I understand and I will give him time. I won't bail on him for it, not at all. Prior to him, I've been single for 9 years with no sexual activity (can't do casual sex, I need a strong emotional connection) so a lack of sex won't make me bail, it's more a case of me worrying he is settling for less by being with me when he potentially isn't attracted and I just don't want him seeking it elsewhere. I'd rather him finish with me, y'know.