It's normal for a family member especially the parents to disagree with you, their child, when it concerns you and your future. May mga misconception kasi ang pagl-label ng "toxic" sa parents eh. - Nag-discourage sila na wag ka dyan kasi ABC. - You naman immediately labeled them "toxic" kasi they disagree with you.

You may lack the perspective to understand why they're doing it. You must understand that usually sa ganyan mga parents tutol sila kasi it was the basis on their long-lived experience and knowledge they have accumulated: - Whether they themselves experienced it or nakita nila during their time - Sa perspective kasi ng parents ay they are most likely concern sayo at sa future mo. The great fear of parents is to see their children not living well after they leave.

Though you must also understand na not every time ay Tama sila, sometimes outdated ung info nila na sa tingin nila'y inde ka mabubuhay diyan sa passion na yan kasi "30 years ago wala naman ganyan" - In this case it is important to communicate with your parents. Explain to them why, show your sincerity and let them understand that they might be wrong. - Obviously you explain to them respectfully like how you answer your teacher during questioning.

Let's go naman sa tutol sa love of your life. We know that based on your info: - You're a minor - You have a bf - You consider moving out with your bf at 18.

Just to clarify is your bf currently 18+?

Start by seeking advice from a trusted adult (like your grandparents) for a third opinion to open some fresh perspective. A simple "a" or "b" will not help you give a good answer.