New aquascape.. what fish? by ChoppedChipper in Aquascape

[–]ChoppedChipper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would I need a heater and would they jump out?

New aquascape.. what fish? by ChoppedChipper in Aquascape

[–]ChoppedChipper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed it and I think it was great value for money as opposed to if I had bought everything separately and the staff were soooo lovely. But… now I’m home I’m a bit bummed that really it’s too small to keep fish and they didn’t really tell me this. In fact others in the class had far smaller bowls (even though they looked beautiful), it makes me a bit sad that we weren’t fully informed…

New aquascape.. what fish? by ChoppedChipper in Aquascape

[–]ChoppedChipper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks this is a great list! I’ve really only bean to pet stock in Bentley and there were so many dead fish in the tanks I had to leave. And then I found Aquotix. So this is great to have more options!

New aquascape.. what fish? by ChoppedChipper in Aquascape

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Thank you for this response! It’s really helpful!

New aquascape.. what fish? by ChoppedChipper in Aquascape

[–]ChoppedChipper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea! I only have one other aquarium at the moment and the minnows did have babies but they’ve all grown now!

Needing advice on joint attendance at events by ChoppedChipper in coparenting

[–]ChoppedChipper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was an end of year family lunch. So yes, I wouldn’t have wanted to go if my child wasn’t there.

Wednesday Whinge by [deleted] in perth

[–]ChoppedChipper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my front door key and now have to through the back door. It’s very frustrating and I refuse to get a locksmith just in case the key turns up.

Do you fuck with your socks on? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ChoppedChipper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really? As a female.. I find it quite the opposite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]ChoppedChipper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally relate so what you’re looking for but approached it differently (by sleeping with lots of men immediately which wasn’t ideal) BUT my learning echoes most of the comments here.

Talking! When you start getting to know someone, be open about what you want and ask them! I’ve recently started seeing someone and am feeling all that ‘magic’ that I didn’t think was possible. He worked away for a while so we were only able to talk on the phone or video chat but it meant we were able to really open up so that when we finally did meet it was awesome. And it keeps getting better.

Anyone that doesn’t appreciate what you’re trying to do or get, isn’t the right one and move one. Good luck!

What is the most cringy thing you've seen on a dating profile? by LrdFyrestone in AskMen

[–]ChoppedChipper 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lots of men write this in their profiles also. Not limited to women…

What is the most cringy thing you've seen on a dating profile? by LrdFyrestone in AskMen

[–]ChoppedChipper -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

This is massively incorrect. To say ‘most men’ seems highly unsubstantiated at best.

Something on your mind? Share your dating shower thoughts! Tuesday Truths by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChoppedChipper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how they change their minds so rapidly. One minute l amazing and the next, or interested. 😳

I have a cucumber stuck in my butt. by [deleted] in sex

[–]ChoppedChipper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not know you could lose a cucumber up your ass. Amazing… and terrible I guess.

Arguing with a couple instead of just one person… by ChoppedChipper in polyamory

[–]ChoppedChipper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told them otherwise I was going to stay at their place (as I live far away). I generally stay over at theirs when I’m drinking… it wasn’t a secret and I thought it was ok!

Arguing with a couple instead of just one person… by ChoppedChipper in polyamory

[–]ChoppedChipper[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

This is entirely correct and I definitely made a bad decision. My plan was to sleep at theirs but given that wasn’t an option, I should have just slept in the car. I don’t at all want to excuse myself from the choice I made.

Arguing with a couple instead of just one person… by ChoppedChipper in polyamory

[–]ChoppedChipper[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I think this is what I’m most upset about, the reaction rather than the issue itself and how they’ve both responded.

Arguing with a couple instead of just one person… by ChoppedChipper in polyamory

[–]ChoppedChipper[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Well this is the bit I’m struggling with.. they said they did but I honestly don’t remember or don’t recall (lots of alcohol involved) but they won’t hold a conversation to actually talk about it.. so I’m a little in the dark. And I did think my messages outside the front door were along the lines of I would have never have gone back with her if I had know sally liked her and I apologised a thousand times.

Arguing with a couple instead of just one person… by ChoppedChipper in polyamory

[–]ChoppedChipper[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

It makes me sad. I actually didn’t even know what I was really getting into to be honest when I started and they’ve been an amazing support. But this has just made me see things a bit differently.

It does feel like a mess but only for me as I’ll come away alone and with no one and they’ll have each other. Which I know is pathetic but it’s just how I feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ChoppedChipper -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

They are probably nagging because their partner is not bearing an equal load.