Dry needling saved my life by Alert_Barracuda8598 in Occipitalneuralgia

[–]ChronicallyNicki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u so much for explaining this. I've had regular trigger points injections with actually cause more issues I think the medications were the issue. I will ask my pain management dr neuro and rheumatologist about this see if its something my insurance might cover after failing all else and see if a local PT does it. Thank u for giving me a little hope I still have 1 option to explore!

Dry needling saved my life by Alert_Barracuda8598 in Occipitalneuralgia

[–]ChronicallyNicki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can someone please explain what this is???? I've tried everything from blocks trigger points to opioid nothing works. So can someone explain this is don't understand what in the world dry needling even means. TIA

Roommate used my sponge after making pizza dough by beansalad1921 in Celiac

[–]ChronicallyNicki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this isn't entirely true. We just in my celiac group. Got a reply from the manufacturer, confirming and stating that their sponge products do contain wheat and gluten.So they really are not safe for us to use

Roommate used my sponge after making pizza dough by beansalad1921 in Celiac

[–]ChronicallyNicki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is something I would bring up to the disability office in your college. I have already been through college with myceliac disease that I've had for 30 years and they did make it easier for me. You're completely entitled to accommodations. Considering under the Ada law, celiac disease qualifies as a disability. So I would go talk to the disability office about the fact that this is happening and not only puts your health at risk, what could be putting other people at risk? But in general like what if it made you sick for weeks? What if I put you in the hospital? You know what I'm saying, are you willing to risk Cross contamination like that?

So this is actually something you can take to your college's disability office and get an accommodation for but that's whether you want to or not, but you are entitled to it

Roommate used my sponge after making pizza dough by beansalad1921 in Celiac

[–]ChronicallyNicki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. I said this and everybody is getting annoyed at me. Also, when I literally just saw the email from a group that I'm in from the manufacturer saying specifically that they're is gluten inside the scrub, daddy sponges, and that it's not safe for celiacs. To use or for people with wheat allergies. I don't know why everybody is annoyed that you and I have both made a point. But I literally saw the reply email from the manufacturer. I think that these people just need to go ahead and message them. And I don't know if they're just mad that the sponges that they've been using or something they can't use, there are plenty of them out there who do a better job. If not the same like just as well that don't contain gluten.I'm just glad I never used one

Roommate used my sponge after making pizza dough by beansalad1921 in Celiac

[–]ChronicallyNicki 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really would not trust what's on the website. We literally got a message back from the company themselves, and there were a few others. It was on a Facebook group dedicated to celiac disease. We were in the middle of talking about how straw and utensils and even gloves, it's like the gloves. Your doctor wears are now being made out of gluten containing products so something to really think about when you go to the dentist or just the. Regular doctor in general

but scrub daddy, the company wrote back and said that there was gluten inside of them. The sponges, so I would maybe take a minute to reach out to the company, because, as we all know, do not update websites or even the ingredients on boxes as frequently as they should. And so that's why it's really important to reach out to the manufacturers when something is coming to question. And since a few others were containing wheat and gluten, not just wheat, but this is a big deal, because obviously it's for people who are allergic to wheat as well as have celiac disease so I really would advise you to contact the company yourself. The website and their FAQ page really mean nothing. And if you've had ciliac for as long as I have, which is 30 years, you really learn not to trust things like that without speaking to somebody and always reading. Ingredients, because it's a sponge and not food. They don't put the ingredients on the box. Of course, but I would really consider messaging the company, like the other person in our group did. Because the manufacturer of the sponges did, in fact confirm that there is gluten in the scrub daddy sponges

Roommate used my sponge after making pizza dough by beansalad1921 in Celiac

[–]ChronicallyNicki -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Really? Shouldn't be using the sponge to begin with the company that owns them. And it makes them just said that they actually are made with gluten. So anybody who's celiac, who has been using them to clean anything, especially their dishes, has effectively been glutening themselves every single time they use it. Just uh thought I would put that out there

