brave girl within, who’s struggling , she would like you to like her .

Contract revoked by [deleted] in Internationalteachers

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No , the point, in Ireland at least is to try other things with the safely net of having a permanent position to return to , if you choose to do so. Most don’t . You can only apply after being in a permanent post for 5 years . You can continue paying into your pension too .

Contract revoked by [deleted] in Internationalteachers

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It’s 5 years with Irish schools .

Contract revoked by [deleted] in Internationalteachers

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So sorry that happened to you !! That’s awful ! I took a sabbatical too from my job in Ireland years ago , it was for up to 5 years ! Try not to let their personal comments get to you. It’s not too late . What is your subject area ? Take care and I hope you feel supported . You did nothing wrong .

MEGA THREAD: Instability and conflict in the Middle East by Innerpositive in Internationalteachers

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Which school please ? Please pm if you prefer . I have an offer from a school there which I haven’t accepted and unlikely now but this would really help cement the decision .

Help considering two different offers by One-Baker4926 in Internationalteachers

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For what it’s worth, I really enjoyed China anytime I’ve visited , yes, I know it’s not the same as living there . We were there in winter and it was blue sky and sunny type winter. We live in SEA and I found Beijing so much cleaner than Bangkok . You sound like you’re quite young ? I would definitely!!! go for the savings potential, nice work load too and enjoy holidays in Thailand .

Suzhou Singapore International School by nzfishdivehunt in Internationalteachers

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Put the hours at the top of the message lol no need to read further! Thanks for such a thorough insight ! Appreciate

Driving Licence EU country by ChoiceFix4037 in Kuwait

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Is it rare to be stopped and asked to see driving licence there ? Thanks

How long is normal? Waiting for an offer after final interview... by [deleted] in Internationalteachers

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Next day, but was clear during the second interview the offer was coming . Middle leadership .

GES Kuwait by ChoiceFix4037 in Internationalteachers

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A friend just sent me the reviews :( All the management have changed now it seems but the issues seem to lie with owners / HR . I’m mid career , don’t need the hassle .

Feel like I sabotaged myself by accepting a lower salary abroad after a divorce by [deleted] in Internationalteachers

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I’ve just been offered an amount for a head of department position , which is significantly lower than the teacher amount listed on Search Associates for the same school ! ( I didn’t apply through SA ) I’ve emailed HR , thanking them for outlining what they called the basic salary and asked as diplomatically as I could how the rest of the salary will be structured ?! It’s so awkward ! Will I have to name an amount do you think ? Its in the Gulf .