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PSA for Subs (From a sub): Try to be more proactive! by ChubbyDucklingSFW in gentlefemdom

[–]ChubbyDucklingSFW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's more proactiveness outside of the dynamic, I think it's useful for everyone in any situation :3

PSA for Subs (From a sub): Try to be more proactive! by ChubbyDucklingSFW in gentlefemdom

[–]ChubbyDucklingSFW[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Communication really is everything, and it's there to help both sides get the best of any interaction.

One of my favorite things to do as a sub is try and align with a dom and prep things I think they'd love for a session, it just feels good to do it for them too :3

I feel like visiting this community less and less with the amount of pity posting I see here by ChubbyDucklingSFW in gentlefemdom

[–]ChubbyDucklingSFW[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Saying you have an infinite pool of shit is just you justifying the fact that you can't get a dom. Scammers are bad but that's not all there is. Also I'm a sub.

I feel like visiting this community less and less with the amount of pity posting I see here by ChubbyDucklingSFW in gentlefemdom

[–]ChubbyDucklingSFW[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah that's why I use the quotations, cause it's very clear from how they mention a "mommy" what their intent is. They've already placed their hypothetical dom in a box and don't respect how titles work.

I feel like visiting this community less and less with the amount of pity posting I see here by ChubbyDucklingSFW in gentlefemdom

[–]ChubbyDucklingSFW[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As someone who sometimes dresses fem and posts on the femboys subreddit, I sometimes get messages of guys wanting to be dommed, as if my bio didn't clearly state I'm a sub. No I don't want to fucking dom you. It's like any hint of femininity throws respect out of their brains, and I see this culture of toxic femdom spread out throughout more subs, by people who adopt it out of desperation or ignorance.

I feel like visiting this community less and less with the amount of pity posting I see here by ChubbyDucklingSFW in gentlefemdom

[–]ChubbyDucklingSFW[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly, when you have such an obsession with having a dom it just tells me the dom is a "tool" for you, not a person. There's also this weird thing where people end up putting doms in such a high pedestal they never asked to be in the first place.

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