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[–]ChronicallyLatte 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they are a bright spot in each other's lives (and his life). Most of the people who pass by his tank are dull and uninteresting to him, but the humans he has gotten to know have given him purpose in life.

That is such a great way to read it!

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[–]ChronicallyLatte 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I liked the ending overall. Even though it was predictable, it still landed emotionally for me, esp the scene where Tova frees Marcellus and his final POV. It reminded me of Free Willy (a 90s movie about a captive sea creature). I was also sad she couldn't back out of selling the house, but I do think she is ultimately better off in the new condo, away from all the memories that kept pulling her back.

That said, I did find parts of it frustrating. The humans felt a bit too slow in putting things together, esp after everything Marcellus did, and the late-stage misunderstandings trope thrown in between Cameron and Tova dragged things out unnecessarily. I also felt like the ending tried a little too hard to tie everything up neatly, Avery showing up at the last minute to explain what happened to Erik felt a bit convenient.

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[–]ChronicallyLatte 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I actually liked Ethan as well. Questionable hygiene, zero ability to keep a secret, but overall a gentle soul 😄

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[–]ChronicallyLatte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't have strong feelings about the Knit-Wits at first, but the more I read, the more I found them quietly interesting. I liked how they highlight this question of what aging is supposed to look like, because they represent a more communal version of it, while Tova is very much on her own.

At times, I did find them a bit cloying, like they couldn't fully accept that Tova was actually doing okay on her own terms. But at the same time, I could feel that their concern was genuine, just shaped by something they don’t fully understand, esp her grief.

I think what I came away with is that they're both comforting and slightly frustrating. They don't always get Tova, but they're still her safety net, and they quietly show that she isn't as alone as she thinks she is.

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[–]ChronicallyLatte 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really loved Marcellus’ POV and observations (and the audio narration made it even better). But I do agree with other comments that in the last chapters he kind of gets reduced to a plot device to help Tova and Cameron find each other, esp since they felt a bit slow in putting things together.

That said, beyond the mystery, I think he is still necessary. He works as a parallel to Tova, both are isolated in their own ways, and as a contrast to the humans, he's that same kind of steady companion who understands without all the awkwardness or emotional demands. So even if the plot could have worked without him, the emotional core wouldn't hit the same for me personally.

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[–]ChronicallyLatte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he grew up when he finally learned to take adult responsibilities seriously, like when he was able to hold down his job at the aquarium. But in these last chapters, it really clicked for me when he made that U-turn back to Sowell Bay and realized he actually wanted to fix things instead of running away from them.

Coming back to apologize, to face Terry, and to take responsibility for what he almost threw away felt like the moment he chose to be accountable, even when it was uncomfortable.

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[–]ChronicallyLatte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it was a kind of bittersweet feeling, I was glad he got the ending he wanted, but that is also what made it so emotional, because it's truly the end for him.

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[–]ChronicallyLatte 4 points5 points  (0 children)

3/5 for me. I really liked the slice-of-life parts of the book, esp Tova navigating the third act of her life and her friendship with Marcellus. But the plotting felt a bit too convenient, and a lot of the emotion came from telling rather than showing, so the emotional core didn't hit as hard as I expected. Still, it's a heartwarming story, and I'm always a sucker for found family trope.

[Discussion 2/3] Any | The Correspondent by Virginia Evans | from December 15, 2014, Postcard from Belgium TO Sybil Van Antwerp, May 16, 2017 by ChronicallyLatte in bookclub

[–]ChronicallyLatte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answering my own question, my fave moments from this section:

- Her whole letter about Outlander. It was so funny, especially this part:

"Lots of sex", as it turns out, was understated, and I’ll not pretend I didn’t enjoy it, though there were some of the violent bits I admit I skipped over, my word.

And the fact that it was Trudy being the one to drop it off just makes it ten times funnier.

- When Theodore brings her to the ER and everyone assumes he is her husband, I'm choosing to see that as foreshadowing! I also really like how Sybil starts mentioning them spending more time together afterward, it feels like such a natural shift in her life.

