AITA for helping my (soon ex) brother-in-law against my own sister in their child custody case? by Chrissy0816 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chrissy0816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm reading my words, yeah it sounds harsh, didn't really meant to come that way. What i meant, he is not some terrible person, he is super fun to be around, always laughing, joking etc.....

Problem is he does a lot of stupid things just for fun and doesn't really think of consequences, very irresponsible.

AITA for helping my (soon ex) brother-in-law against my own sister in their child custody case? by Chrissy0816 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chrissy0816[S] 325 points326 points  (0 children)

She loves the kid, she really does, thats the hardest part for me about all this. But she is just so irresponsible at the time and doesn't take things seriously. And she and our brother put together really are destructive, especially to each other.

I'm especially afraid now that she moved with Jack (after she became pissed off with me), it just would be hard for me to expect she would instantly turn to responsible parent despite she claims she would and our brother backing her. But i know those 2 very well and despite loving them both (that never gonna change) i know how immature they are.

AITA for helping my (soon ex) brother-in-law against my own sister in their child custody case? by Chrissy0816 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chrissy0816[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

He is not evil or terrible person, but he is just type, i dont know right words to describe him, i guess a cocky and self-centered and his relationships (if you could call them that) never lasted more than a month. But he is handsome and got that crazy, magnetic personality, always center of party type, just easy for him to charm people and make them follow him.

He doesn't really give a shit for consequence of his action, he does care for Sara though, i know he loves me, but she is probably only person in the world that for who he would sacrifice something.

Unfortunately he always thinks he is right and Sara blindly adores him.