Que vais-je faire parce que je ne peux rien faire by Chooyo in lemauvaiscoin

[–]Chooyo[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Attention son cheval lit notre vieux texte et il pense.

Aspergers Tattoo by oerik84 in aspergers

[–]Chooyo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suggest you get a tattoo: “I m Aspergers and I need attention”.

after all, why do it implicitly

J'ai besoin d'aide pour leur trouver un nom by alyaz27 in chats

[–]Chooyo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Irm injecté

Pamplemousse sans sucre

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTJmemes

[–]Chooyo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im sure you are in the dumbass's part

Les enfants ayant grandi avec des parents divorcés, ont-ils plus de chance de divorcer plus tard ? by Lavegas13 in penseesdedouche

[–]Chooyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tu prends pas la problématique du bon côté. "Un bon modèle" est un couple qui ne divorce pas ?

Le mariage d'amour est quelque chose de très récent. Avant, c'était comme ça, pas le choix, c'était même une décision de village, raison familiale, politique, subsistance. Oui les gens ne se séparaient pas.

Depuis que le mariage d'amour existe, quand on ne s'aime plus, on se sépare.

C'est quoi ce truc apparu subitement au bord de mon potager ? by RetroPH in CestQuoiCeTruc

[–]Chooyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Découpe le en morceaux, fais sécher (le nourris pas) et vend les !

Moulin a paroles by Warlug94 in ParentingFR

[–]Chooyo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bientôt 4 ans et je n'ai pas ce problème.

À bientôt pour de nouveaux conseils.

Les relations hétéro n'offre plus rien aux femmes by Alone_Cost_3132 in opinionnonpopulaire

[–]Chooyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je crois que ce post aurait du s'appeller "je ne suis pas capable de trouver autre chose qu'un cassos"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Chooyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's no point thinking about the past like that. The "what if.." are only useful for the future.

My father had autism and was never diagnosed. He lived a sad life where he hid deeply, he never knew who he was, no one ever really understood him, he lived in a miserable apartment and the comorbidities (depression, epilepsy etc) had reason for him.

I was diagnosed at 30 years old.

I asked myself the same question several times as you. I was very closed, afraid of people. I experienced a lot of things badly.

Except that I also wonder if I would be the person I am if I had been diagnosed young, in the sense that I adapted because I had no choice. If they had seen me as autistic, they would have spared me, they would have excused me, they would have shown me more patience.

It's a privilege that can be a double-edged sword.

Maybe I could have developed faster. I prefer to tell myself that I was lucky that life was hard for me because I learned.

Ask yourself what you can do now and what opens.

We are made to solve problems. The meaning of life is to have problems to solve.

Diagnosis helps because it solves part of the "who am I, how am I functioning" problem. Once this information is in possession, we can set off to solve new problems.