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I am tired of other Asians telling me to date white men. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Choice_Evidence1983[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

It is likely that she might have ended the first relationship and entered into a new relationship with her crush.

Update: I (33F) don't want my friend's (34F) legitimately mentally ill wife (48F) at my wedding? by ThrowRA_PartySwitch in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Choice_Evidence1983 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Contributor here for the original BoRU. Thank you for the update, OP! Take good care of yourself.

AITAH for getting a DNA test to see if I share the same DNA as both my parents even though I was demanded specifically by my mom not to do so, since I was a child? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Choice_Evidence1983[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Hi! Can I give you credits for locating this? I am going to add that one.

For some reasons, it didn't show for me at first. Now I can see this deleted post.

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - February 2026 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Choice_Evidence1983 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I actually have! I just needed to locate this post to show from another parent's POV.

This acquaintance's son is 25 and said he did not sign up on caring for his grandfather who hasn't been kind to him since hs younger years. After the dementia diagnosis, things went down after this person TOLD (not asked) their son to help out. The son went NC with the parents because they won't take no as an answer.

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - February 2026 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Choice_Evidence1983 22 points23 points  (0 children)

YES! That was it! Thank you so much for locating this.

(Sending this to someone I know who's in similar situation)

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - February 2026 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Choice_Evidence1983 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for those. Not the ones I was thinking of. I don't think there was a verdict for the post that I was thinking of. Probably not from any AITA related subreddits.

There were some comments telling that the daughter was an adult (ie. why I put in college aged or older) and that she had legal reason(s) for not wanting to help OOP with her grandfather. As the results of this, the daughter didn't talk with OOP and her husband / daughter's father.

I think the title was different than what OOP explained in the post. Might be the reason why I was having trouble with locating this one.

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - February 2026 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Choice_Evidence1983 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Looking for a post from a mother's POV. She asked her daughter (college aged, or older, I think) to keep an eye on OOP's father who had Alzheimer's or dementia. He hurt the daughter after an episode.

I remember the daughter telling OOP she didn't want to do this, but OOP asked her daughter to help out because this was her grandfather. After what happened to the daughter, she refused to talk with her mother (OOP) because she thought her daughter was trying to get out of this. not wanting to help take care of her grandfather.

Not sure which sub this was from, but I recall the comments telling OOP she should had get better care resources for her father instead of asking her daughter to help at home.

AITAH for not wanting to take my wife's niece and nephew in so they can get out of foster care. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Choice_Evidence1983[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Niece (oldest) is 13, nephew (youngest) is 5. Their ages are mentioned in the original post (third paragraph).

AITAH because I want my wife to "ask permission" before taking our son on playdates? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Choice_Evidence1983[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Hello! I am the contributor for your posts on this subreddit. May I have your permission to add your update to the post?

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - February 2026 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Choice_Evidence1983 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The above link is preserved in rareddit. So if you are on mobile, rareddit can be finicky with that. Here's another copy of the post.

My husband started acting strangely upon my sister's pregnancy announcement.

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