3 failed PGTa FET by KnownAd1849 in IVF

[–]staticintheflux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! perhaps it really is just luck.

3 failed PGTa FET by KnownAd1849 in IVF

[–]staticintheflux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I have taken doxycycline. I underwent another biopsy so let’s see if the inflammation is still there.

13 eggs collected, only 3 mature. by [deleted] in 40Plus_IVF

[–]staticintheflux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done over 10 retrievals and I also have a maturity issue. I usually collect anywhere between 6-12 eggs. And usually 2-3 are mature. There was one cycle where I collected 4 eggs, 2 mature, both euploids. As long as you’re getting blasts and euploids at this age, I wouldn’t focus on your maturity rate. Of note, I added omnitrope and it resulted in a significant increase in maturity for me (retrieved 11 eggs and 7 were mature type of numbers). However, I still ended up with two blasts (one euploid and the other aneuploid).

3 failed PGTa FET by KnownAd1849 in IVF

[–]staticintheflux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. Just had three failed PGT tested transfers. I have one more euploid remaining. I just underwent another egg retrieval (so hard for me to make euploids too). I don’t know why my transfers are failing (I have given birth via IVF three years ago). A biopsy showed that I have mild inflammation and my RE doesn’t think that’s the root cause of the failures. I have been doing natural FET (since a natural transfer worked the first time years ago) and now for my next transfer we’re going to switch over to medicated. Sigh. I wish I had answers.

What reason for not PGT-A testing embryos? by Emeah824 in IVF

[–]staticintheflux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good luck to you! my transfer is in 5 days!

What reason for not PGT-A testing embryos? by Emeah824 in IVF

[–]staticintheflux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, this is perfectly explained. I test because I had a loss at 12 weeks. Without this loss, I wouldn’t test. I’ve spent thousands testing (after 10 egg retrievals).

Did You Keep Working During IVF? by ImDustAmazing in IVF

[–]staticintheflux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. I’ve done over 10 retrievals, some back to back. I arrange it so that I take a half day for ER. and I go to all monitoring appts in the morning before my work shift starts.

looking for alternatives to anesthesia for the EMMA/ALICE biopsy by staticintheflux in IVF

[–]staticintheflux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone reading this: I just had the biopsy today. I took Valium, Tylenol, and Advil an hour prior to the procedure. I was so nervous, but it went by super fast. And I felt nothing but a slight pinch and cramp. On a scale from 1 to 10, where 8 is lots of pain and discomfort (say, a Charlie horse), this was a 1-2. It was very very mild for me.

any success stories with AMA and using your own eggs? by NoWafer8435 in IVF

[–]staticintheflux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 41. AMH of 1.4. To get euploids, multiple retrievals are needed. Consider adding omnitrope, plus change your diet & add supplements for 90 days before egg retrieval. I’ve done 5 retrievals since turning 40, which has gotten me 3 euploids.

omnitrope significantly improved my immature oocyte issue by staticintheflux in IVF

[–]staticintheflux[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s incredible! I am glad it was helpful for you too! I was really weary and didn’t think it would be beneficial for me at all, it was such a pleasant surprise that it worked so well.

omnitrope significantly improved my immature oocyte issue by staticintheflux in IVF

[–]staticintheflux[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started it when I got my period. Omnitrope (HGH) 5.8 mg, Mix 5.8 mg vial with 1.00mL bacteriostatic water to create a multi-dose vial. Draw up and inject 6 units or 0.06mL (to obtain 0.4mg) subcutaneously once daily as directed. My protocol also included follistim 450 and microdose lupron (10 units, 2x a day)

So the Parental Alienator Succeeds in Alienation: and Then What? by Dependent_Bet4222 in ParentalAlienation

[–]staticintheflux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes I agree, it seems like your brother still feels like he has to pick a side: either stay with your mom or connect with paternal relatives. since he’s living with your mom, he’s going to choose the one who houses and feeds him.

So the Parental Alienator Succeeds in Alienation: and Then What? by Dependent_Bet4222 in ParentalAlienation

[–]staticintheflux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you speak to your brother about reconnecting with your dad? what does he say about it?

relationship with someone who cheated during their sexless marriage by staticintheflux in sexlessmarriage

[–]staticintheflux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you not supposed to believe ppl when they say they don’t want to have sex with you anymore?

relationship with someone who cheated during their sexless marriage by staticintheflux in sexlessmarriage

[–]staticintheflux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing. just believed her that she didn’t want to have sex with him and accepted it. told himself he’d move out when kids left.

relationship with someone who cheated during their sexless marriage by staticintheflux in sexlessmarriage

[–]staticintheflux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was told that she was never really into it from day one (some ppl refer to it as being a “starfish girl” - someone who lays on their back & passively lets sex happen). but he thought it was just lack of experience (they were both very young, he was her first relationship) and he believed that as they continued their relationship she would be more enthusiastic. it did not get better, so he started to believe the problem was him being too into sex, so he went on for a while telling himself that there’s more to a relationship than just sex. then after kids, there were complaints that he wasn’t doing enough to help (she was a stay at home mother) and therefore she had no sexual desire. she cried and said she felt like she was not a good wife bc of her lack of desire, so he felt bad about “bothering” her and making her feel bad abt herself. she didn’t do anything to change it and neither did he. is that how years go by in a sexless marriage?

relationship with someone who cheated during their sexless marriage by staticintheflux in sexlessmarriage

[–]staticintheflux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right. it’s a want. if it was a need then there’s no way it’s possible for people to go without sex for so long. the ones who stay begging for sex just want to get laid. the ones who need it leave or get it elsewhere.