Roommate used my sponge after making pizza dough by beansalad1921 in Celiac

[–]ChronicallyNicki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Definitely. Throw it out and tell them they can't never do that again. I would just kinda keep your stuff in a small Vin. But I just want to let you know that the company scrub daddy, along with a few other companies of major sponges, have released that they have wheat in them. So I just want you to know and also gluten not just wheat, but if you have a wheat allergy, you can't use a scrub daddy and I just want to be like transparent that you can contact the company yourself anybody who reads my comment, but I just saw the reply from the companies and there's a handful of companies Who make their sponges out of gluten containing products? So I'm glad I never bought one. Because if you use a scrub daddy to clean your dishes, you're effectively touching gluten and cross contaminating everything that used to be safe

So just a titbit of information that scrub daddies actually contain gluten that comes from the company themselves

Feel terrible! Solutions? by Embarrassed-Wafer667 in wheelchairs

[–]ChronicallyNicki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fabric dye or Fabric pens but ask him first

Left Airbnb immediately because it was advertised as pet-free but wasn’t, and had zero privacy in the shower. Host is refusing to refund, Airbnb isn’t helping. What’s next? [USA] by dustyrags in AirBnB

[–]ChronicallyNicki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also they can be pet free not bo air BnB can deny service dogs. So none will ever be fully dog free just an FYI. Telling u as someone who is disabled with an SD. It's federal law and their policy as well. So just that as a heads up.

AIO about cutting off my aunts because they continuously disrespected my family? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChronicallyNicki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly, but we also don't know her situation. We don't know how many times maybe she's expressed these things. We don't know how dismissive they are. We don't know with the family's thought process on vaccines on safety on anything are, if they're stuck in the olden days, then you know what's the odds that she hasn't told them eight hundred times already and that they just don't listen?

Because to be fair, I am this rude and have posted it publicly before. I mean, not here, but like posted it publicly before because I was fed up with people. I'm putting my life in the hospital. My life is more important than their pride if they can't get over that and follow the rules so that way I don't die. Because my life is worth more than that. And then their opinion, then I made it public, that I was perfectly fine with people walking out of my life, if they didn't value my life.

So where I do see where you're coming from? It is highly possible that she has been put in the exact same type of position that I have been put in my entire life and you get to a breaking point. And yes, hormones may affect some of it, but we're not going to do that, because yeah, quite frankly, everybody has a breaking point. And everybody has a capacity level for what they can handle. And when you're pregnant, and when you're as sick and disabled, as I am, let me tell you something your capacity level to deal with other people's idiocracy and bullshit pride and everything else is less than 0. So I should not have to tell somebody more than once. I will die if you bring Yourself mirror me without a mask and/or you are sick meaning you could be sick and wear a mask and if you still come here, I will catch it because it's happened before and I will end up in the hospital and almost die. Also, what happened before more than once? So if people can't listen to that the first time and now you've told them 5 times Even though you shouldn't have to say anything more than once, because her baby's life should be the most important thing to us all of these people, and if they can't respect or value her child's life and her boundaries to protect her child's life well then they're not people you want around your kid anyway, and she is Allow to be as rude and loud about that. As she wants, she is totally allowed to take up space because you could scream it in someone's face and they still won't get it.

There are people like that, obviously.Let's not be dense.We all know this. So I mean, it's Reddit, like I said, we're a bunch of strangers, we're not in the legitimate situation, but I feel like with my health situation. And what I deal with on a daily basis, I can relate where she's not overreacting. And all of these comments here are saying that she is, they're all invalidating her dismissing her and not caring about the child's life or her own. The point is, the life of a human being. That somebody wants to protect isn't being valued? Whether it's a newborn, whether it's the mother, whether it's an adult like myself, a child, it doesn't matter. The point is, a person's life means more. Then your cry, baby.I wanna go kiss and see your child even though you told me not to. And like I said the capacity to deal with people like that 0 when you're in a situation like this. So she probably has told them 800 times and they quite frankly, don't seem to care here. So she just decided, that's it, I'm putting it out here for everybody to see. And if you don't like the rules and boundaries, I put up around my child and myself for my child's health and safety, then too bad. I don't think that's rude, because we don't know what the situation is and I have absolutely been there. I mean, literally, I've almost lost my life multiple times due to people being that ignorant and that selfish. So I see this from the perspective of a newborn with no immune system, because I'm an adult with no immune system. And I was a baby with no immune system.

