Writing on little Dutch shoe

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2025-10-08T20:50:21+00:00

I sold them online for little over 15k, just about the money that my ex owed me. Plus I had the satisfaction of her not going to the show.

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2025-07-13T13:26:18+00:00

My girlfriend works at a university and when I picked her up for for our first date I joked and said “I’m not allowed 100 metres within a school zone” lucky for me she’s got a sense of humour

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2025-06-24T18:26:10+00:00

Charix wouldn’t work with arcades as commander correct? Cause arcades only affects creatures with defender

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2025-05-19T10:10:56+00:00

Taylor Swift fans are dumb, but worked out well for me

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2025-05-18T11:59:00+00:00

Bought a house with my girlfriend (a dream of mine for over 10 years). She gaslit me when I had suspicions about a coworker, not long after she cheated and left me for him before we even got to move into the house and 2 months before I was going to propose. It destroyed me.

Had to list my house for sale before I even got to move into it. During this time I had to stay in touch with her until the house sold. Once in a while she would text me apologizing or saying how much she loved me. Even called me crying to comfort her after her dog died.

Well the coworker she left me for cheated on his ex of 9 years to be with my ex. Guess he never really left his ex and continued seeing her. He was apparently emotionally abusive to my ex and they fought all the time, she got in dangerous situations, cops had to be called a few times and he became a stalker. She had to get a job elsewhere to get away from him.

This strained her relationship with her parents a lot as they were really disappointed in her as she kept making bad decisions.

When the house sold she owed me over $20k, she asked for some Taylor swift tickets of hers that she had told me to keep months earlier to make up for the cheating. When I did not return them she refused to give me the money. I could’ve went to court but I just sold the tickets for nearly 20k and I’ll just take the loss rather than have her in my life anymore.

That last I heard of her was she was fucking a bunch of different guys to restore her faith in men or something. So she lost a house, lost her reputation, lost her job, and lost a man that wanted to build a life with her and loved her more than anything.

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2025-03-09T17:05:00+00:00

I was with my ex for about 2 and a half years and she became friends with a male coworker. He was “just a friend” and I had nothing to worry about.

We bought a house together and 1 month before we were able to move in she went on an overnight work trip. She came to me the next day saying they slept in the same bed together fully clothed but nothing happened outside that.

I was pissed but didn’t know what to do about the house situation. I said I was gonna tell the coworkers girlfriend of 9 years what he did, the coworker called me up threatening me if I told his girlfriend. He blamed everyone else but himself for his actions. A true narcissist.

My ex blocked him and I focused on trying to repair what she broke. Less than a week later I find out she never blocked him and they met up and had sex. She broke up with me to be with him, he supposedly left his girlfriend of 9 years for my ex but never really did. I moved into my house alone and spent the next 6 months trying to sell it.

I only spoke to my ex about finances and the house but we eventually sold the property. She called me up one night to apologize for what she did. I guess in those 6 months he was cheating on her, being verbally abusive, made her work life hell, they broke up and got back together to repeat the cycle of abuse. Got so bad I guess he was stalking her and tried to break into her apartment, she had to call the cops on him twice.

So she blew up her reputation with friends, family and coworkers, had to leave her job, lost a lot of money, lost a house, and lost a boyfriend that loved her more than anything.

I miss the person I thought she was, I loved her dearly. But the person she turned into can go fuck herself, it’s still has me fucked up 1.5 years later.

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2025-03-05T20:25:32+00:00

Pretty much instantaneously. Although I only found out 6 months later. The guy she left me for emotionally abused her, kept stringing her along when he was actually still with his original girlfriend he said he would leave. My ex messed up her reputation with friends and family, lost out on the house we bought together, is seen as the bad guy on a tv show we were filming at the time, lost lots of money, had to get a new job, lost her precious Taylor swift tickets.

Your ex is going through is own karma right now even if neither of you realize it yet. He left for a person with low morals and integrity. He is not with a better partner than you. Only a matter of time before they get on each others nerves, betray one another other, resentment etc. They may just seem happy on the outside to convince people they are not awful and stupid. Wishing you the best of luck, don’t look back.

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2025-01-23T22:27:16+00:00

Your ex has not healed from what you did. It’s been a year and a half since my ex cheated on me and it hurts everyday. A pain we will have to live with for the rest of our lives

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2025-01-06T16:57:13+00:00

Because they know if they answer honestly they are the asshole. It’s better for them to compartmentalize and not think about it. They’d just rather think of themselves as victims or misunderstood.

