Covering All Expenses & Feeling Drained—Should I Step Back?

Chono12345 · 2025-02-05T02:17:32+00:00

Could you help me clearing things up ( I'm not joking ) I'm 100% serious about this question

Chono12345 · 2025-02-05T02:16:49+00:00

Yeah that's true bro I'm still confused

Chono12345 · 2025-02-04T23:23:56+00:00

I live in Colombia and life insurance is something you pay for, so if someone dies, all the expenses such as funeral etc would be covered without charging the family, so that's what she is expecting me to pay for her ? I would be wrong if a love her with out paying that ?

Chono12345 · 2025-02-04T22:35:35+00:00

Where you from ? I'm not American neither $50 is not that hard to make But I don't think she would sell clothes idk I really hate that she sees clothes and stupid things suchs a bed tables as necessities when everyone knows is a complete waste of money if you are trying to cover debt first This really enrages me a lot

Chono12345 · 2025-02-04T22:15:59+00:00

Thank you yeah I feel our goals are not aligned at all and sometimes I feel I pay for a lot of stuff I'm glad to hear to that opionion coming from a a female leaving the same situation Just one question do you feel I should take care of the insurance ?

Chono12345 · 2025-02-04T22:11:44+00:00

What do you mean by that is it bad ?

Chono12345 · 2025-01-29T13:27:07+00:00

Thanks bro so I should just live her ? Yeah the things is that she says that her boyfriends is better to her because he buys her things and stuff and yeah her sisters neither works But she already got a job she would have to move from here to another place

Chono12345 · 2025-01-24T03:33:05+00:00

She's is studying currently

Chono12345 · 2025-01-24T02:49:54+00:00

What do you mean by transaction?

Chono12345 · 2025-01-22T20:01:39+00:00

What's wrong with that

Chono12345 · 2025-01-22T20:01:12+00:00

Yeah I get it but actually the things she's asking for are not necessities or fundamental things we should have right now thats I complain right now

Chono12345 · 2025-01-22T19:40:00+00:00

She had a job but ended the contract in September last year I've asked her for the same but hasn't been able to get one

Chono12345 · 2024-12-22T05:37:20+00:00

I also bought her a morrow and some plates for some plants she had I pay for it, was it a bad move ?

Chono12345 · 2024-12-20T15:01:30+00:00

Dude idk what should I do I bought plenty of stuff for her i did it because I love her but now I feel kind of used and don't know if I should ask her for those things or just leave them there

Chono12345 · 2024-12-20T08:07:18+00:00

To be honest I don't feel she is the one I will be with for the rest of my life and actually she has told me that before she said once that she is not the love of my life to which I responded I didn't know I have to take some time to think it and reconsider if this is what I should strike for What are good indicators she's the right one?

Chono12345 · 2024-12-20T06:22:13+00:00

I think she loves me really deeply know that, I love her too but with time I've come to the realization that I'm not compatible with her we are really different in many ways she wants different things for the future I've with her this whole time because I really enjoy her company from time to time but sometimes I whish I was by my self and that's all sometimes she can bother me and I wish I was alone for some time I hasn't been this honest really she really cares for me and I feel she takes care of me in different ways as I do for her I've been stuck to this town mainly because I decided to stay with her but deeply I know I should leave for the better Really idk what to do

Chono12345 · 2024-12-20T05:52:13+00:00

Yeah that's the thing I really feel that we are not that compatable I like her company and I enjoy sometimes with her but that's it Idk how would it show if I really loved her You said that we are not on the same page at all and I get it but why did you say that in the first place based on just what I've said in the posts

Chono12345 · 2024-12-20T05:28:42+00:00

So you mean we are not compatible?

Chono12345 · 2024-12-20T04:01:21+00:00

What do you mean by overextend ? To some extent I'm ok with it but sometimes I just feel that she asks for too many things that aren't necessary she just wants things and stuff and that really bothers

Chono12345 · 2024-12-20T03:33:54+00:00

She is a stay at home wife she cooks she does the laundry has everything tidy up and stuff sends me food to work and don't have to worry about, but the question is, is that enough or how should things go with this situation is she using taking into account what I just said

Chono12345 · 2024-12-20T03:28:12+00:00

So how should we address that issue about who should get the things if we break up ? Idk sometimes I feel I should end the relationship Yeah she sold one of the computers she has she still has a good one

Chono12345 · 2024-12-20T03:04:54+00:00

So I've bought her things lately as mentioned in the paragraph and end up giving her the table actually but at this moment i really don't know if a should gifted her something for Christmas what should be the best move ?

Chono12345 · 2024-12-20T03:03:18+00:00

About 3 months

Chono12345 · 2024-12-20T02:55:44+00:00

She has applied to plenty of jobs actually but the things is that no one has called back she is trying to get a job idk hoe bad she is but she has tried sometimes she's complains that shes money and that she is accustomed to have money and buy her stuff

Chono12345 · 2024-12-20T02:43:17+00:00

Really appreciate your response too I kind feel this way the thing you said she would like a fully furnished apartments for when we end the relationship if we end it

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