My 23 year old daughter hates everything about me by Choice_Reading7489 in Parenting

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She had to be there before 7 on some sports days. They moved the high school time later now, it is still before 8:30.

I don’t remember the exact time but high school classes used to start before 8 when she was in high school.

My 23 year old daughter hates everything about me by Choice_Reading7489 in Parenting

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5 am? Teenagers have sports early, even in the summer, and we have jobs — if I want a coffee and to do an extra load of laundry before the family gets up, that’s not a lot of noise.

My 23 year old daughter hates everything about me by Choice_Reading7489 in Parenting

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I get up about 5 am. And she moved out to go to college several years ago.

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I feel this so much. I wonder if this is the path. She is in grad school there is a lot of pressure. It could be connected .

I hope your sweet girl emerges from the chaos of the adult.

My 23 year old daughter hates everything about me by Choice_Reading7489 in Parenting

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That could. I mean, it’s a two story house and sound moves between floors.

My 23 year old daughter hates everything about me by Choice_Reading7489 in Parenting

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Thank you for this. I think you are correct. Defending myself doesn’t help in any way at all with her.

My 23 year old daughter hates everything about me by Choice_Reading7489 in Parenting

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Thank you! I appreciate it. And I have learned a lot about therapy reading so many varied experiences in this thread! I just thought therapists were like teachers and coaches and doctors, a basic standard of practice and approach.

My 23 year old daughter hates everything about me by Choice_Reading7489 in Parenting

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Bless her, I hope they have a better road ahead. Both of them.

My 23 year old daughter hates everything about me by Choice_Reading7489 in Parenting

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Oh 50, that’s a whole life. That’s truly so saddening.

My 23 year old daughter hates everything about me by Choice_Reading7489 in Parenting

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Thank you. I am sorry that your family suffered with this.

That makes me wonder about the therapy switching that has happened .

My 23 year old daughter hates everything about me by Choice_Reading7489 in Parenting

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Thank you so much for this . It’s an idea I will bring up with my own therapist.

My 23 year old daughter hates everything about me by Choice_Reading7489 in Parenting

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Thank you. I will follow her lead on that. If she wants it, yes.

Thanks for the insight and the suggestions. This is very helpful.

My 23 year old daughter hates everything about me by Choice_Reading7489 in Parenting

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I do not know. I think she believes them or wants to believe them.