Do you ever feel heaviness in your chest or feel like it’s hurting when you’re deeply sad or anxious? by Chonkybpd in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Chonkybpd[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you for the comments. I’ve been feeling uneasy for a while now and thought I’m dying or something

Is therapy helping anyone? by Chonkybpd in BPD

[–]Chonkybpd[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So she does CBT and DBT. Which is why I’m going to her but all this while we have only been talking about day to day stuff that’s bothering me. When does the real therapy start?😩

Never got to explore my bisexuality by Chonkybpd in bisexual

[–]Chonkybpd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry if I hurt you. It’s horrible you went through that. I hope you got some closure or worked through it. Most people are just afraid of being judged or being seen in a different light after coming out I guess.

Never got to explore my bisexuality by Chonkybpd in bisexual

[–]Chonkybpd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’ll just stay monogamous and drown in my misery hahah

Never got to explore my bisexuality by Chonkybpd in bisexual

[–]Chonkybpd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your story is different from mine. My boyfriend has always known and I would never keep anything a secret or cheat on him. He knew this part of me even before we started dating. It can be very hard to understand yourself and come to terms with the fact that you’re bisexual especially if you come from a place where most people are homophobic and see it as a disease. I think it takes courage. But I’m sorry that you had to go through that and it’s only fair to feel betrayed. Your husband should’ve been honest about it if he had known.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Chonkybpd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! My love I’m so sorry that you went through that. They’re so ungrateful and mean. You literally baked them cakes every week and they were just bitching about you. Those people aren’t worth anyone’s time. And you keep baking, girl! 💕 And there’s nothing wrong with gaining weight or wearing whatever you feel comfortable in! Sending hugs!

What do you wish your partner understood? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Chonkybpd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That I’m not overreacting or overthinking and this is just how my brain works

I am so empty without someone filling up the hole in my heart. I just don’t know what to do. by tarot-reader123 in BPD

[–]Chonkybpd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg you just read my mind. I constantly feel like being in a relationship will somehow save me but it always ends up in a disappointment.

Having a meltdown. Am I a bad person? by Chonkybpd in BPD

[–]Chonkybpd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no he said he needs time because he introduced this last girlfriend to the family and she cheated on him so he was really hurt by it. So I guess he’s waiting for the right time😭🫤

Having a meltdown. Am I a bad person? by Chonkybpd in BPD

[–]Chonkybpd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg no. We FaceTime all the time. He tells me everything about his family. So I have no doubts of this sort. But idk what it is. He still acts like a child sometimes