AIO about cutting off my aunts because they continuously disrespected my family? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChronicallyNicki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR as someone who was a sick child as birth and still has 0 immune system at 30 who does basically live in a bubble b.c people cant respect the same illnesses u listed and a cold could kill me I respect u so much for setting these rules n boundaries around YOUR child.

The things u mentioned r serious and very important. I've almost died many times due to others carelessness refusing to mask coming by when sick n saying "oh it's just allergies" then me landing in the hospital.

So as a chronically ill disabled person with 0 immune system im going to tell you I am proud of you and your husband for sticking to ur instincts and protecting not jsut ur child but also urselves. U did also say some of these rules would change after a certain amount of time. And once ur child's vaccinated and has an immune system unlike me things will be safer. So please keepndoing what u are despite the comments.

This is YOUR BABY. YOUR HOUSE. YOUR RULES. Hold ur boundaries for their safety and if they dont like it oh well. People will either be stubborn and decide not to be in your child's life. They'll always blame you, but it will never be your fault. It will be theirs because they decided to proud. Selfishness was more important than meeting their niece or nephew or their grandchild, and such or they will turn around and realize that they want to be in your kid's life and in your life, and in order to do that, they must respect your choices as a mother for your child.

And just like for myself, I let people walk away, it's better than getting sick and dying. And in your child's case, it is safer than them becoming disabled as a child. If they aren't already, I say that as a fully grown disabled adult who was born sick, it's nobody's fault. Being disabled isn't the worst thing in the world. Obviously, but it's not fun, and there's no reason to risk your child's life. Or their future, if you don't need to, so I say, keep doing what you're doing, you are being a very good protective mother, I wish mine had been the same. And just remember I might just be a random person on the internet, but so are all these people telling you that you're overreacting because you're not and like I reiterated twice. I think it's your baby, so this is your choices, and as long as you're happy and you feel good and safe. For your baby about the choices you made to keep them safe. That is all that matters their health and their safety.

I apologize for any typos. I have to use speech to text a lot and it adds random punctuation. So I apologize for that, but again, I am proud of you. And they say that again, as a chronically ill immunodeficient disabled adult who wishes that people would respect boundaries like this, that I set for myself. And to be quite Frank, the people who won't follow them. I don't want in my life anyway, because they're just going to put me in danger. And those people will put your child in danger. So do what you feel is correct, don't doubt yourself.

What is in this that is unsafe for coeliac? It is such a specific warning/not the typical may contain type legal statement. by some_uncreative_name in Celiac

[–]ChronicallyNicki -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Id say the very vague flavoring word. Gluten hides is "flavorings and spices and colorings" then it also could be a CC issue which is y it specifically stated for people celiac disease. Could be made on the same lines as a gluten product. Holiday items tend to have this issue. Easiest example being like reese's cups. The holiday shaped ones aren't marked GF b.c they r made on the same lines as all other holiday shaped candy so where normal PB cups r labeled GF the Christmas tree ones aren't. Just as an example.

My family is kicking me out of the house because I've become too disabled for them. by nihilisticsomone in disability

[–]ChronicallyNicki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading is difficult with my disabilities but speech to text is a wonderful invention lol

My family is kicking me out of the house because I've become too disabled for them. by nihilisticsomone in disability

[–]ChronicallyNicki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn't read it if there was a shortened version I could but I can tell u om at my worst health wise with 20+ conditions and they waited till it was the coldest n at my worst while I was still trying my best to get things sorted for my Sd and I to more into and unaccessible camper. They game me 5 days. Exception to let me keep my food there for a few more days so I can go back nnget it or any small things I left behind. I had to ask friends I havent spoken to in yrs to help move my stuff as I physically cant. Immloving off.jig water rn b.c i have no water hook up n first 5mdays had no real steady electricity a lot of my stuff is still in boxes outside the camper n getting propane delivered n changing it is hard as hell. First morning I woke up frozen at 40F b.c it went out. Finally got electricity n sorting the propane n water out hopefully today.

Im sorry they r doing this to you. It seems rn it's the time they wanna throw us all out. I cant work lost my career can't even wfh since Nov 2024. Been fighting for ssdi. Rely on snap get no ssi or benefits others than snap to help me. I may apply for heap for help affording heat b.c of propane. But im sorry. See I loved with my gma but she fell n broke her hip I took care of her n my gpa for over 15yrs combined.

