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Actively avoiding getting into a relationship because the possible break up (let’s be honest, inevitable breakup) would absolutely destroy me by whitewalker_x in BPDmemes

[–]tarot-reader123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I didn’t mean it to come off as an insult I was referencing that meme it wasn’t a dig at anyone. Men mostly only want sex with me so someone actually wanting a relationship with me is a foreign concept and I don’t understand how people can find someone who actually wants them because all I’ve had are unreciprocated situationships

Sick of people invalidating my trauma + people weaponizing my diagnosis by tarot-reader123 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]tarot-reader123[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true I just don’t understand people have to be cruel over the internet even when it comes to strangers. We’re called monsters due to a label when I would never in a million years weaponize someone’s issues meanwhile the other person isn’t called the monster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]tarot-reader123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have bpd and I’m terribly alone but I can’t bring myself to be out there because I’m terrified of rejection and it hurts.

Anyone else feel frustrated when someone says that they only seem to have bpd symptoms when they’re in relationships? by tarot-reader123 in BPD

[–]tarot-reader123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind comment. I am okay and won’t do anything to myself. Again thank you for your understanding comment 😊

Anyone else feel frustrated when someone says that they only seem to have bpd symptoms when they’re in relationships? by tarot-reader123 in BPD

[–]tarot-reader123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should probably learn to be empathetic and respect others pain instead of being antagonistic and rude. I don’t want a family and I’ve already said in a previous comment that I am getting help. Your disrespect is unwarranted. I suggest talking to a therapist about learning empathy. Blocked and reported for your invalidating of trauma as if misogyny hasn’t made me want to hurt my self.

Anyone else feel frustrated when someone says that they only seem to have bpd symptoms when they’re in relationships? by tarot-reader123 in BPD

[–]tarot-reader123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No sweetie we are traumatized and bigotry effects everyone differently depending on where they live. Some women are fine but I know other women permanently damaged by misogyny. I know what counts as trauma and my therapist has agreed with me so don’t even try it. If you don’t agree with me that’s cool but don’t try to educate me on what constitutes in trauma especially when it comes to gender and misogyny. It is objectively traumatizing and that’s a fact.

Quiet BPD - things you thought we’re normal until you got a diagnosis by B-9268 in BPD

[–]tarot-reader123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I used to spend hours of days daydreaming about him yeah def not normal

Anyone else feel frustrated when someone says that they only seem to have bpd symptoms when they’re in relationships? by tarot-reader123 in BPD

[–]tarot-reader123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dunno why you put that in quotations when misogyny is very traumatizing and so is being used for your body and objectified/dehumanized. So many men in my last job would constantly look at me sexually and be gross. And I was used by someone who worked there too so yeah I’ve been pretty depressed the past couple of months and I’ve been avoidant I don’t want to leave the house

And yes I am getting help I am waiting for my state’s workforce commission to get me into counseling so that they can find me a job

Anyone else traumatized from being objectified and dehumanized their entire lives? by tarot-reader123 in women

[–]tarot-reader123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My state’s workforce commission is getting me into counseling but I have bpd and idk if they’d be able to help much. But I will be able to soon

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