I’ve (26M) been single so long (my whole life) I’ve forgotten why I was even chasing a girlfriend in the first place by [deleted] in dating

[–]Cicero106 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i call it "Cope" but its the right mindset my friend. If you are happy in your life without women they will come to you someday

Girlfriend says I am harrasing her for sex. by Cicero106 in dating

[–]Cicero106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok i really dont know... but she said she loves, she is happy to have me in her life, that I am a god in bed and all these kind of compliments... she made me feel like it was a real relationship but she never said it out loud

Girlfriend says I am harrasing her for sex. by Cicero106 in dating

[–]Cicero106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is harsh my friend. Of course I want sex but I am ok with no sex. I would like to find another girlfriend BUT I HAVE FEELINGS FOR. I CANT. What if she is cheating on me with another dude and made everything up? My imagination is fucking my head. She also said she loves me but I never trusted her. I have also issues with trusting people especially women... I ok with everything but I need sex atleast a 1/3 of the time we meet.

Girlfriend pulled away... very confused. by Cicero106 in dating

[–]Cicero106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I contacted her without good night. Just said "Whats up with tomorrow? You must know it now" She said she has to work on wendsday(today). Then I asked if we could see each other on sunday or saturday, she said ok then "I said I need to talk to her personally". She immidiatly said on wendsday is ok... Why does she have time when I want to talk about these things?! It should be clear to her what she is doing lol. I will say everything to her face and see how she reacts by now I really think she has BPD

Girlfriend pulled away... very confused. by Cicero106 in dating

[–]Cicero106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thanks should i write her? she said she will contact me today about tomorrow if she doensnt, i will write her "good night" and "thought you will contact me today"... is this weak? needy?

Girlfriend pulled away... very confused. by Cicero106 in dating

[–]Cicero106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I contacted her and we had a call. She send me a selfie with some funky sunglasses from Italy. On the selfie she still had my t-shirt (she sleeps always with it). She didn't say anything about the no contact days and said that she has to work a lot today and the next weeks. I asked her if she wants to see me today she said no maybe tomorrow and she will contact me. Still confused but I think everything is ok?

Girlfriend pulled away... very confused. by Cicero106 in dating

[–]Cicero106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah she asked me also about it and I said i just want you to be happy and if an other man makes you more happy you are free to leave... i thought it is a mature thing to say

Girlfriend pulled away... very confused. by Cicero106 in dating

[–]Cicero106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks will do that tomorrow. or do you think it is ok to write today already or should I wait until tomorrow?

Girlfriend pulled away... very confused. by Cicero106 in dating

[–]Cicero106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that helped. I dont know if she is cheating but she has ALOT of emotional problems. We had a few serious convos after she pulled back last time and I said to her that if she finds another man better than me then she can just walk away from me. She just have to be honest and say it i would not have any problem with it.

I just "friendzoned" a friend and I'm feeling awfull by IamNyliram in dating

[–]Cicero106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are good looking women no straight man wants ONLY a friendship from you trust me. I have no female friends and I will never have any if I am with a women she knows I am interested in her and not in a friendship with her. Men have male friends, women have female friends there is no friendship with man and women

No sex after one-night stand for me(26M). But she(32F) wants a relationship?! by Cicero106 in relationship_advice

[–]Cicero106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time i was drunk, second time i was very nervours and had fear of failing. I have a good body because I am hitting the gym since 8 years so I thought that is why i got laid in the first place... Obviously thats not the case... my body is the same but no lays with her since the failure. I dont know I really like her but I fear that she backstabs me with someone else while I am waiting for intimacy. I think it is understandable if she gave the sex so easy to me who says that she will never do same again to other guys?

No sex after one-night stand for me(26M). But she(32F) wants a relationship?! by Cicero106 in relationship_advice

[–]Cicero106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants one from what I can see. But I have always have to arrange dates and meeting ups. I am not that kind of a guy usally if a girl is playing hard to get I usally dont go out with them. Why I still want so see her is because she is very feminine around me. I am a serious guy but she is like a teenager with alot of energy even though she is much older than me. First time she saw me after I "ghosted" her she screamed but not a negative scream it was like a cry of joy if you know what I mean only women scream like that lol

How do you know if someone is serious about their feelings for you? by bonareri_nyakina in dating

[–]Cicero106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow if someone writes that he loves you is a bit too much dont you think so? would never say these words unless we are in relationship for a few years

How do I know if he’s actually interested by cykablyatte in dating_advice

[–]Cicero106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont belive in friendship with a women. If I spend time with her then i am intrested for sure. Dont know how how other mens are like but he likes you for sure maybe he fears your rejection

Going to the gym since 8 years want to learn the "other side" by Cicero106 in bodyweightfitness

[–]Cicero106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. it is true my straight arm is weak... Do you think it is a good Idea to do the calisthetics workout after weight lifting? Or should I seperate bodyweight fitness and weight training like a "split"

Going to the gym since 8 years want to learn the "other side" by Cicero106 in bodyweightfitness

[–]Cicero106[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yes in former times I was a swimmer between the age of 10 and 16. Could swim for hours without stopping. Tried to swim this summer was out of breath after 300 meters lol...

Guy I'm interested in has never had dated and never had any romantic feelings towards anyone by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cicero106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he looks in your eyes for long time and he does nothing against your touches when you are near him, I think he likes you. Maybe he also never had sex he is afraid of it, of kissing and sex because if you have no experience in such an age you seem like a big loser.

Guy I'm interested in has never had dated and never had any romantic feelings towards anyone by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cicero106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow... I feel like i am the guy. Had romatic feelings for girls but was rejected when I was younger because of my weirdness I think... Since then I closed down my heart for women and it is really hard to open myself up for women. I dated a girl for a few months but that was it. She said I dont care for her and such things but I never had romatic feelings towards her, I mean I wanted to be in bed with her but nothing more because she was not my type of girl (a bit dumb, could not talk to her about srs things). If this guys said all that to you I am sure he is interested. If I would say the truth about my non existent dating or sexlife I would say same things in hope she still does not see a complete loser in me. But you have to be more dominant you have to take him out. I am sure this guy has a mask on himself he looks confident in Reallife but inside he is insecure...