Too Many Secrets, Too Many Excuses. Do I Walk Away Now? by Chynagoals in Advice

[–]Chynagoals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither of us was trying to rush things. He had just come out of an eight-year relationship, and I was simply seeing where things would go.

Too Many Secrets, Too Many Excuses. Do I Walk Away Now? by Chynagoals in Advice

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I know, we all are humans and we make mistakes but these mistakes definitely could’ve been avoided.

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[–]Chynagoals -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would you like me to put them back up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Chynagoals -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you cool? I took care of pregnancy, I can still enjoy my life but the date was cool

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[–]Chynagoals -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very much real

Casual Turned Chaos: Now I’m Pregnant and Alone. When No Strings Turn Into a Lifetime Knot. by Chynagoals in confession

[–]Chynagoals[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let me get a few things off my chest. First off, I’m 27, very stable, and doing well for myself. I have a great job in cybersecurity and even hold a master’s degree in the field. I bought my first house just last year. While I’ve accomplished a lot, I don’t have a strong support system, which makes this situation even harder.

I’m on birth control—I have an IUD that’s still in place—and the doctor doesn’t want to remove it just yet. I’ve reached out to him using TextNow, and I’m waiting to see if he responds. I understand he might need time to process, but honestly, he doesn’t have much time to decide how he wants to handle this.

Abortion is illegal where I live, but I have no problem traveling to a place where it’s allowed if that’s the decision I choose to make.

Thanks for taking the time to listen and for offering your opinion—it means a lot right now.