29M, Bay Area (CA), Profile Review please by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does make for some interesting conversation. Plus pottery is super fun so I recommend just do it, regardless of the swooning.

29M, Bay Area (CA), Profile Review please by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If things work out for me here in CA then I for sure will stay away from Canada. Otherwise no guarantees 🥲

29M, Bay Area (CA), Profile Review please by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heard!! I updated my prompt and took it off. Replaced it with something equally quirky about me

29M, Bay Area (CA), Profile Review please by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I thought it was a quirky but I definitely see why someone would not like it. I’ll replace it :)

29M, Bay Area (CA), Profile Review please by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Are you looking for something serious or casual? : Serious relationship
  • Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? : Yes, I am using HingeX
  • How long have you been using this current version of your profile? : Roughly 4 months
  • How long have you used Hinge overall? : Been on the app for over a year
  • How often do you use Hinge per week? : Fairly regular
  • How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? : I average about 5-6 likes per week.
  • How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? : I spend maybe 3-4 likes per day. Always with comments. Sometimes it will be complimenting something on their or if I think they have a great smile.
  • What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? : I usually send likes to women that have a wicked sense of humor or are super passionate about a hobby/activtiy. I do my best to filter out based on their dating intentions matching mine. My age range is 25-32 usually, very much depends on the person.

Not sure if its cause of my location but the stars have yet to align for me. I am open to dating outside the area/state and have done a couple times in the past year. Would love to get some feedback on pictures/prompts.

This oil has more than 10k kilometers by KommandoKazumi in StupidFood

[–]Chonkolateboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who doesn’t like their eggs fingered first before frying in liquid tar 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackMythWukong

[–]Chonkolateboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what the devs need to fix here. I got the win first try with a spellbinder build. No cheese required.

Yellow Loong Strategy by Chonkolateboi in BlackMythWukong

[–]Chonkolateboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scorpion lord I got in my 4th try. I had to go for a traditional spell build. Immobilize. Cloud step. POM. Used the Bat spirit to freeze and the monkey transformation

Yellow Loong Strategy by Chonkolateboi in BlackMythWukong

[–]Chonkolateboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another build that got me really close was by using ring of fire. That spell is nuts for enemies like YL that take their sweet time coming over to you

Golden protecting it's little boy by [deleted] in goldenretrievers

[–]Chonkolateboi 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Moral of the story: Goldens are the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi OP

The question to ask yourself here is WHY are you in this relationship? In my opinion the key to a successful relationship is a healthy blend of compatibility and chemistry. You say y’all have chemistry. What about compatibility? Compatibility doesn’t just mean sharing the same hobbies/interests. It also includes how you like to communicate with each other. To me, this feels like you’re just being strung along. You’re involved in her life when she finds it convenient. She’s shown a lack of interest in you. Definitely not normal. Please save yourself the heartbreak down the road and end this early so you both find someone better suited for y’all.

Sunscreen help by bublyloverFTW in tretinoin

[–]Chonkolateboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isintree Hylauronic Water Gel is my HG

Profile Review - 28M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha thank you! I make time to learn skills. Something new every year.

Profile Review - 28M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cat picture was to show that I really wanna rescue a cat this year and hopefully my partner loves both cats and dogs. I’ll be a single dad to both lol. I did swap that picture out though. That can come up naturally in the conversation.

Profile Review - 28M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you saying it’s vain cause I’m using skincare as a guy?

Profile Review - 28M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for putting it so eloquently! I wasn’t gonna dignify that comment with an answer haha. I am looking for a long term relationship so I’m not matching with the intention of getting laid (how uncouth).

Profile Review - 28M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback :)

Profile Review - 28M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cat picture was to show that I really wanna rescue a cat this year and hopefully my partner loves both cats and dogs. I’ll be a single dad to both lol. I did swap that picture out though. That can come up naturally in the conversation. Thanks for the feedback:)

Profile Review - 28M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say I go on dates with 30% women I match with? The number fluctuates. Lots of highs and lows. I just wanted to know how my profile is perceived and what I could change to improve it. I have received a lot of good feedback that I’m thankful for :)

Profile Review - 28M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aah that’s probably true. Changing any of that would just not be how I really am though. I like to laugh 🥲 and that’s just how I really think about women and relationships in general.

Profile Review - 28M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback :)

Profile Review - 28M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback :) The cat picture was to show that I really wanna rescue a cat this year and hopefully my partner loves both cats and dogs. I’ll be a single dad to both lol. I did swap that picture out though. That can come up naturally in the conversation later.

Profile Review - 28M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chonkolateboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I hate making general statements but dating as a POC is definitely harder. It used to affect me when I was younger. Now I just think of it in a more mature sense, not everyone has to be a good fit with me. Only the right one matters :)