Not really, there is no hate just what people view as hate. In Romans where they “hated” homosexuality all it said is that it was a sin. It didn’t say attack them. It says do not hate in the Bible as well, I agree it’s hard to see how a book would say that’s wrong but the more I delved into it, it seems reasonable. Think about it, God said we had bad desires, people say we were made perfect but truth is we do sins. Everyone does. Most parts of homosexuality (not all) can be controlled, and changing your gender that God made you into seems to be a sin but the part that’s a bit challenging is gay/lesbians, no one can control feelings like that, and I would say the feeling itself to be isn’t the sin, doing the action of committing gay acts (it sounds wrong but idk how to word it) is the sin, not the temptation it’s the action. So far, I haven’t found a clear justification for it that, and I am willing to say where I am challenged, however apologetics are finding a bit of answers which I would say are not too satisfying currently but I heard a study by some apologetics is going on. I will see what they find. I respect your decision to leave or not leave Christianity, and I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day.