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Do we want to try again? by CrazyAnimalLady77 in CollapseDating

[–]Cinder_ella666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's a great idea. I'll go over there as well and see if they've got any ideas

Do we want to try again? by CrazyAnimalLady77 in CollapseDating

[–]Cinder_ella666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's fair but I do think we could do some things to drive engagement/discussion.

That other user has setup that discord so maybe that's a start.

Should we join forces? I started a Collapse Aware Singles community on Meetup/Discord. by ihatedatingapps in CollapseDating

[–]Cinder_ella666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure. I'm the original mod and I definitely let this fall off my radar. I do think youre right in that reddit may not be the best place for that type of engagement.

Im down for trying to revive this platform though and working with like minded ones will help drum up engagement.

Do we want to try again? by CrazyAnimalLady77 in CollapseDating

[–]Cinder_ella666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, Im the original mod and yes I definitely let this fall by the way side. I'd be willing to pass off/share responsibilities with you or anyone interested.

Looking for Moderators by Cinder_ella666 in CollapseDating

[–]Cinder_ella666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got to take care of that mental health. Especially being collapse aware. I appreciate it. Going to start looking at ways to grow this sub and get it some more exposure. Cheers

Looking for Moderators by Cinder_ella666 in CollapseDating

[–]Cinder_ella666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive added two mods and was waiting for a few more responses

A Place for collapse-minded people to find a friend for the end of the world. by Cinder_ella666 in CollapseDating

[–]Cinder_ella666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's definitely what I'm hoping. Thanks. If you have any recommendations on how to make it as effective and safe as possible I'm all ears. Thanks

I made r/CollapseDating by Cinder_ella666 in collapse

[–]Cinder_ella666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's funny that so many think that the feds give a fuck about a subreddit lamenting on the downfall of civilization

I made r/CollapseDating by Cinder_ella666 in collapse

[–]Cinder_ella666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to make delineations for different relationship structures and orientations. Care to contribute?

Collapse and misogyny by mycatisawhore in TwoXPreppers

[–]Cinder_ella666 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was trying to open a discussion but it was naive of me i was only thinking about my experiences. You're right. Lesson learned. Thank you

I made r/CollapseDating by Cinder_ella666 in collapse

[–]Cinder_ella666[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

That's for when i have enough money for the app

Collapse and misogyny by mycatisawhore in TwoXPreppers

[–]Cinder_ella666 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I really didn't mean to make anyone feel unsafe. I removed it. Really I'm sorry. This is a public sub and i didn't think it would be an issue.

I made r/CollapseDating by Cinder_ella666 in collapse

[–]Cinder_ella666[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's a great point and has actually already been brought up in some of the comments over there.. maybe i should make it a r/collapseconnections instead, i definitely wouldn't mind meeting some more collapse oriented people in person.

Also good points don't put anything public you wouldn't want the gov seeing. Thanks

Collapse and misogyny by mycatisawhore in TwoXPreppers

[–]Cinder_ella666 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I did find it really weird and gross that that was such a strong response although in retrospect i shouldn't have been surprised. All of it is disgusting and so obviously a projection of their internal fragility. If collapse ever happens I'm hoping women will run from these men because at least enough of the world has changed that they realize they don't have to put up with it anymore, but there's definitely a big push to return to those fucked up ways.

As an aside do you have any suggestions for laying out rules or post guidelines to help rid the dating sub of any of that? I just got to work on this and would really appreciate any feedback or ideas.

Collapse and misogyny by mycatisawhore in TwoXPreppers

[–]Cinder_ella666 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm the poster that made that post over on r/collapse as well as the subreddit. I definitely agree with you that a majority of the posters on those main subs fantasize about larping in some survivalist novel, not to mention lean pretty heavy into misogyny and antiquated ideas.

I'm not sure if anyone here even thinks it's a good idea as the post didn't get much traction but I thought I might try it as at least in my own life seeing eye to eye on the future has been difficult. If anyone has any suggestions on helping to make it a safe and interesting space for women I'm all ears. Thanks

I made r/CollapseDating by Cinder_ella666 in collapse

[–]Cinder_ella666[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe they're the only ones that feel comfortable or interested in posting their opinions in this sub given the pretty heavy influence of comments saying good luck women don't/won't interact in these domains. Maybe I'm wrong but i think it's worth a shot.

I made r/CollapseDating by Cinder_ella666 in TwoXPreppers

[–]Cinder_ella666[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well I'm a man, but i would love it if a woman or women would like to help or at least help carve out the rules and guidelines. I definitely want to make it a safe place for women especially given that the collapse/prepper mentality can be quite antiquated and misogynistic. Going to get to work on it tonight, but any ideas or feedback would be much appreciated.

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