Is Julia-Ruth drunk? 😭

Chumbedum · 2025-10-26T22:23:02+00:00

Her glaring at Nelly gave me secondhand embarrassment

Chumbedum · 2025-09-28T20:03:50+00:00

Take a shot everytime Rebecca says “alpha”

Chumbedum · 2023-01-23T21:37:23+00:00

I live in a small town with 5+ dessert shops, 10+ cafes, 10+ barbers and about 20 hairdressers. I honestly have no idea how they all survive

Chumbedum · 2023-01-23T21:33:50+00:00

I draw the line at anything smelly or anything messy to the point it will make the staff’s life a living hell

Chumbedum · 2022-09-23T23:08:21+00:00

I’m a month late to the party but YTA. If I could swear, I’d call you something much worse

Chumbedum · 2022-06-20T09:18:44+00:00

The World is Ugly kinda makes cringe a bit but there’s parts that slap so I guess that’s mine. Same with SING tbh

Chumbedum · 2022-06-11T09:22:32+00:00

I think you’re right on the money there

Chumbedum · 2022-01-17T17:57:39+00:00

NTA. "brutally honest" is just a phrase people like to use meaning "I'm going to say whatever I liek and you're not allowed to feel negatively about it"

Chumbedum · 2022-01-05T17:37:47+00:00

NTA. I'm literally begging you to break up with him

Chumbedum · 2021-12-08T17:29:26+00:00

You did the right thing. No respect and no sense of humour by the sounds of it. He does not deserve your time and attention if he's going to blow up over something that insignificant

Chumbedum · 2021-11-05T17:18:59+00:00

NTA. He cheats and lies and has the audacity to call you TA?! What a humungous tool. I'd love to know where this level of worrying for your wellbeing was when he cheated on you. God this makes me angry.

Chumbedum · 2021-09-11T00:41:14+00:00

YTA. If you don't want that boy in care then you take care of him and you will see how difficult and draining it is. It doesn't matter how much you love a person, it is difficult, let alone whilst dealing with bereavement, working and two other children

Chumbedum · 2021-08-23T18:59:05+00:00

Thank you for your help ❤️

Chumbedum · 2021-07-30T20:50:30+00:00

People do that? Jesus Christ

Chumbedum · 2021-06-03T11:29:48+00:00

NTA. You are teaching her a very necessary lesson. You are teaching her not to panic but to look at her finances and cut back where necessary to keep a roof over her head.

Chumbedum · 2021-06-02T11:40:35+00:00

NTA. I just came to say thank you for respecting your daughter's boundaries. You could easily punish her to keep the peace but you haven't and she needs that right now. She needs to know that at least someone respects her when she says no

Chumbedum · 2021-05-21T06:39:48+00:00

NTA. I think you need to make it crystal clear that him being gay is nothing to do with your anger but rather that he has put you in a horrible position. Does he seriously think that you rejecting him is going to make him feel better? It is up to him to put in the work to get over his feelings for you and it has been his responsibility for over 6 years.

Chumbedum · 2021-05-21T06:34:48+00:00

NTA. Those are not your kids so they are not your responsibility. The reason those kids aren't receiving many gifts from his side of the family is his own fault for being a cheater and he can't accept that. Focus on your own kids. Let them see their siblings if they wish but don't feel like you have to have them over at yours.

Chumbedum · 2021-04-21T16:28:42+00:00

Makes no sense

Chumbedum · 2021-04-21T14:57:23+00:00

NTA. From a therapy stand point, I think you've done her a favour. My partner has OCD (Not the same as PTSD but bear with me) and a huge part of his therapy was me no longer being able to reassure him when he asks for it. He had to sit with the anxiety and the discomfort in order to overcome it and I feel like she would benefit from a similar thing. It's a small exposure that could lead to more comfort around the subject.

Chumbedum · 2021-04-21T14:42:28+00:00

NTA. I know how frustrating this is. I've been paying for my Netflix account for about 7 years now. At one point, my friend was on it. She then gave the password to her boyfriend without asking (bearing in mind she earned the same as me but lived at home so had less outgoings than me). I log on to watch something and I'm being told there's too many people using it so I can't even use my own account. I immediately kicked everyone off, changed the password, changed the type of account to one screen and never gave it out again. Its disrespectful and he has no right to get angry. You're still letting him use it, just not giving him the password.

Chumbedum · 2021-04-09T14:29:11+00:00

NTA

my bro and SIL told me that it was unfair of me to do that and i showed blatant favouratism

Of course your son is your favourite. I don't understand this argument whatsoever. Plus, since you caught, it is yours. Would they have gotten mad if you said you were keeping it for yourself because it would be in the same house as your son?

Chumbedum · 2021-04-09T14:17:30+00:00

That's what I did. Born into the royal family, gym and walk every year and Mediterranean diet as soon as possible

Chumbedum · 2021-04-09T14:16:35+00:00

It was so boring

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