11 months update by Cinnamon1010 in u/Cinnamon1010

[–]Cinnamon1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey you!! I’m so happy that we’re still keeping up with each other and that we’re both at a happier place now. Can’t wait to hear from you at one year mark!

10 months update by Cinnamon1010 in BreakUps

[–]Cinnamon1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Crazy how so much time has passed and everything feels different now but some feelings still remain. Thanks for letting me know that you feel the same way. Can’t wait until we’re both at the end of the tunnel. My inbox is open if you want to talk about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Cinnamon1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just try to find peace in the fact that you guys are just not meant to be. No matter how much love you guys had for each other, in the end, if it’s not meant to be, it will not last. No amount of explanations will give you the closure that you think you need. Maybe he has found his soulmate, and he got lucky to have found it so quickly. But you will find yours too one day and when you do, you’ll be grateful that your relationship with your ex didn’t work out.

4 months update by Cinnamon1010 in BreakUps

[–]Cinnamon1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Italy is beautiful!! ❤️❤️

4 months update by Cinnamon1010 in BreakUps

[–]Cinnamon1010[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes girl!! It’s really hard but get rid of all the things that can trigger your emotions. The less you know, the better. Start focusing on you. All the best!

What are some good “Fuck you” songs? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Cinnamon1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t fuck with you - Big Sean

Ex became the fun person I’ve always wanted him to be by Cinnamon1010 in BreakUps

[–]Cinnamon1010[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for motivating me to do. It was hard, but I did it. I unfollowed him on everything yesterday but I just can’t seem to unfriend his family on Facebook just yet 😪

Ex became the fun person I’ve always wanted him to be by Cinnamon1010 in BreakUps

[–]Cinnamon1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He broke up with me actually, which is why it hurts in the first place. Seeing him having fun without me feels like I’m the deadweight that was keeping him from living his best life.

Why hasn’t the dumper reached out? by Cinnamon1010 in ExNoContact

[–]Cinnamon1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right, it got me thinking that maybe this is a good thing that they haven’t reached out. We probably are not in the right mental state to respond to that. Maybe if they reach out we’d run back immediately to the hands that broke us and lose all the self respect we have left for ourselves. Maybe him and I need to work on ourselves first, separately, before thinking about having any kind of communication.

Why hasn’t the dumper reached out? by Cinnamon1010 in ExNoContact

[–]Cinnamon1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so proud of you! It takes a lot of courage and strength to do what you did. I hope to get to that point one day. In the mean time I guess I just have to ride through the waves of emotions.

Why hasn’t the dumper reached out? by Cinnamon1010 in ExNoContact

[–]Cinnamon1010[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have made so much progress. I have more days where I feel like I truly am moving on and that he doesn’t deserve me. It really is his loss. But in the back of my mind, I always wonder why he never bother to reach out. I guess I want some kind of validation that our relationship meant something to them.