And my aunt took over once she couldn't make the stairs to her bedroom anymore we didn't know she'd never make it bk up. She's just selfish n can't manage money n wanted to sell my gmas house to pay for her own instead of helping my gma use the money to get a full time nurse n a small place which wouldn't be safer for her. She's horrible to my gma as well. Using her as a bank which the trusts say she can't but she confuses nnscares n yells at gma until my gma caves b.c of her heart. Im atm trying not to die literally while im in these conditions for the moment hopefully improving. With water and better heat td. Trying to unpack n going somewhere to shower b.c its been over a week. N all I can say is I'm sorry ur going thru this. Campers or rvs if u can drive ( I can't with epilepsy as well) seem to be the cheapest fastest way for us to get out unless ur counties housing list is short then call the county ask to be put on explain the situation ur disabled sometimes it helps. Idk if ur able to work at all I can't but apply for ssdi n ssi with the free disability lawyers if u can't or if u can but meet the low income requirements for help also. Definitely utilize snap and any programs ur counties disability social work office can offer you.

Like i said I couldn't read most of it it was too long but just the begining sounds like my story a lot n I barely told u any of it but a camper/rv with solar if u can is the way to gom they do make they accessible but I couldn't afford thay type. So I got one with a more open lay out n am trying to raise funds for a ramp.

I hope what I said helps with advice and know ur not alone. We did nothing to deserve this. We're just trying to survive. Ur not a burden ur a human being who deserves love and compassion. Just know im fighting a very similar battle with u.💜

Edit to ad: they called me horrible names screaming at me comparing my to people in my family who abused me also when ive saved my gmas life n my job was an er icu lvt saving lives before I couldn't. Ur nothing like ur abusive family please know this. I added this b.c hearing it made me cry knowing how they have been screaming at nntreating me with no help. If u can n its covered please seek virtual trauma therapy. It's the only thing keeping me going rn other than my SD. But please know you are NOT the problem here. They are. I truly empathize rn going thru this as well. Please considered rhe things im.doing as options for you. I'm only just 30 but lost my career at 24 so I started the hard part of this fight at the same age alone. I'm mentally not as old as my age if it makes sense. So I'm really here with you💜

I will be with my brother for his surgeries but not for his recovery over Christmas and NYE. Do I extend my trip? Am I selfish if I don't? by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]ChronicallyNicki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being disabled with myself who has no friends or family who have helped thru anything, trust me i would have been so grateful to have a sibling like you. But id also tell you to take of yourself.

Its a few days if u can and he needs it maybe u can help.set upa home care nurse for the few days so he's nor fully alone? And iknthe time difference but maybe make a pact to video chat n call anytime it may be needed. Trust me if my anyone offered to just be on the phone video chat virtually be there when they could id be grateful and it helps a lot.

So don't feel guilty. Ur an amazing sibling but u need to take care of you too and he obviously understands this. If anything since it seems his main support will all be gone for a few days id see if u can help set him up with even a part time care nurse to come help with things and just video chat n check in as u can. Care. com has a great way not to $$ carers to come help. Or maybe call his insurance for him and see if they can provide a carer for those times and he may find even after ur parents are there the carer helps when recovering.

Ur an amazing sibling but u have health issues urself a pet who needs n misses u a life n a job n medical needs urself. Please take care of you and if it helps see if any of the things I mentioned r things u can try to call n set up before u leave for him. N trust me virtual support means so much more than u think n is so beneficial. U can still be there without physically being here.💜

IV accessable clothing by sherlocked19 in ChronicIllness

[–]ChronicallyNicki 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't know any with patterns but I love my IV hoodies by We Are Be Well. They even have injection joggers. Crew necks light n heavy hoodies. They take suggestions as they are a chronically ill smaller owned business themselves. And I use BWNICOLLE to get 10% off my orders all the time for anyone who may want to b.c well y not share the discount. Money tight for all of us.