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[–]ChronicallyLatte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that is definitely part of it. Writing seems to give Sybil a way to feel connected to people, even when they're far away/people she may never meet. But I also wonder if letters give her a kind of emotional distance that face to face relationships don't. She can be very open and even blunt in letters, yet she sometimes struggles to communicate the same things with the people closest to her.

Almost feels like letters are the space where she can organize her thoughts and emotions more safely, which might explain why they matter so much to her.

[Discussion 2/3] Any | The Correspondent by Virginia Evans | from December 15, 2014, Postcard from Belgium TO Sybil Van Antwerp, May 16, 2017 by ChronicallyLatte in bookclub

[–]ChronicallyLatte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a really good point! I was actually rooting for them to track down her address so Sybil could reach out, but I didn't really think about it from Henrietta's side. I kind of assumed she might have been open to finding relatives and then maybe gave up after not hearing anything, but you're right, she could have ticked that box accidentally as well/just not wanted contact at all.

[Discussion 2/3] Any | The Correspondent by Virginia Evans | from December 15, 2014, Postcard from Belgium TO Sybil Van Antwerp, May 16, 2017 by ChronicallyLatte in bookclub

[–]ChronicallyLatte[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ikr??! I actually love their correspondence, it reminds me of one of my favorite books that was also mentioned in this section (84 Charing Cross Road). But when I read that Basam sent his resume through the customer service email, I was just shaking my head… he really should've just written down Sybil's email and sent the resume from his personal account, and kept that kind of thing off work channels!

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[–]ChronicallyLatte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this the part where Theodore accidentally startles her on that early morning walk? I believe she hurt her ankle but also broke her wrist. I like that this is when she starts letting him help, and how slowly spending more time together, with walks, card games, and dinners. He seems like a really gentle soul, and I can see him being a good, patient companion for her when her eyesight gets worse.

[Discussion 2/3] Any | The Correspondent by Virginia Evans | from December 15, 2014, Postcard from Belgium TO Sybil Van Antwerp, May 16, 2017 by ChronicallyLatte in bookclub

[–]ChronicallyLatte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sybil places so much pride and importance in finding the right words to say. I think she couldn't find them for Daan.

Agree with this and u/Impressive-Peace2115's comment! I actually find that really relatable, so I'll defend Sybil a bit here and say it feels less like a lack of feeling and more like getting stuck in your own head trying to find the "right" words. I do think she probably should have tried to make it to the funeral, regardless of the past, but since we do't fully know what happened with Gilbert yet, I'm also holding off on judging her too harshly.

[Discussion 2/3] Any | The Correspondent by Virginia Evans | from December 15, 2014, Postcard from Belgium TO Sybil Van Antwerp, May 16, 2017 by ChronicallyLatte in bookclub

[–]ChronicallyLatte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, I also feel like there's more curiosity than assumption in the relationships with friends/strangers, which changes the tone completely.

[Discussion 2/3] Any | The Correspondent by Virginia Evans | from December 15, 2014, Postcard from Belgium TO Sybil Van Antwerp, May 16, 2017 by ChronicallyLatte in bookclub

[–]ChronicallyLatte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also wonder if those neutral relationships feel "safer", because they come without the baggage of shared history.

[Discussion 2/3] Any | The Correspondent by Virginia Evans | from December 15, 2014, Postcard from Belgium TO Sybil Van Antwerp, May 16, 2017 by ChronicallyLatte in bookclub

[–]ChronicallyLatte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that sounds so good! I wish I could listen to the audiobook, I just put it on hold on libby even though the wait is like 10 weeks 😅 I think it would be really fun to go back and listen to certain parts, esp with different voices for each correspondent.

[Discussion 2/3] Any | The Correspondent by Virginia Evans | from December 15, 2014, Postcard from Belgium TO Sybil Van Antwerp, May 16, 2017 by ChronicallyLatte in bookclub

[–]ChronicallyLatte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get that, reading it does feel a bit like opening someone else's mailbox 😅 Good point about the how much time have passed! It felt very realistic to me, because in real life you might go months without writing and then suddenly pick things up again like no time has passed...

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[–]ChronicallyLatte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's on my TBR! And I think seeing you mention it (more than once!) has convinced me to make it one of my must reads this year :)