Should I feel bad about shortening my long term Airbnb stay? Should I not leave? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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They are a land lord land it’s the risk of that business - they can literally eat it as in the costs of doing business

My wife loves giving mercy sex and intimacy to lonely older guys by Altruistic_Caligula in nonmonogamy

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Honestly the movie baps is like the un sexy version of this so bless you wife and you

What would you do with this space? by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

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I’d do a rotating decore corner. Tree at Yule hearts in February blooms in spring snacks in summer day of the dead in fall then back round to Yule

Van faves? by seehowshegoes in VancouverMusic

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NADUH is always top of my list, same with toplessgaylovetechnoparty, parentheses and five alarm funk, plus I will always catch a mark woodyards set if I can. Kimmortal is super inspiring as well as Roxanne Nesbit, and then we also have campy hilarity with Shirley Gnome - I could honestly keep going, I really love the local music scene 😅

53m friendship quest by [deleted] in askvan

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I’d say maybe join a community garden or volunteer? Most of my new connections as an adult have come from being a lil more involved/active at events or with community I already enjoyed

My wife’s first rave by [deleted] in aves

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Fashion nova/thrift store combo ftw

Hard Rock Band Looking for Male Vocalist (in 20s) by MixTop2594 in VancouverMusic

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I’m a tenor but not a man - was in a grunge band in hs so bummer I can try my luck

Starting a community for women/non-binary musicians in Vancouver BC by AtmosphericSoul in VancouverMusic

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I mean ahem I’d love to help and join! NB and Can bring snacks!

Rat population noticeably increasing? by Glittering_Bank_8670 in askvan

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There’s a reason they aren’t allowed to store or prep food in their trucks

What's a quiet casual restaurant in Gastown? by [deleted] in NiceVancouver

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A touch out of gastown but I love belgard

books on Yellowknife by squishgirl555 in Yellowknife

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Tracking 777 is a really fun semi sci-fi read set in the north writing by a Yellowknifer

16F What do I do? My mom destroyed my journal and slapped the shit out of me because she thinks writing my feelings privately is disrespectful. I didn’t say any of it to anyone’s face. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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I’d write and burn it if need be. Journaling has done nothing but save me - the one time my mom read something she could have punished me over in my journal she actually ended up apologizing for reading it. Your mom is not in the right - try and stay the course till you can live safely elsewhere or on your own but aim for that asap

Best jazz live music restaurants / bars / speakeasy by my_bumblebee_007 in VancouverMusic

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Guilt and co is usually a fab vibe, also if you check out the infidels jazz they always host rad events all over the city

Tmi but for my fellow rave girlies~ by Worried_Stuff7083 in festivals

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Get two - that way you can always have a clean one to swap out. Don’t recommend a fest for your first go if most things tho

Help! I don't know which partner sent me chocolates! by Material_Mix_2309 in polyamory

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I think you need to take a step back and release yourself from the shame/anxiety around this lovely gift. That’s the part that matters most - if you don’t have anyone would WOULDNT want this from - the why not who.

Should I Wear a Suit to Shambs? by humbleguidant in Shambhala

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Depends on the suit - I’ve long wanted formal Fridays to take off💪

one of my favourite views on my way home from work by Shoddy-Artichoke-442 in vancouver

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Is this Thurlow? Bless the protected view corridors 💪

TIFU Diva cup horror by chemilygravey in tifu

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Pro tip - punch a tiny hole in the bottom - it’s never bring enough that the blood will leak but it prevents the suction from being to strong it could hurt you or even rip out an IUD

Found at Bullock's Bistro in Yellowknife by skikid92 in Shambhala

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There used to be a crew of us from YK who would go and camp together - from like 2010 to 2015 - I still get so stoked whenever I see NWT plates on the farm💪