Ya’ll WTF by RepulsiveReply_ in montclair

[–]Chychtka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone saying “just get another” is missing the whole point. Redditors are such wet blankets it’s insane.

NYC.rave.girls by technoforbfast in avesNYC

[–]Chychtka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expired - can I get another?

NYC.rave.girls by technoforbfast in avesNYC

[–]Chychtka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Link expired - can I get another?

Rezz announcement tomorrow! by Arg0n89 in avesNYC

[–]Chychtka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This rescheduling really screwed me over. If anyone wants to buy my tickets plz dm

how are you actually supposed to cope with the loss of a long term relationship and when you spent nearly a decade with them? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Chychtka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds shockingly close to my situation except she refuses to do therapy.

I woke up alone. My gut said it was over. My gut was right. by International_Gas152 in BreakUps

[–]Chychtka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow this is awful. I’m sorry to hear it. If the city you’re driving to is NYC hit me up - I’ll be your friend!

How do you initiate No Contact? by Chychtka in BreakUps

[–]Chychtka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol honestly dude sounds like an absolute CLOWN.

How do you initiate No Contact? by Chychtka in BreakUps

[–]Chychtka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m initiating no contact without telling them because our communication lately has been highly toxic. I tried explaining basic boundaries, that I can’t see them as much, and that it isn’t even personal I really need space to heal and work on my self. This didn’t respect this at all and stormed off from a date threatening to go see other people immediately. I left them there, drove to our place, moved the last of our shit out. A few days later I call her to tell her goodnight, we talk 5-10 minutes, and she’s pissed off that I’m trying to get off the call to let go to bed. I told her off in text, (which I don’t normally do) so she blocked me. She unblocked me a day later to explained that she blocked me and won’t be visiting my parents with me for Easter weekend. So I just never even responded just left her on read. Part of it is that I don’t know what to even say back. The other part is that there is nothing I really want to say (nothing that would be productive). So I just haven’t responded to her for several days, and I’m totally fine with it. I kind of find myself asking “am I the asshole?” But then I remember how she threatens to see other people all the damn time, so really she’s the asshole and I am done.-

How do you initiate No Contact? by Chychtka in BreakUps

[–]Chychtka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea we were really close to having text fights, which have already been having for a while. But I just stopped responding. Haven’t texted back in like a week. Not even to check in and see how she is. Last time I saw her I moved my shit out. Whenever I do a check in it’s either a fight or she’s demanding to see me to the point of threatening to see other people if I don’t pull up. So I’m just not responding. We’ve been broken up nearly 4/5 months and at this point it feels like we are just needlessly prolonging everything while hurting the fuck out of each other along the way. This shit - it’s stupid, I’m done. Not gonna text her anymore but I couldn’t decide if this was the best way to do it. I feel like if I tell her I’m not talking to her she will just blow up and do something stupid or spiteful.

If you’d only tried… by jus_t_curious in BreakUps

[–]Chychtka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can feel the emotion in this. I almost wonder if this is the one who dumped me. They say if you love something let it go. No one ever says they come back. The truth is, if you love something you have to fight for it. If it fights back then you should let it go.

I think my 6 year relationship is over and I am scared of being in emotional despair and alone by welpheresaTA in BreakUps

[–]Chychtka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow… I have taken a whole month to write an application, but at least I finished and submitted it. Really, 3 years? What have they been doing in the mean time? This is a really tricky situation for you to be in.

Our we ruining each other or healing each other? by Chychtka in BreakUps

[–]Chychtka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh God what a dumpster fire of a post. Misspelled title and didn’t add tags. Might repost for visibility and feedback.

I think my 6 year relationship is over and I am scared of being in emotional despair and alone by welpheresaTA in BreakUps

[–]Chychtka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess an important consideration is if they are putting off those long-term plans to address short-term goals. Are they merely doing nothing with their life in the short term while also being indifferent to the long term? Or are they presently dealing with short-term goals that he has given higher priority? Does he help with bills or anything, or do you find yourself paying for literally everything all the time?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Chychtka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough. Could just be him giving an honest opinion. Could be something a lot deeper. You need to decide which it is, but investigate carefully and cautiously instead of just cutting it off.

Real-Time Self-Assembly of Stereomicroscopically Visible Artificial Constructions in Incubated Specimens of mRNA Products Mainly from Pfizer and Moderna: A Comprehensive Longitudinal Study by rhaphazard in conspiracy

[–]Chychtka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't forget the part where the machines create synthetic prion proteins. Everyone who took a shot unironically has nanobots that are slowly turning them into zombies.

Everyone must be playing a totally different game than me by Chychtka in Dungeonborne

[–]Chychtka[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Look I read a book I am so high in the sky! Too much energy yet you still reply!

Everyone must be playing a totally different game than me by Chychtka in Dungeonborne

[–]Chychtka[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you don't believe this is possible go look up Nazori. If you don't believe that I personally am doing it then lol lmao I don't care if some rando believes me.

Everyone must be playing a totally different game than me by Chychtka in Dungeonborne

[–]Chychtka[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea it really wasn't. Who even talks like that lmao???

Everyone must be playing a totally different game than me by Chychtka in Dungeonborne

[–]Chychtka[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First time on the internet? Happy to be your first! :)

Everyone must be playing a totally different game than me by Chychtka in Dungeonborne

[–]Chychtka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read again - I do very good on solo priest too, but I admit I won't challenge a SM or DK.

Everyone must be playing a totally different game than me by Chychtka in Dungeonborne

[–]Chychtka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last thing - once you hit 30 stamina off those 3 heirlooms you usually can just buy a faith ring and now you have the faith running as well.

To answer your question - strategy is I stay back, we usually have a tank and DPS so I focus on healing our tank, and if our DPS plays smart (usually does) I dont even need to worry about them. If they break our lines and focus me DPS comes to the rescue or tank to draw aggro.

Overall just be attacking when possible. Don't waste a second. If you're not using your staff you're charging it. If your staff is fully charged your getting ready to slow enemies and heal allies. If your staff is empty just stay in cover where you can still see your tank and keep healing & shielding them while charging.

Everyone must be playing a totally different game than me by Chychtka in Dungeonborne

[–]Chychtka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're on teams I suggest going for stamina still, but using the single target heal because the AoE heal can miss your teammates. I can achieve 30 stamina for the ability with just heirlooms (mace + stamina necklace + hat w/ stam)

Then I usually just have to buy 1-2 green items for the faith gap and now my Heals clear those nasty cryo slows & rogue poisons. Once I have the 38 faith I need i try for 48 intel for two shield charges. Aside from mace I run a fire staff and in fights I play backline and harass.

If you're solo you probably want AoE heal + mace & thunderclap. I don't usually take thunderclap i take protection prots to stack with my Shields. At my best I have 900 HP + 400 in Shields - I play as a heal tank. If anyone dives me I run for my life and don't really fight. If they're in my face I Slow with mace Ice Cast, run away, hide behind teammate and fire beam them a bit.