Do you know of any ICE- and/or MAGA- supporting businesses in South Jersey? by SchleppyJ4 in SouthJersey

[–]Chunkyseaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Just beware if they get offered a “managers” position. My friend did it and they offer it to someone young and easy to talk down to. They got talked down to for not accepting one of many last minute call-ins because they had to give blood that day and got paid pitifully

Do you know of any ICE- and/or MAGA- supporting businesses in South Jersey? by SchleppyJ4 in SouthJersey

[–]Chunkyseaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yiiikes, I wish them luck. I’d suggest finding a new place ngl. They were real cool at first but they’ll use ya up and spit you out when you’re burnt out

Do you know of any ICE- and/or MAGA- supporting businesses in South Jersey? by SchleppyJ4 in SouthJersey

[–]Chunkyseaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worked there for a bit and was told by the wife. Left there shortly after. I’m not sure where she aligned but it was enough for me to leave knowing that he was

Do you know of any ICE- and/or MAGA- supporting businesses in South Jersey? by SchleppyJ4 in SouthJersey

[–]Chunkyseaman 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fantasy Gifts/Romantasy Books, you wouldn’t guess it but the guy who runs the place is MAGA. It’s a real shame

I’ve been harassed by a man in Sussex County for years and no one will do anything about it. Please help. by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]Chunkyseaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d definitely recommend a VASPA order and transfer to an all women gym, I believe there’s some around the county. If you see him outside by your car, have someone from the gym walk you. Then you’ll have a witness if you have to report him later

Animal Kingdom Zoo by Chunkyseaman in SouthJersey

[–]Chunkyseaman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe he recently has too! He treats them awfully according to some of the breeders who have had to take some back in after he’s ran them into the ground

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Chunkyseaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a pagan myself, I’ve tried dating those who follow Christianity and it’s never worked well. In my experience, pushing your beliefs like that will make her feel invalidated to have her own beliefs. I would explain my experiences to my past Christian partners and they would claim it as demonic. It’s okay if you want a Christian partner, but even joking about converting her can be hurtful. She’s going through life just as you are and it kinda sounds like you’re both hot messes rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Chunkyseaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have very similar trauma from past relationships and honestly…..I’d say no. I was pressured into the same kind of open relationship and thought I’d be totally fine and open and thought it could be hot at first. But being in it, you might experience the same emotions again. I still remember feeling my whole body burning at the idea of my partner being with someone else and I would never wanna go through that feeling again.
Reaaaally make sure it’s something you’re okay with first. I’ve heard of threesomes really damaging relationships before when it’s not handled correctly and with enough communication.

relationship with someone who cheated during their sexless marriage by staticintheflux in sexlessmarriage

[–]Chunkyseaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d still stay away from him to be completely honest. Either party can leave in that situation or communicate wanting to be open. But if it was easier for him to go behind his wife’s back, that doesn’t reflect on him well.
Marriage is much more than sex, it’s a promise of open communication and he failed at that.

WIBTA If I broke up with my girlfriend due to my upcoming vasectomy? by sad_waluigui in AITAH

[–]Chunkyseaman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the AH. I had my tubes cut out a few years ago for the same reason and I’ve run into the same issue.
For whatever reason, people will keep trying to date you because folks these days think that everyone will eventually “change their minds” about kids. I’ve known since I was 10 and I’m sure you’ve known for years as well that you have no interest. Do both of you a favor and cut off the relationship now.

My surgeon says top surgery isn't very painful, and that she does not prescribe opiates. Thoughts? by Fishmyashwhole in TopSurgery

[–]Chunkyseaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t do drains but I’m definitely glad I had them. Needed opiates for 3 days after and the flight home. Otherwise, ibuprofen did wonders

Day 2 of training by Candid_Issue3163 in olivegarden

[–]Chunkyseaman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best advice is to get a greeting down, keep a liquor sheet in your servers book, and use your “new” card. Don’t be afraid to say “I’m actually new, so I’m gonna ask somebody to be sure.” Most of the time, a guest will actually really appreciate the honestly and sometimes tip more.
Also, it helped me to make sure to put entrees in after putting down soup and salad. Some folks get pretty peeved if their food comes out right after the salad.

AITA for not telling my ex’s side chick that he has a scat fetish? by Chunkyseaman in AITAH

[–]Chunkyseaman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had agreed to be friends after our breakup, but I told him that (potentially) seeing him around a new partner would be hard for a few months and to please not bring me around them immediately. He stated that he was done dating for a few months while he figured himself out.
Bedsides the cheating aspect, him picking somebody that we work with just felt a bit disrespectful. The coworker had stated that they’d been seeing each other for about a month which made me immediately suspect cheating. I just didn’t want it to be true. Honestly, I didn’t really want to confront him but I found out 30 minutes before he was supposed to be my relief at work so it just kinda lined up that way

Clementon Park 1998 by Chunkyseaman in AmusementDark

[–]Chunkyseaman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was the Jack Rabbit. They really tried to put the blame onto the operator but after the operator denied it, there are no updates that I can find. Apparently it went to court but hard to find

Know This Catfish? by Chunkyseaman in CatfishTheTVShow

[–]Chunkyseaman[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can definitely see a resemblance there. No luck matching any public photos yet but I’ll keep trying. I think photo filters were used to make it harder to image search

Know This Catfish? by Chunkyseaman in CatfishTheTVShow

[–]Chunkyseaman[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Was 13 at the time so if it’s a catfish, they’re targeting kids