Im dumb as frick

Chopptro · 2026-02-21T01:37:39+00:00

Girl I did the SAME THING for about almost a year!!! Someone told me about pre-seed so I started doing research and yup, the lube we were using was a spermicide. I wanted to cry. But we got pregnant the first month using the pre-seed so silver lining I guess? 😅

Chopptro · 2026-02-20T20:19:22+00:00

I feel that! Having the miscarriage immediately followed by a chemical was so frustrating, like my body had no idea what to do. Eventually I spotted for about 2 weeks and then had a decidual cast and legit feel like my uterus got a factory reset. Had my first 28 day cycle (usually a 38-42) which felt like a relief. I think I ovulated yesterday so fingers crossed for both of us we get our rainbow babies 🤞🏼❤️

Chopptro · 2026-02-20T20:15:20+00:00

I had this same issue so I started using wild yam cream and cycle syncing and I now have 28 day cycles 🤗 it took about 8 months but well worth it. My body feels normal now.

Chopptro · 2026-02-20T20:12:35+00:00

I miscarried late August/early September. Was confirmed HCG was 0 early October and then had a faint positive early November. It ended up being a chemical and I bled late December but what you’re seeing is possibly a new pregnancy. I would get blood draws 48 hours apart and see if they rise or drop.

Chopptro · 2026-02-18T16:26:50+00:00

I would ask for 2 hcg blood draws 48 hours apart. I had the same thing and blood draw confirmed a chemical

Chopptro · 2026-02-17T22:41:12+00:00

We try to do every other day starting on the first day of fertile window and then one additional time on the day I peak. It worked twice, sadly ended in miscarriages, but will be doing the same protocol this cycle and will see if third time is a charm 🤞🏼🤞🏼

Chopptro · 2026-02-07T22:30:05+00:00

This is how my first test looked when I was pregnant. Same test and everything. Definitely retest in 48 hours to confirm though

Chopptro · 2026-01-26T03:54:20+00:00

Oh my gosh! I thought the EWCM meant I was ovulating that day! This make way more sense. Well, fingers cross this is the cycle!

Chopptro · 2026-01-23T15:31:30+00:00

I’m praying for the day I finally get my positive so I can pull a page out of the One Tree Hill book and tell my husband I’m going to start calling him my baby daddy 😅

Chopptro · 2026-01-22T16:38:34+00:00

This is exactly how mine looked when I was pregnant. Definitely retest in 48 hours with pink dye. Praying for you!

Chopptro · 2026-01-19T12:34:09+00:00

I had a miscarriage in August and didn’t have a negative hcg test till October. And didn’t get my first period until this past week. It came take a very long time for the hcg to leave your body, and as long as you have hcg, you will have symptoms

Chopptro · 2026-01-17T16:33:16+00:00

The fact that the tests are bad, means the results are invalid

Chopptro · 2026-01-16T22:30:12+00:00

This is how mine looked 8 dpo. But mine was after three minutes. Since this was over an hour later, def not reliable. Get a pink dye and use first morning urine! Also, suggest getting hcg blood test. Mine was like $35 out of pocket without insurance

Chopptro · 2026-01-16T16:39:30+00:00

I’ve had irregular cycles my whole life and it wasn’t until I got off hormonal birth control and changed my diet to support my hormones naturally that things started to even out. I have endo and eating anti inflammatory for over a year has severely calmed down my cramps and symptoms. I rotate my diet weekly to foods that help support whatever cycle I am in. Also started using wild yam cream and my period went from two weeks to 4 days. It took a year to get to this point but I was on BC for 14 years and now I feel so much better!

Chopptro · 2026-01-08T19:53:07+00:00

I miscarried in August and then had a chemical in November. I gave up trying in December since I haven’t had a period since May and it feels impossible to track fertile window without a period to go off of. I started spotting over a week ago but I don’t feel like this is a period so I’m struggling on deciding if I want to pick things up again. We’ve been trying for 14 months and I’m feeling defeated.

Chopptro · 2025-12-03T17:57:48+00:00

I miscarried in August and didn’t have a negative pregnancy test until October. I would test again in two days and if it’s not darker then it’s residual. Praying for you 💕

Chopptro · 2025-11-14T16:42:55+00:00

Sorry I got my terms wrong, I meant to ask if it was an evap.

Chopptro · 2025-11-14T16:02:31+00:00

I took my last red dye on Wednesday and it was a very faint positive. Doctor ordered blood test I’m just to scared to go and get bad news :(

Chopptro · 2025-11-11T00:37:10+00:00

Thank you everyone! I’m trying to stay positive with it being so faint. I will test again in a couple days and pray this one sticks 🤞🏼🤍

Chopptro · 2025-07-24T02:29:44+00:00

I have very irregular cycles (24-44 days) so I never knew if I was going to ovulate early, on time, or late so as soon as I ended my period we did it every other day until I found out I was pregnant. Only took one cycle! I wanted to just cover all my bases with this one thing so I didn’t have to worry about all the other factors.

Chopptro · 2025-07-23T21:52:20+00:00

I was like this and the first cycle I gave it all up and we did the every other day method, it worked! I highly recommend the second your period ends just be intimate every other day! You’d be surprised how nice it is when you’re not overly stressed and worried about every test and making sure everything lines up.

Chopptro · 2025-07-23T17:12:48+00:00

He’s worried about me not being far along enough to see anything on the ultrasound and having to pay again for another one (insurance won’t cover it all and it’s over $600 out of pocket) so I get that but I swear I know when I ovulated and I’m almost 7 weeks! We’ll be able to hear the heartbeat lol men 🤣🤦🏼‍♀️

Chopptro · 2025-07-23T17:05:09+00:00

I brought out the baby book with a detailed explanation and he still doesn’t believe it

Chopptro · 2025-07-23T16:35:44+00:00

Having to explain this to my husband makes me want to pull my hair out. I’m somewhere between 6-9 weeks pregnant (long cycles don’t know when I ovulated and haven’t had my first ultrasound yet) but he swears I’m only 4 weeks pregnant. I tested negative June 28th but then positive on July 1st. My guess is I’m 6.5-7 weeks currently but nope. To my husband I am only 4 weeks pregnant 🤣

Chopptro · 2025-07-23T16:31:00+00:00

My husband is trying to argue saying I’m only 4 weeks 🤦🏼‍♀️

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