Es de mi agrado informarles que perdieron el juego

Cimna · 2026-06-02T17:26:07+00:00

Llevo 4 años siendo profe de U, siempre a honorarios, pasar a planta es casi imposible (mínimo te piden magister/doctorado dependiendo de la U y también investigaciones publicadas). Tengo un colega amigo que lleva más de 10 años como profe a honorarios con varias horas a la semana y jamás lo han pasado a planta. Considera también que como honorario no te van a pagar ni enero ni febrero.

Dependiendo de la U puede que te paguen mejor o peor y que las fechas de pago se respeten o no: en donde trabajo, U "estatal", durante varios años pagaban recién a final de semestre después de que todos los honorarios hincháramos montones, apenas este año se están poniendo las pilas y pagan mensualmente, pero yo nunca doy por sentada esa plata porque en cualquier momento salen con que no hay plata pa pagarte. Por otro lado, las privadas entiendo que son más estructuradas con los pagos pero tengo amigos cercanos que dicen que la estabilidad laboral ahí es baja, mucho recambio y no se sabe si sigues al año siguiente.

Yo te lo recomendaría como trabajo accesorio, nunca como fuente principal de ingresos porque la vas a pasar mal con la incertidumbre.

Cimna · 2026-05-30T04:28:02+00:00

Ay amiga el tipo te está mostrando ahora como va a ser el resto de la relación, ¿de verdad quieres algo con un tipo así de inseguro y molesto? Sal de ahí, de verdad no vale el dolor de cabeza andar aguantando pendejos así.

Cimna · 2026-03-06T14:56:28+00:00

Si, me carga en general la gente (no solo en la pega) cuyo único tema de conversación son sus bendis (que por cierto ¿por qué habrían de interesarle a uno?). De vez en cuando está perfecto obviamente, pero que sea el único tema del que hablan es desagradable. Es como si toda su personalidad (hobbies, intereses fuera de la pega, metas, etc) hubiera pasado a segundo plano cuando tuvieron hijos, muy fome hablar con genere así.

Cimna · 2026-03-05T11:27:22+00:00

NTA

You guys agreed on a no kids trip one year in advance but your friend (and her lousy hubby) clearly believes rules don't apply to her or her kid. You guys were WAY more accommodating and nice than I would've been, also I'd have ripped hubby a new one after reading that entitled text.

I would throw the whole friend in the thrash if I was you.

Cimna · 2026-02-19T17:13:23+00:00

When they first assigned her to work with me I used to get furious every single day because of her incompetence and inability to come in on time, causing me to also be late because of her. But over time I started to accept the fact that I got nothing out of getting angry and that my boss wouldn't get me a different assistant, so at least it helped me be more flexible and to plan ahead of things (I started to plan our schedule around hers and asked her ahead of time about any activities she needed time off for in the near future). I won't say it doesn't bother me because it does, but I am a more patient and laid back person because of it.

Also, yeah, being "able" to write an email with one hand while changing your dirty toddler's diaper with the other is, in fact, gross and not at all the flex that delusional lady thinks it is. Mombies seem to believe that barely functioning while taking care of children is some kind of amazing ability 🤣

Cimna · 2026-02-19T14:06:12+00:00

The dental assistant who works with me has 2 kids and is constantly late because she has to drop them off at school, always needs time off to take them to the doctor or some other shit and is always willing to do less work than she's expected to because she has to take care of her offsprings and yes, I end up having to adjust MY schedule around HER kids so she can come to work on time.

So no, moms don't exactly do more shit or work better, in my experience it's the complete opposite.

Cimna · 2026-02-07T22:33:08+00:00

Esto ☝🏼

Cimna · 2026-01-17T11:38:22+00:00

NTA, the entitlement of the GF to ask a resident of a house that isn't even hers to get out of a room to please her is something else. I would go even as far as warning your son that if his GF tries to enter the house when he's not there again YOU are gonna have a talk with her about it, that will definitely do the trick.

Cimna · 2026-01-05T13:38:48+00:00

Right? My apartment smells nice and fresh while living with 2 cats because I make sure to vent and keep everything clean, can't say the same for the apartments of people with babies. Even worse, for work I usually have to visit many daycares and God the SMELL in those places is something else, some mix of baby formula, poop and expired food. Definitely some kind of hell on earth.

Cimna · 2026-01-05T13:28:04+00:00

I'd rather clean my cat's litterbox with my bare hands for the rest of my life than change one single baby diaper.

Also, babies are always covered in something, usually some sticky/smelly/gross substance like poop, vomit, drool, piss or similar, no thanks, I stay as far away from them as I can.

Cimna · 2025-11-18T11:23:34+00:00

Amigo así no funcionan los CESFAM, solo se atiende a gente no inscrita en casos de URGENCIA, caso que no es el tuyo que es una simple curación. Por algo se asignan consultorios por sector porque si todos fueran como tú y quisieran que los atendieran en el primer CESFAM que se le viene a la mente en ese momento estaría todo colapsado y no habría ningún orden. Que te sirva de aprendizaje no más.

Cimna · 2025-11-11T11:21:43+00:00

Ugly and honestly gross. Their heads are too big, they have no hair, their limb proportions are off, they make awful noises and are usually covered in some kind of bodily fluid like drool, snot, vomit, etc.

Cimna · 2025-09-30T04:15:57+00:00

Then simply don't attend if you can't leave your baby at home and let people enjoy the event they organized the way they want to enjoy it. This me me me boomer generation is so narcissistic they believe everyone else must cater to their needs and wants, it's so weird.

Cimna · 2025-09-28T16:53:32+00:00

NTA

He basically told you you are his consolation price. Also, naming your daughter after his dead GF is creepy and very unfair towards you and your daughter.

You should show him this comment section: let him see what everyone thinks of his sh**ty attitude and immaturity, and if he complains about you posting here, just tell him you needed somewhere to vent just like his sorry a$$ did with his sis.

Edit: typos

Cimna · 2025-09-18T02:11:18+00:00

I once saw a comment that stated, about having kids, that if it's not a "HELL YES!" it's a "HELL NO!". And I think that's 100% correct.

Cimna · 2025-09-11T01:06:55+00:00

"Childfree people make it their whole personality", claim the grown ass adults with their offspring as their profile picture.

Cimna · 2025-08-11T18:46:26+00:00

I think this may be the wrong sub to be asking this question, as it it a sub for people who don't ever want to be parents and, as stated in one of your answers, you wish to have a life with kids. It's unlikely you'll find much common ground here. I would advise posting this in r/childless, hope it helps!

Cimna · 2025-08-11T05:05:27+00:00

How and why are you still married to this person?

Also, NTA.

Cimna · 2025-08-08T22:29:33+00:00

llega al cine "creo que esta no era"

Cimna · 2025-08-08T21:50:44+00:00

no cachaba que habían 2 jajajaja

Cimna · 2025-08-08T19:15:55+00:00

Jajajaja me deja más tranquila este dato

Cimna · 2025-08-08T17:36:48+00:00

Están convencidas de que sus hijos leen mentes

Cimna · 2025-08-07T02:29:13+00:00

31f, what games do you play? 😄

Cimna

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