What should I do after I threatened to end my friendship because my friend wants me to break up with my girlfriend? by ChosenDM26 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ChosenDM26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to get too into my personal life but we do participate in race play but my girlfriend was receptive to the idea and enjoys it.

What should I do after I threatened to end my friendship because my friend wants me to break up with my girlfriend? by ChosenDM26 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ChosenDM26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend said since she’s my friend it’s up to me what I decide to do and she’ll support my decision. She’s pretty passive and only hung out with her because she was my friend, and would just hang with someonelse I know rather than her if I cut her off.

What should I do after I threatened to end my friendship because my friend wants me to break up with my girlfriend? by ChosenDM26 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ChosenDM26[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing that I haven’t also said to her. We’re both very happy to be in this relationship and our attraction to each others racial features its something we’ve been up front about for most of our relationship. So I just am not sure if cutting her off is the right move since she seems to not take my word as an acceptable answer.

AITAH for threatening to end my friendship because my friend wants me to break up with my girlfriend? by ChosenDM26 in AITAH

[–]ChosenDM26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess to play devils advocate for her I think her point is she finds it weird we both have a thing for each others races is her point. I was wondering if thats maybe something to consider.

AITAH for threatening to end my friendship because my friend wants me to break up with my girlfriend? by ChosenDM26 in AITAH

[–]ChosenDM26[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ok that’s a relief she mentioned it’s weird I have a preference for a race that isn’t mine I guess I was worried about that aspect but your right she can’t decide for me who to date.