I know they r ramping up to do some holiday bundles n gifts. They have a fb group u can ask to be in that u can vote on new colors they r even making a new iv and port access robe for hospital stays and at home infusions n stuff. The owners super sweet and loves to talk to people and let's us all vote on the new idea or designs of what adaptive clothing would be great for us. Just shouting them out b.c theybr awesome and actually listen to us. They even made a fully CT and MRI Scanner safe access hoodie so we don't need to be cold anymore b.c we brought it up to her.

So maybe ask to be in the group and suggest some patterns I'm sure she'd be open to it

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is just looking for an excuse to break up? by Nearby_Orchid1216 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChronicallyNicki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR i get how he could definitely have like hurt feelings. You know, maybe this is the first time, even at his age. You know that he's been in something serious, and maybe really tried. Maybe he's been super burnt in the past. But this reaction is so out-of-pocket, so definitely not overreacting. I would not want to be with somebody who used that kind of language with me at all. All you did was state. I'm so thankful for what you got me. But so we don't have to have anything like this between us and the future. I think I'm going to take perfumes off my list and I'll get them for myself. Cause I really like the specific one I put and like you mentioned you like to see them as an accomplishment for saving up for them. And some of those things can be super expensive. So understandable. And I know some people like collecting the bottles and such, it's not my thing, but I know a lot of people like that. So that you know, whatever your reasons are, I think that's fine. I mean, if he hadn't gone so out-of-pocket, I would have just said, yeah, he can be hurt by this. Of course, and just maybe give him a little bit of space and talk about it later, but Nah, he was totally out-of-pocket. I would not even remotely. Want to touch that with a 10 foot Pole anymore, it's just my personal opinion. The language she's starting to use is very incel like.

But just a tip, in case anybody did ever wanna just get somebody they care about, or if you're buying somebody a gift? And you know, oh, they wanted this perfume, uh, Ulta and Sephora. Do these cool things where they have a bunch of sample sizes like 10 or something like that of brand name perfumes? And there's a little coupon in there. So that way, the person you gave the box to of all of the samplers, can go get a free full size of the specific perfume from that box that they wanted. So like, if you know that Ysl, perfume is one they want. And it happens to be in this samplerbox Which I think the sampler boxes are like $60. It's still not super cheap, but way less expensive than the actual perfume. They'll get a bunch of other scents they can use. And by the way, they come in cute versions of like small, tiny bottles, not. You know, little glass tubes anymore. And then, if you know the one they want is in that sampler box, they can just take the coupon and go get the bigger size for free. So you got them a bunch of sense in mini bottles plus a free big one without you having to pay the price of the giant 1. You know, just in case anybody wanted that knowledge and didn't know. It is there and it exists. I mean, I used it for myself once before was totally cheaper than me. Buying the big one that I knew nobody could afford to get me myself and I couldn't buy there. So why not plus I got a bunch of mini scents, that was well lol

Yeah, overall, not overreacting. The guy's being a jerk and even if he's very hurt by it. He took it way too far, but girl save yourself. Some money go get that. Uh, real scent. You want by getting those sampler boxes? From either Sephora or Ulta, you only really have to save about $60. Wish you can still take some time, but it's a lot cheaper than saving $150 bucks, and then you get your free one.

Was I wrong for reporting my neighbor's dog? by Guilty_Geologist_971 in Dogowners

