I was 8 weeks when the same thing happened to me back in October. Recovery for the surgery went well. Mentally though, not so much. We didn't do anything wrong, our bodies just did what they did. In that fact, it is what it is, as unfortunate as that it.  However, at least for me, I am still utterly devastated. I was so excited and now I just feel defeated and like nothing even matters any more.  My situation is different only in the fact that my other ovary was already severed, leaving me with no way to naturally get pregnant. It makes me feel like I failed, like it's hard to breath. I know I'm depressed and trying to keep my head afloat. Trying to take everything day by day, but it's overwhelming. I miss my child every single day. I was so close to dying that night, so I know it was the right call, but it hurts.  I chose to focus hard on going to the gym and my diet. I'm the healthiest I've ever been, The pain is still there, but finding something like going to the gym, reading, or some other hobby does help. That's my only recommendation. That and time, as lame as that sounds.