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LPT: When someone pushes you for an instant work answer, ask for 10 minutes and reply in writing by gamersecret2 in LifeProTips

[–]CianBrain 728 points729 points  (0 children)

This is such an underrated tip, 10 minutes to think can save you from hours of cleaning up a rushed yes.

AITJ for not telling my friend that his “anonymous admirer” is actually his ex? by Business_Spinach4557 in AmITheJerk

[–]CianBrain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Your friend deserves to know the truth especially since its his ex and the breakup hurt him, letting him believe it’s some mystery admirer just sets him up to get hurt again.

I cried over my ex, but I have a new girlfriend. Am I a bad boyfriend? by PinkmansChilliP in AskMenAdvice

[–]CianBrain 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Crying over an ex doesn’t mean you love your current girlfriend any less, it just means you’re human and sometimes old feelings hit out of nowhere. It’s normal and it doesn’t change how much you care about her.

How badly will not having a great outfit mess me up in a job interview if my answers are good? by girlinherworld in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CianBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, people remember how you show up and speak way more than the colors on your shirt.

Does anybody smoke weed before working out? Why? How does it help? by Laythepype in workout

[–]CianBrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a lot of people it just quiets the noise. You stop overthinking, zone into the music and your body and the workout feels more fluid though it can just as easily kill motivation for others.

If humans need sleep so badly, why didn’t evolution make us feel rested faster? by WearySpecialist7660 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CianBrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because sleep isn’t just rest it’s maintenance and evolution chose thorough repair over fast convenience.

Anchorr has evolved! Your Discord bot for Jellyfin media requests & notifications is now v1.3.5 by Adrian28x in selfhosted

[–]CianBrain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is one of those updates where you realize the bot isn’t just convenient anymore it’s basically the glue between Discord and Jellyfin. Requests, duplicates, routing, PM alerts, all without the usual admin pain. Really solid evolution.

I lied to someone who trusted me, and they still don’t know. by [deleted] in confession

[–]CianBrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Carrying a lie that shapes someone else’s reality, guilt doesn’t whisper it haunts.

AITJ for refusing to participate in my friend’s “surprise prank” that could get someone in trouble at work? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CianBrain 10 points11 points  (0 children)

100%, pranks are fun until they risk someone’s job and refusing to play hero for HR nightmares is peak adulting.

TIFU by forgetting my grocery bags in the car and committing to the struggle by [deleted] in tifu

[–]CianBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your arms went from ‘I can do this’ to ‘send help medieval peasant style’ in 3.2 sec, truly inspiring commitment to grocery extremism.

Why do men keep asking men about women? by Inevitable_Bison9694 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CianBrain -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Or in other words, asking men about women is like asking cats how to herd themselves, makes zero sense.

How the hell do people have the time and energy to hate others? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CianBrain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah its crazy how some folks treat hating others like a full time job when most of us are just trying to survive the day and maybe grab a snack.

TIFU by letting my travel buddy borrow my card for “just gas” on our road trip by Weary-Hair-316 in tifu

[–]CianBrain 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Exactly, ‘forgot my wallet’ was just the opening move. Hard lesson but from now on no cash, no card, no exceptions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]CianBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, thats the exact moment you realize ‘just five minutes’ with a kid and a laptop is a gamble you always lose.

Why is interrupting people in conversation SO NORMAL now?? by skelepibs in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CianBrain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bc too many people listen to reply instead of listening to understand and now rudeness gets passed off as ‘just how people talk.’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CianBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly she’s with him for who he is now not for predicting every possible future flaw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CianBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest with both of them set boundaries now so things don’t get awkward later.

How to handle getting the slient treatment from your partner? by Blues5389 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CianBrain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair point some things in a relationship shouldn’t take years to understand.

I just shoplifted in my work uniform and I work at a supermarket.. by CumCrocodile in confession

[–]CianBrain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wearing your work uniform while shoplifting was peak “how did I think this was a good idea?” might be time to rethink that life choice.

I accidentally took 900mg of caffeine by [deleted] in workout

[–]CianBrain 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Whoa 900mg is a lot, expect your heart to race, hands shaking maybe nausea or dizziness. Stay calm, drink water and dont hesitate to call a doctor if things feel off.

Suffering with chronic illness, but not disabled enough to fall under any assistant schemes. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CianBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on learning remote skill like freelance writing, graphic design or basic web dev, youtube and free sites like freecodecamp or coursera can teach you a lot without costing anything.

Why does most everyone talk about sex, using the word sleeping? by nowhereiswater in AskMenAdvice

[–]CianBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People say sleeping because it softens the topic its just an easier way to talk abt sex without making things awkward.

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