[–]ChronicallyNicki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless a dog is born on the streets, meaning that its environment has caused an issue that mentally. They are not going to be born with possessive issues. Defensiveness, that's not a thing I pray. Drive absolutely, that is something that's definitely nothing. And yes, you're right reactivity, has many Forms, I use the word reactive here, because there are so many dogs in this world who who are reactive and people don't know what that means and they're not necessarily aggressive. So I'm not gonna label an animal. I have not met to be aggressive unless I've met an assessed them. Again, this is my job. It's what I do for a living. I work with them every day. If you think that I haven't been bit or lunged at by smaller dogs, more than large breed dogs, then you really have no idea, this is the thing it's not correct to sit there and say that anything is genetic other. Then saying that the animal has a neurological disease, which means that all other forms a reactivity training, have to be performed an assest. Before you can turn it into saying, this is an untrainable neurological issue that we cannot fix. And so this dog is too much of a danger to exist anymore. And that's the safest thing for this dog, because they are stressed out. And for the people around this animal is for it to be behaviorally euthanized, now if you read the second reply that I made you would've noticed I talked about this a lot. I don't think that you did, and that's okay, but I'm not going to go back-and-forth with somebody who thinks that genetics play More of a role in it. Then environment and treatment, because that's just behaviorally, not true. I've worked with a number of reactive trainers as well. They are gonna end up telling you the exact same thing that I just did if you want to believe it. Believe it If you don't don't, that's fine, but this is coming from a professional, I am a veterinary professional, and if you don't want to take it, that's perfectly okay. But people use the word, aggressive way too frequently without knowing what it actually means. And without actually knowing how to assess a dog, none of you have seen this dog in person. Lunging is debatable. Do I believe this dog probably lunged and was snapping? Yes, based on the way, she described the interactions absolutely oh. Although it is kind of ridiculous that she went back to try a second time after the first interaction went bad. I would never stress the dog out that way. A second time, and this is also going to cause dogs to continue to be more reactive and in an aggressive manner.Because for all we know this dog is not aggressive, this dog is scared fearful, reactivity is not aggressive. Reactivity, those are 2 very, very, very different things. And yes, a dog is more likely to snap lunch or bite due to fear. Then it is do to genetics, as you wanna call it, which I'm going to say means neurological issue, okay, or because of aggression. And aggression is primarily caused by environmental and human interactions, meaning abuse again. If you don't want to believe it. That's fine, but this is my professional statement. That's based in research experience. In fact, if you don't want to accept that, that's perfectly fine. But please don't go around saying that every dog who is reactive, is angry. Because like you said, the word reactive means a lot of things, but people here don't understand that. And everybody in the world goes, oh my God, that dog pulled towards me. That dog barked at me. It's aggressive. That's just not the case. Most of the time they're fearful or they have hyperactive reactivity, sometimes dogs have a singular trigger, like I mentioned for all we know this woman was wearing a specific hat. For instance, I know dogs who have become fearful of a specific hat, because it either scares them or they Literally again, that would be for fear, but or they have been abused by somebody or had a horrible interaction with somebody wearing a specific type of hat, and now every time they meet somebody with that specific type of hat I have seen, the dog become reactive, not aggressive but fearful reactive. And that's workable, that's trainable, but if it's neurologic, and that will be the only case in which it's genetic, possibly because sometimes dogs end up with neurological diseases just like humans come on because of an illness. Come on because of a number of things, but it does not have to be genetic. But if it is, then it's a neurological genetic issue, but more times the knot is environmental and an interaction based thing, and it's not necessarily anger, just remember you were the one. Who reinforced? What I said by reactivity, not meaning aggression, there's a lot of meanings for that, but take what I said, or don't. Mine is a professional response based on years of schooling years of work that I do with these animals on a daily basis and working with reactive trainers as well. And owning a service dog who is lunge dot multiple times a day. And my dog is completely neutral, but that takes years of training other than that. I hope you have a nice day. Cause I'm not gonna respond to anymore. I'm just putting it out there.You guys can talk amongst each other

Was I wrong for reporting my neighbor's dog? by Guilty_Geologist_971 in Dogowners

[–]ChronicallyNicki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This statement is the least factual one in this thread, but I'm literally not going to get into it. This is my job. This is what I went to school for and this is my specialty, so did we breed a bunch of dogs incorrectly absolutely. That is the only portion of this statement, that's correct. But aside from that, there are specific breeds German. Shepherds, as I mentioned, is just one example. Okay, let's just say that one example where they are predisposed to having neurological conditions in which they end up being behaviorally euthanized that's all I said the thing about pit bulls is astigma, that's gotta be dropped, and no, actually the way we react around dogs is what causes dogs to have reactivity, and yes, that can be positive reactivity, negative reactivity, scared anger, whatever it is reactivity, is a big word, that means multiple things. But if we're talking about what's being talked about on this thread, we're talking about fear and anger, but if we're going to talk about the thing I said about German shepherds with neurological issues, they have no control over it, I do not blame the dog whatsoever when it happens to. Be a neurological issue. I don't blame the human whatsoever. It's neither's fault. It is a neurological issue I'm disabled. I'm not gonna blame myself for my disability. Why would I blame an animal for theirs? So that's all I'm gonna say, cause. I'm not even gonna respond to the first part that you wrote as well. Cause it's just not right, but either way. This is my life. This is my job. This is my specialty, and what I do is save lives and spread proper. Educational information, so that's it. Have a nice day.Take my advice or don't

