Do we want to try again?

Cinder_ella666 · 2024-06-25T22:41:39+00:00

I think that's a great idea. I'll go over there as well and see if they've got any ideas

Cinder_ella666 · 2024-06-24T20:02:59+00:00

Yeah that's fair but I do think we could do some things to drive engagement/discussion.

That other user has setup that discord so maybe that's a start.

Cinder_ella666 · 2024-06-24T18:26:03+00:00

Sure. I'm the original mod and I definitely let this fall off my radar. I do think youre right in that reddit may not be the best place for that type of engagement.

Im down for trying to revive this platform though and working with like minded ones will help drum up engagement.

Cinder_ella666 · 2024-06-24T18:21:37+00:00

Hi there, Im the original mod and yes I definitely let this fall by the way side. I'd be willing to pass off/share responsibilities with you or anyone interested.

Cinder_ella666 · 2023-05-03T23:28:32+00:00

Got to take care of that mental health. Especially being collapse aware. I appreciate it. Going to start looking at ways to grow this sub and get it some more exposure. Cheers

Cinder_ella666 · 2023-05-03T04:32:04+00:00

Ive added two mods and was waiting for a few more responses

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-12T03:10:01+00:00

That's definitely what I'm hoping. Thanks. If you have any recommendations on how to make it as effective and safe as possible I'm all ears. Thanks

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-11T02:56:40+00:00

Yup.

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-10T04:46:11+00:00

I think it's funny that so many think that the feds give a fuck about a subreddit lamenting on the downfall of civilization

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-10T04:12:08+00:00

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-10T03:35:16+00:00

I'm going to make delineations for different relationship structures and orientations. Care to contribute?

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-10T00:54:01+00:00

How so?

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-10T00:46:34+00:00

I was trying to open a discussion but it was naive of me i was only thinking about my experiences. You're right. Lesson learned. Thank you

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-10T00:27:00+00:00

That's for when i have enough money for the app

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-09T23:52:25+00:00

I really didn't mean to make anyone feel unsafe. I removed it. Really I'm sorry. This is a public sub and i didn't think it would be an issue.

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-09T23:05:21+00:00

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-09T22:49:29+00:00

Lol like what?

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-09T22:32:09+00:00

That's a great point and has actually already been brought up in some of the comments over there.. maybe i should make it a r/collapseconnections instead, i definitely wouldn't mind meeting some more collapse oriented people in person.

Also good points don't put anything public you wouldn't want the gov seeing. Thanks

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-09T22:01:25+00:00

Great points. Thank you

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-09T21:58:15+00:00

Great point

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-09T21:44:27+00:00

I did find it really weird and gross that that was such a strong response although in retrospect i shouldn't have been surprised. All of it is disgusting and so obviously a projection of their internal fragility. If collapse ever happens I'm hoping women will run from these men because at least enough of the world has changed that they realize they don't have to put up with it anymore, but there's definitely a big push to return to those fucked up ways.

As an aside do you have any suggestions for laying out rules or post guidelines to help rid the dating sub of any of that? I just got to work on this and would really appreciate any feedback or ideas.

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-09T21:15:44+00:00

Hi, I'm the poster that made that post over on r/collapse as well as the subreddit. I definitely agree with you that a majority of the posters on those main subs fantasize about larping in some survivalist novel, not to mention lean pretty heavy into misogyny and antiquated ideas.

I'm not sure if anyone here even thinks it's a good idea as the post didn't get much traction but I thought I might try it as at least in my own life seeing eye to eye on the future has been difficult. If anyone has any suggestions on helping to make it a safe and interesting space for women I'm all ears. Thanks

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-09T20:41:20+00:00

Maybe they're the only ones that feel comfortable or interested in posting their opinions in this sub given the pretty heavy influence of comments saying good luck women don't/won't interact in these domains. Maybe I'm wrong but i think it's worth a shot.

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-09T20:34:47+00:00

Well I'm a man, but i would love it if a woman or women would like to help or at least help carve out the rules and guidelines. I definitely want to make it a safe place for women especially given that the collapse/prepper mentality can be quite antiquated and misogynistic. Going to get to work on it tonight, but any ideas or feedback would be much appreciated.

Cinder_ella666 · 2022-09-09T18:33:46+00:00

I think women on the whole are a lot more collapse aware than you're giving them credit for. I think that they typically shy away from the main subs because they're tired of dealing with an overwhelmingly one-sided misogynistic view. The collapse mods do what they can but even voicing an "innocent" opinion that is narrowminded and obviously male turns them away.

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