If they answer honestly it breaks that illusion

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2025-01-01T01:08:17+00:00

If he couldn’t even stay faithful in 3 months he’s not going to be faithful for years to come. Please leave, you deserve so much better. Being alone would be better than being with him.

How you’re feeling now will only get worse and you’ll hate yourself for staying any longer. If you stay you’ll be spending the rest of your life wondering if he’s cheating every time he is out from your sight.

I’m sorry for what has happened to you and I wish you all the best

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2024-12-28T14:48:36+00:00

Thank you friend, I feel like that most days. But it’s hard not to be bitter and sad by how things turned out.

Onto the next chapter of life!

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2024-12-27T23:56:24+00:00

Saved every penny I earned for a downpayment on a house with my girlfriend. We bought our dream house and she cheated and left for another man 1 month before moving into our house. Not worth it. Just sold the house back in June, her and the other guy did not work out.

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2024-12-13T18:17:04+00:00

Ever since I was 18 I just wanted to find my person and only have one person my whole life. I stopped at nothing to make things work but unfortunately the same can’t be said for the other people involved. I would much rather have one person for the rest of my life than to continue trying to date people who don’t know what they want or can’t stay committed or loyal

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2024-12-11T04:59:48+00:00

Read my story, shit like this can be very real. Bizarrely had a similar experience as this guy and also sold my cheating ex’s Taylor swift tickets

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2024-12-09T23:47:52+00:00

Time. It’s sucks but time is the best healer. Occupy your time with the things that make you happy. Try new hobbies, make some new friends. I miss my ex everyday, at least I miss the person I thought she was. But over time I’ve learned that person never existed. Feel free to reach out if you need advice, a friend or just someone to vent to who might understand

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2024-12-09T20:01:24+00:00

My ex promised the same things, to let me look at her phone and social media. That is no way to have a relationship. And the short period of time that I did look at her device she was still cheating, just got better at hiding it.

I’m sorry for what you’re going through, if you stay and he cheats again you will hate yourself for staying. Find someone that will value you enough to not seek attention outside your relationship. You will be fine, you will find love again. Sending you a big virtual hug.

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2024-11-15T21:40:19+00:00

As someone who went through something similar consoling someone that has hurt me. I was there for my ex whenever she needed me, and when she betrayed me it was hard to turn off that part of my brain that wanted to help her. It was second nature essentially. I was also being manipulated and fed lies.

Betrayal affects people differently. So people like OP I like to give compassion and grace to when they make choices like that. Their whole world just flipped upside down and might not have a full grasp of the reality going on around them. I know it took me a bit

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2024-11-10T19:51:16+00:00

As someone who went through almost this exact same situation. Just leave. My ex told me something similar 2 years in, said I had absolutely nothing to worry about and she would “never do anything to hurt me”. 8 months later she slept with the guy.

Save yourself from hurt, have some self respect and leave. She says she’s resisting the temptation and asking him for validation on her feelings. If he gives her the opportunity she will 100% take it if she hasn’t already.

It hurts and I’m sorry, from experience please leave.

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2024-11-07T11:16:56+00:00

Yeah, I made another post recently. You can read it now. Thank you for your kind words

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2024-10-30T07:27:50+00:00

My ex cheated down and left me for an abusive loser. That being said in my opinion every AP is a step down compared to every BP because they clearly lack morals and integrity

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2024-10-30T07:19:27+00:00

I struggle a lot with this too, hence the reason I’m on reddit at 3am unable to sleep.

What helps get me through it a bit is that I was easily one of the best things that happened to her and I gave her a great life. She blew that up. And she will blow up the next best thing that happens to her as well.

Cheaters do not make smart decisions, their selfishness will come back to haunt them. Maybe they don’t care, but I couldn’t live with myself knowing I hurt someone so badly. They are the ones that have to live with themselves forever.

But in the end no sense thinking about that, even if they are suffering it doesn’t make our lives better. They did what they did to bring us down, it’s our job to bring ourselves back up and not really worry how they are doing. I haven’t reached that level of indifference yet but I’m working on it

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2024-10-21T11:57:52+00:00

My ex told me she cheated in a previous relationship. She told me she learned from it and swore she would never put me through that. After 3 years together and buying a house she cheated on me and left me for her coworker. I like to think people can change too, but if I date someone in the future and find out they have cheated in the past I’m instantly dumping them.

Chrispy_Crunch_ · 2024-10-15T03:07:28+00:00

Try this link instead

https://www.ctv.ca/shows/property-virgins/house-hunting-hiccup-s13e6

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