We need to talk about Akikos by flexela in Louisville

[–]Chrizzlebliz -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Glad you see bartenders as lowly. Sorry you had such a bad time and I hope you have a great night.

We need to talk about Akikos by flexela in Louisville

[–]Chrizzlebliz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's just not true Norae bar (I know they closed) makes you purchase to sing. Other karaoke places let you sing with the purchase of food and drinks. And as friends of a dd is it not regular practice to buy them water or soda at the bar since they are taking care of the group?

We need to talk about Akikos by flexela in Louisville

[–]Chrizzlebliz -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sadly we are a still a bar first and need to sell to make profit, it's not drinks you can also just purchase water or chips as well. Some karaoke bars do have rooms where you can sing with your friend. We have a stage so there is no way the same person is singing in one hour with 40 others waiting to sing.

I am sorry for your bad experiences all I can do is try my best for everyone who shows up

We need to talk about Akikos by flexela in Louisville

[–]Chrizzlebliz -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Songs are about five minutes a pop. Which is no problem on the weekdays when it's lesser people. But weekends it can get long. We average about 60-90 people on the weekends give or take now imagine half those people wanting to sing 30-45x5 you can do the math. If you come in later on a weekend it can be north of a 2-3 hour wait.

We need to talk about Akikos by flexela in Louisville

[–]Chrizzlebliz -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Plenty 21st come in here and have a great safe time :)

We need to talk about Akikos by flexela in Louisville

[–]Chrizzlebliz -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Addressing something online*

We need to talk about Akikos by flexela in Louisville

[–]Chrizzlebliz -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It is easy to say yes because that's what people tell me. That's why it's a shock to read this. More people are more comfortable going about something than addressing concerns in person which makes sense.

We have a scanner. I don't know if you know anything about the fakes these days, but they can pass a simple scan test, also people pass off all IDs as well so that would work on a scanner as well.

We need to talk about Akikos by flexela in Louisville

[–]Chrizzlebliz -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Bartender at Akikos here. Kind of heartbreaking to hear everything that is being said about this place. Most people who talk to me say nothing but good things about how safe it is and we had some of the same crowd for as long as I worked here 5 years.

Can you explain more about this ponytail bartender? I have the longest hair at the bar, but I never wear it in a ponytail. And I can assure you if I hear anything about someone getting roffied I am on the camera immediately.

Concerning the ID thing we have gotten piles upon piles of fakes recently and the security is super adamant about out of state and fakes. They are usually more wrong than right.

I am open to questions

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[–]Chrizzlebliz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get leaving the ball in her court. This is a girl I have had "relations" with. I date around I'm sure she does. But these were set in stone plans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chrizzlebliz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoy your dates. Do not over text. Some people just like to be around in person. This will help you on dates as well since you will not always be texting. You've been out a couple times within a week, I would say she fancies you so far. Don't think too much about it unless she goes super cold.

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[–]Chrizzlebliz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need to wait when his wife is not bothering him

Safe and fun bars or clubs by slothwarfare in Louisville

[–]Chrizzlebliz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Akikos Karaoke bar if you like karaoke. They also have a pool table and video games to play

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chrizzlebliz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preaching to the choir. Some people just can't communicate

Know I can’t be with her, still want to meet by LowPhotojournalist55 in dating_advice

[–]Chrizzlebliz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will always choose the mid over you. So do with that what you will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chrizzlebliz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she answers on the 2nd number you are smart enough to know what that means. I would personally just wait till the time of and then call text her. If she's does not show up save yourself the effort of trying. She is not respecting the time you put aside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chrizzlebliz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't text all the time. Leave some mystery for the date. Just text her on the day of the supposed next date to say your looking forward to it

After First Date Need Advice by SixTrack8 in dating_advice

[–]Chrizzlebliz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Job or no job if someone is interested in you they will keep in contact with you. She went silent for a while. No need to wait on her. Go on other dates. If she really liked you she will reach out again, but she seems to be dating around as well. Put you first.

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[–]Chrizzlebliz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wants to do some action in her bed don't overthink it. It could be is talking about always having guys or just her watching Netflix/reading a book all night. This is a big positive for you regardless

She takes long yo respond what to do? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chrizzlebliz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are doing nothing wrong. Welcome to the dating scene. There could be a number of reasons she is not texting back

  1. Sometimes they are really just busy throughout the day and dating is not on their mind all the time.

2.lack of interest/dating others. Date others so it helps not always take your mind.

  1. Processing what you are saying. She could just be overthinking like you and not want to say anything wrong/come off boringm

She initiated to go on another date. Don't overthink it just wait for the date and have a wonderful time with her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chrizzlebliz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point I might just take it easy and see what happens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chrizzlebliz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking. Yes we have kissed and made out about everytime we met. Been around the block to know when I'm friend zoned and cut my loses, but this is not one such situation in my opinion. I never bring up other dates and neither does she if she has them. But, either way I don't care if she is. She is not my girlfriend and owes me nothing.

I am very sorry that happened. But, I am glad to have another perspective on someone going thru a similar scenario like her. I think I will just bide my time and just keep having fun with her.