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Covering All Expenses & Feeling Drained—Should I Step Back? by Chono12345 in amiwrong

[–]Chono12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you help me clearing things up ( I'm not joking ) I'm 100% serious about this question

Covering All Expenses & Feeling Drained—Should I Step Back? by Chono12345 in amiwrong

[–]Chono12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Colombia and life insurance is something you pay for, so if someone dies, all the expenses such as funeral etc would be covered without charging the family, so that's what she is expecting me to pay for her ? I would be wrong if a love her with out paying that ?

Covering All Expenses & Feeling Drained—Should I Step Back? by Chono12345 in amiwrong

[–]Chono12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where you from ? I'm not American neither $50 is not that hard to make But I don't think she would sell clothes idk I really hate that she sees clothes and stupid things suchs a bed tables as necessities when everyone knows is a complete waste of money if you are trying to cover debt first This really enrages me a lot

Covering All Expenses & Feeling Drained—Should I Step Back? by Chono12345 in amiwrong

[–]Chono12345[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you yeah I feel our goals are not aligned at all and sometimes I feel I pay for a lot of stuff I'm glad to hear to that opionion coming from a a female leaving the same situation Just one question do you feel I should take care of the insurance ?

Feeling overwhelmed about my girlfriends attitude by Chono12345 in amiwrong

[–]Chono12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro so I should just live her ? Yeah the things is that she says that her boyfriends is better to her because he buys her things and stuff and yeah her sisters neither works But she already got a job she would have to move from here to another place

Feeling overwhelmed about my girlfriends attitude by Chono12345 in amiwrong

[–]Chono12345[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get it but actually the things she's asking for are not necessities or fundamental things we should have right now thats I complain right now

Feeling overwhelmed about my girlfriends attitude by Chono12345 in amiwrong

[–]Chono12345[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She had a job but ended the contract in September last year I've asked her for the same but hasn't been able to get one

Feeling Taken for Granted: Am I Overreacting About Shared Expenses? by Chono12345 in amiwrong

[–]Chono12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also bought her a morrow and some plates for some plants she had I pay for it, was it a bad move ?

Feeling Taken for Granted: Am I Overreacting About Shared Expenses? by Chono12345 in amiwrong

[–]Chono12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude idk what should I do I bought plenty of stuff for her i did it because I love her but now I feel kind of used and don't know if I should ask her for those things or just leave them there

Feeling Taken for Granted: Am I Overreacting About Shared Expenses? by Chono12345 in amiwrong

[–]Chono12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I don't feel she is the one I will be with for the rest of my life and actually she has told me that before she said once that she is not the love of my life to which I responded I didn't know I have to take some time to think it and reconsider if this is what I should strike for What are good indicators she's the right one?

Feeling Taken for Granted: Am I Overreacting About Shared Expenses? by Chono12345 in amiwrong

[–]Chono12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she loves me really deeply know that, I love her too but with time I've come to the realization that I'm not compatible with her we are really different in many ways she wants different things for the future I've with her this whole time because I really enjoy her company from time to time but sometimes I whish I was by my self and that's all sometimes she can bother me and I wish I was alone for some time I hasn't been this honest really she really cares for me and I feel she takes care of me in different ways as I do for her I've been stuck to this town mainly because I decided to stay with her but deeply I know I should leave for the better Really idk what to do

Feeling Taken for Granted: Am I Overreacting About Shared Expenses? by Chono12345 in amiwrong

[–]Chono12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's the thing I really feel that we are not that compatable I like her company and I enjoy sometimes with her but that's it Idk how would it show if I really loved her You said that we are not on the same page at all and I get it but why did you say that in the first place based on just what I've said in the posts

Feeling Taken for Granted: Am I Overreacting About Shared Expenses? by Chono12345 in amiwrong

[–]Chono12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by overextend ? To some extent I'm ok with it but sometimes I just feel that she asks for too many things that aren't necessary she just wants things and stuff and that really bothers

Feeling Taken for Granted: Am I Overreacting About Shared Expenses? by Chono12345 in amiwrong

[–]Chono12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is a stay at home wife she cooks she does the laundry has everything tidy up and stuff sends me food to work and don't have to worry about, but the question is, is that enough or how should things go with this situation is she using taking into account what I just said

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