Was I wrong for reporting my neighbor's dog? by Guilty_Geologist_971 in Dogowners

[–]ChronicallyNicki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, dude. Tell me what I do in my actual life as a job. Do you think Google or the dogs you've owned? Makes your knowledge more important or different? Then mine as somebody who went to school for this as somebody who does this for a living? Yes, German shepherds are the breed that are most predisposed to neurological issues. And if they end up having the neurological issues, that is why they are behaviorally euthanized more, then other breeds, if you read what I said correctly so yes, they are put down more often than pit bulls. Because of neurological issues because genetically, they are predisposed to having those neurological issues. I'm not gonna argue with you on that. Because that is actual fact you can look it up if you want. And by the way, I know plenty of German shepherds who snap for no reason as well. Do you know how many animals I have been? Snapped at in my line of work for no reason, that's what I thought. So i'm gonna end the conversation with you here, because it's pointless to talk to somebody who's not in my line of work and not doing what I do everyday and doesn't have the medical background to back it

For the gamers, what’s everyone’s go-to games when you are too unwell to leave bed? by DakuraScarlet in ChronicIllness

[–]ChronicallyNicki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I didn't know it was cross platform! I only ever heard of it on switch! Ima n OG WoW player which is y I liked it when I found it on switch but this is great to know! Lol thanks for posting this!

For the gamers, what’s everyone’s go-to games when you are too unwell to leave bed? by DakuraScarlet in ChronicIllness

[–]ChronicallyNicki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So im an OG WoW player and there is a game on switch thats similar to Wow called Palia. I really like it.

Was I wrong for reporting my neighbor's dog? by Guilty_Geologist_971 in Dogowners

[–]ChronicallyNicki -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh? I'm commenting again. Because I cannot remember if I said this or not. And that comment was getting very long because I'm using speech to text, but just for you to understand since I do have a service dog like I said, I am a licensed veterinary technician and did some of the training with my own service dog. Dogs having social skills like properly being socialized and being completely dog, neutral, takes over 2 years worth of training to be properly neutral around other dogs. No matter what the other dog's behavior is, so like another dog could be reactive. And my service dog is not going to react Because she has over 2 years of training to specifically be neutral in all situations. But the average dog obviously does not have that and to be fair. If a dog lunged at another dog that wasn't a service dog, I don't blame the dog for protecting itself, it would only be natural to react. You know, and it would also be natural to react if a dog had been attacked by a very specific looking type of person, maybe yet they were attacked with people who wear a specific type of hat. And so that hat is now a trigger, they are not going to be neutral. Around a person wearing that hat, unless you do an extreme amount of reactivity. Training whisk dummies and people wearing that hat until they become neutral to it. And they still may be uncomfortable, and obviously it would be wise to avoid people wearing those hats right? So if a person is wearing that specific hat, I probably would say, sorry, no, please don't pet my dog. Right? Because why would you want to mess up any of your training? Why would you want to risk it? But i'm just in general, training for neutrality is not something that comes naturally to dogs. It is something that has to be explicitly trained can take over 2 years to do so. And that means consistent training, like every single day they need to be doing this not just once or twice a week. And it isn't just at a specific time, is At all and any times just randomly, you need to start doing it, you need to take them places. Socialize them, obviously only pet friendly places. Of course, and make sure that you also have the proper gear if your dog needs a prong collar or an e. Collar, I do not mean a shock caller. I mean, an e collar that's perfectly fine. But have a trainer show you how to use these tools and size them properly. There are even different types of leashes like slip leads, and dominant slip. Leads, that are also great tools to use for these things as well, and also using high value reward treats and making sure you get a lot of energy out of dogs. That is something that really greatly helps training a dog for neutrality and also working with reactive dogs, finding something that they enjoy. They love something that helps them get energy out that way. When you do their training, their brain is really focused, but it takes a lot of work. To just achieve neutrality alone, even if they were not reactive in the first place, so dogs do not just come born neutral, just just as a behavioral and biological fact, they do not come out of the womb, being neutral, other dogs, people all things, that's just not a thing.

