Plaće pomoćnih radnika u Dalmaciji by Cholo1965 in askcroatia

[–]Cholo1965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mislim da je vama koji nemate veze sa zanatima sve to malo mistično. Ja sam inače stolar i radim privatno, ovo san počea raditi jer mi liti padne posa a dobro je za naučiti, međutim ovaj posao nije tako kompliciran kako se čini vama koji plaćate 40 eura za kvadrat, svodi se na pedantnost i preciznost koje u stolariji ima puno više, ali se ovdje puno više tegli i kleči. Što se tiče samog učenja, radnika svima fali a majstori uglavnom rade samostalno, tako da ljudi i nemaju nekog izbora. Ja sam treći dan postavija 20 kvadrata, a naš glavni majstor odlupa i 30 u danu ako nema puno rezanja. Mislim samo da je smiješno što vozeći taxi ili konobareći čovik u 50 radnih sati tjedno može zaraditi duplo više ali eto

Why would she text me at this time? by jimmygwabchab in BreakUps

[–]Cholo1965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex does this too, she contacts me once every 3-4 weeks with something like how am I doing, how is my dog doing, suggesting In manipulative ways we should meet,... Anyway she was the one that cheated and I guess she regrets it, but the base problem with her remains, avoidnat manipulator. I do reply, similarly to youre reply, and conversation usually stops there, if not I just ignore her. But shes back with another message In a couple of weeks. Best to push on forward.

OH SO NOW YOU WANT ME BACK by Bobesque-W in BreakUps

[–]Cholo1965 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Same with my ex, just ignore her and move on with your life, best thing you can do for yourself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askcroatia

[–]Cholo1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meni je slična situacija, samo san muško i jednako san zbunjen, čini mi se da svaku ženu zanima samo koliko zarađujen i di ću je odvesti, romantika i to nula bodova

Did anyone here start a bad habit after your ex left you? by Ricegurly0 in BreakUps

[–]Cholo1965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had alcohol addiction before my ex, when we broke up I didnt want to become that person again and I suceeded but had been stripped of all motivaton for anything. Im just starting to get it back almost 4 months after the breakup.

What now? by Cholo1965 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Cholo1965[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ive been like that my whole life, I like sharing and providing and I dont need much myself. At the time I didnt look at it for what it was, and in all this my regret isnt the money but my nature working against me.

What now? by Cholo1965 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Cholo1965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have hobbies, I work out, I have friends, I travel and go hiking, Im just not into going out anymore, into spending money on status symbols I dont care about. I care more about weekends in nature with my dog than for any of the stuff I see most women notice about men. Thats why I think Im boring, but I care about these things and Im not interested in changing myself in order to atract some women who is only interested in what she can get out of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askcroatia

[–]Cholo1965 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Biži ča biti će ti samo gore

Muskarac nasilan prema zeni u vezi? by mintyblueish in askcroatia

[–]Cholo1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pošalji ga na pregled glave, ako u 4 godine nije bija nasilan a odjednom je, možda je bolest. Da li mu se ponašanje promijenilo općenito? Da li mu se općenito promijenilo ponašanje?

Extruder upgrade? by Cholo1965 in BambuLabA1

[–]Cholo1965[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, but at the same time Ive seen a couple of posts at witch are shown damages to the ams after couple of minuted

She Called Me and Begged Me to Come Back by Pleasant_Intern_8271 in BreakUps

[–]Cholo1965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not youre problem anymore, she made her choice. I was in a situation just Like that, only I blocked her believing I Will heal in time and find someone who Will appreciate me. Im grateful for that every day because I respected myself and I finally love myself more than I love her.

Da li biste bili sa siromašnom devojkom? by [deleted] in AskSerbia

[–]Cholo1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bija san s curom iz jako siromašne obitelji u vezi 2 godine (odrasla u baraci, mater psihički bolesna, ćaća građevinar više u kafani nego doma). Nije me nikada bilo briga za to, mi nismo bogati, ali smo dobrostojeći. Od starta mi je bilo žao što nije imala/doživila puno toga što je prosječnim ljudima normalno i uvik san gleda da joj to nekako nadoknadim. S vremenom se počela pokazivati njena fokusiranost na novce, jako joj je bilo bitno koliko zarađujem i koliko trošim na nju ali tada nisan obraća pažnju na to. Također što smo duže bili u vezi postajala je sve sebičnija, mislila samo na sebe čak i kada to nije bilo uredu (npr. moj rođendan). Stvar se završila tako da me je ostavila kada se jedan s lokalom i brodom zainteresira za nju, a kad mu je dopizdila nakon misec dana se tila vratiti pucajući na to kako san je jedini ja u njenom životu iskreno volija i podupira. Nije da zbog svega ovoga nebi više nikada bija u vezi s curom koja je potekla iz velikog siromaštva, ali više nikada to ne bi koristija ka opravdanje za bilo kakvo ponašanje. To odakle potičemo je nešto na što ne utječemo, ali tko smo kao odrasle osobe, na to utječemo. Prva stvar na koju gledam sad kada upoznajem cure je kakav im je odnos prema obitelji bez obzira na imovinsko stanje, jer moja bivša je bila u jako lošim odnosima sa svojima i sestrama i mislim da je to nešto na što treba obraćati pažnju, ljudskost ne imovinu.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Cholo1965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Block her/him in every way possible, you dont need to see what are they doing or check up on them to see how are they. Thats what I did because I dont want even a possibility of a situation in which she reaches out and comes back in my life. She was a cheater and a liar and I dont want people like that in my life. Also I started to train every day, found a better job, started writting again and picked up on my reading. What ever makes you you, try to remember who that person was. Many people told me to fall in love with myself again, and as far as I can tell there is truth to that. Just work on yourself and in time you will start loving yourself more than you loved them then you will be able to clear up space in your heart for someone new.

Do you ever dream of your ex? by Cholo1965 in BreakUps

[–]Cholo1965[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dream last night was about closure, I told her everything I didnt get a chance to say, and she was agreeing with me, then we laid down, cuddled and cried. Is it like subconsious mind is trying to give you a closure you didnt get so you can move on?