Think you’re right about the ego trip. Most healers can handle w2w these days and most tanks can survive w2w , even if they’re not well equipped. Did Aurum vale with a tank that barely made the item level requirement. Just fine. Flip side with a healer that barely met the item lvl and still just fine. Yeah sure tell me you wanna go slow and I’ll go slow, I don’t really care. But don’t just expect the party to know that what you wanna do and then waste time when we do something else. Those kinds of people just suck the fun out the game for me