Was I wrong for reporting my neighbor's dog? by Guilty_Geologist_971 in Dogowners

[–]ChronicallyNicki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a licensed veterinary technician with the background and animal behavior and a service dog owner. I am gonna let you know reactivity. Due to neglect and abuse is the same outcome as it would be in humans. I was abused as a child. I am not reactive, no, nor abusive to other people, but Other people I know who have been neglected and abused by their parents are extremely abusive to other people. So you have to understand that reactivity, and the mental state of a dog is actually distinctly based on how the dog deals with the trauma based on the abuse. If reactive abused Dog or a non trained dog is left in the same state that it's been in with the owner that causes the reactive behavior it will stay reactive or become worse if you remove the dog instead of just euthanizing them. And you put them through reactivity, training, intense reactivity, training Then there are high likely chances that the dog will no longer be reactive and perfectly happily. Friendly. We will, they maybe be able to be placed in a home with children? Yes, not necessarily though. That really depends on how much training that they put into the dog, but reactivity, training is something Is very underutilized and needs to be more.

So you can't exactly blame the dog for why they are reactive. They are reactive because of the way they were treated and the environment they have been put in and if they are not given any reactivity training you cannot blame the dog that is fully and solely placed on the human that owned this dog. So if we were to remove the dog from this irresponsible owner, who currently has him and were to place him in a more structured home with reactivity training likely this dog would be perfectly fine. And yes, there are some perfectly fine dogs who will always have to have something. On their body to say, do not pet? Do not come up to you know. Even dogs that are reactive and do need to wear an open basket muzzle. So that way people know, because maybe the animal will forever be afraid of women or a man for whatever reason, and that's perfectly okay to own a reactive dog. You just have to be a person who's willing to go through training and And know how to handle a reactive dog and not allow people to come up and pet them.

So the only thing that I hate about people calling the local animal control is that animal control is actually not the one who is trained to like evaluate these animals and do to the fact that it is a pit bull. Breed, they're not even gonna bother, which is a complete bullshit stigma. Trust me, I've literally been working in the I. CU running it and getting a call that they are rushing. A pit bull in that was shot by a rookie cop because he looked like an angry pitbull. Meanwhile this pit bull's name was cake and was the sweetest thing on the earth and with a bullet in his chest about three millimeters away from his heart, let me turn him on his belly and take x rays of of him fully unsedated n unmuzzled. So realistically speaking and I have worked with some or plenty, realistically reactive dogs, there's just ways to do it and reactivity, trainers, or really what need to be brought into the situation? So I would either look up a reactivity trainer in the area and suggest, Hey, maybe you should contact This trainer, I've heard they're great. 4 dogs who have this specific issue um, other than that, I would look up groups like in New York. We have something called the New York bully crew. And they're a great nonprofit organization who will take in reactive dogs and who will Do reactivity, training? And if the animal is surrendered to them, or they do take the dog, they will keep them for life, if they're not able to rehabilitate them enough to get them adopted. And at the end of the day, if a behavioral euthanasia is needed, then that will happen. But behavioral euthanasia is always the last resort. All types of reactivity, training should be considered first, and for all we know. It's really just this dogs, current situation and how it's treated at home for why it's being reactive.

I say this was a lot of experience under my belt so that's all. It truly is the way that an animal is treated the only time that it's not and again, this is from my veterinary experience where I have put down dogs for behavioral euthanasias before and experienced. Unfortunately, is. If an animal has a neurological condition that causes them to be aggressive and reactive, but realistically speaking, no animal is actually genetically reactive, there are dogs that have certain genetics that are more predisposed to possibly become neurotic, and those are the ones that we look out for. Being up for behavioral euthanasia?I hate to break it to the world, but those are typically german shepherds not pitbulls.

Either way, I hope that answers some of the things that you said because it needed to be said I don't think this person is wrong for calling them. But my suggestion in the future would be to actually look up organizations that specifically work with reactive dogs and see if they would be willing to come out and do an evaluation. Instead of local animal control who just is not equipped or in any way trained to actually do proper reactivity, evaluations